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Archived questions from: January, 2014 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

First time sex and I didn't bleed... should I see my gyno?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3930 days ago

22 January 2014 (F) - Please i need an explanation i just had sex with my fiance for the first time,and he knows i am a virgin but the problem now is i didn't bleed at all just excruciating pains...please i don't know if that is normal or should i see the gynocologist ...

My boyfriend wont let go of my past!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

21 January 2014 (F) - Please, I need help with this. In the beginning of my relationship I made the treacherous mistake of telling my boyfriend about me giving oral to another guy, as I took it not very seriously and told him lots of details, it really got to him. ...

This habit is killing me from the inside!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

20 January 2014 (M) - hello .. i am 21 and a virgin... my problem is that though i do gymming and practice yoga at times .. i have a bad habit of masturbating on every alternating days. i don't have any girlfriend . i watch too much of porn and i can't stop myself from ...

We have a long history together and I love him but I don't know where this is all leading to...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

15 January 2014 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I, we were childhood friends. We grew up together, my ma used to babysit him and we went to church and school together. When we were kids we'd have movie nights and we would stay up watching until 4 am. We were really close. ...

The show is over before it even begins! Any tips on handling this problem?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3966 days ago

9 January 2014 (F) - We are both virgins, happy relationship, ready to have sex. Care about each other a lot, he's lovely. Everything else - oral, manual, foreplay - is great. But when we go to have sex, he cums immediately. Like, within a split second of going to ...

Does love exist still? Should I save my virginity for "The One"? I want a better marriage than my parents have.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3968 days ago

9 January 2014 (F) - Hey everyone :) So I'm 19 and still a virgin which is kind of part of the problem and not. Anyway I need to know am I being way too expecting of love and sex? My parents had a unsatisfactory marriage and still do. I grew up in a home where...

I'm his first in everything. How do we get comfortable with each other when he seems rattled by my sexual history?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3968 days ago

8 January 2014 (F) - Ok I'm just gonna come straight out with it, me and my boyfriend are both virgins but he's never been with any one before. Ever. I'm his first everything, first kiss, first hand hold! And that doesn't bother me at all, we've fallen for each oth...

Three months of dating and the honeymoon is over???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3969 days ago

8 January 2014 (F) - I’m currently in relationship with my boyfriend and we’ve been together for 3 months. We meet up every weekend in the day. I am feeling insecure in the relationship and I am worried the spark has gone. I feel like the honeymoon period is over and ...

We moved too fast so we are starting again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3972 days ago

6 January 2014 (M) - I've been dating this girl off and on for about 4 months now and i've clearly messed up by letting my emotions get in the way by having sex with her a couple of times, the 2nd month we've meet. I am deeply regretting having intercourse with her this ...

I have had sex but now find no interest in it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3972 days ago

5 January 2014 (F) - im 17 and lost my virginity about 6months ago and have since at sex a few times with 3 different guys. the first times it really hurt and now although it doesnt hurt, i have no interest in sex. i dont know if this is usual but i dont really feel ...

Sex hurts too much! Is it possible to just be sexually incompatible with someone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3972 days ago

5 January 2014 (F) - So I have what feels to me like a pretty awkward question. I've tried researching online but can't find anything useful. I've been with my boyfriend on and off for two years now. He took my virginity and we've always been great together. Apart ...

I am a 23 year old virgin stuck in limbo!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3970 days ago

4 January 2014 (M) - I'm a 22 year old virgin from Pittsburgh region of the US, and I have asperger's syndrome. I recently had a birthday and now I am down on myself again because I made it through another year of my life with not even a kiss and it is so upsetting. I ...

First time sex was difficult and I lost erection. Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3964 days ago

4 January 2014 (M) - 22 year old male, recently tried to have sex with my gf first time ever a week ago. I am a virgin, my gf is too a virgin. Its first time for both of us. I thought it might be easy to insert in her but indeed it was much more difficult. We cuddle...

Is this guy's behaviour normal? Though sex did not take place - twice he has tried to have sex, when I've been asleep, but his actions woke me each time, before it went further.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3976 days ago

1 January 2014 (F) - I recently had a sleepover at my boyfriend's. A few months back we lost our virginity to each other. While we have regular sex, I found it weird that he tried to have sex with me when I was sleeping. It did not happen once but twice during the nigh...