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male
age
30-35,
*toic Guy
writes:I've been dating this girl off and on for about 4 months now and i've clearly messed up by letting my emotions get in the way by having sex with her a couple of times, the 2nd month we've meet. I am deeply regretting having intercourse with her this early on without getting to know her on a personal level. This is the first time for both of us where we have moved this fast. I've tried not letting emotions get too much in the way. Then it would happen again. We enjoy each others company and clearly had feelings for each other (she has said herself) but when i asked her to be by girlfriend she wasn't sure because i know that the path i took with her wasn't the best. We both new the relationship moved too quickly but i had to ask due to all the things we did. She's a really great girl all around and didn't want it to end. So i told her we would start over and she agreed to give me another chance. The question Im asking is, "can this relationship be successful if i take the route i should have in the first place despite all we've been through already?" If there's any questions to ask me please do. Reply to this Question
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reader, Gauntlet  +, writes (6 January 2014):
 OK, here is my opinion, which is only AN opinion. I would say that story is quite funny as you had sex before being sure of your mutual feelings. That's very a 21rst century (twisted) love story, like that movies where the cop or the "good guy" kill someone before asking the corpse his questions.Second, I must tell you your "girlfriend" is quite an hypocrit as you both had sex two times, not just you fucking her against her will, you made it all together and as I said, not just one time - which could have been an error or sort of a "soft rape" - but two times. Two times !And now, she's telling you went too fast for her, and that she is not sure she is ready to give you her heart while she has already given her cunt ?Oh, my ! Don't make me laugh. If you don't find it funny as I do, that's maybe you are made one for the other and your story has good chances to work on a strange basis. Otherwise, there is something abnormal down there, that will make your story fail... without apparent good reasons. Be ready for that disappointment.
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