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Archived questions from: July, 2013 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

I need some tips on making my first time more pleasurable so I can relax and seem more like I know what I'm doing

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4154 days ago

31 July 2013 (F) - I'm in a very committed relationship.Im at the point where I want to have sex but I'm nervous because I'm a virgin. I just want some tips on what I can do to make it more pleasurable since they say it hurts your first time. I just need some tips t...

I feel jealous because this guy gets a girl who is a virgin even though he probably is not one.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

30 July 2013 (M) - This question might sound childish but it has been on my mind for quite sometime. I was dating this girl for awhile and found out she is a virgin. Now that is not the problem because I am one too but about a month ago I found out she was actually ...

Vvirginity! why does it matter ..... or not!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

30 July 2013 (F) - I'm reading a few of the questions on here and I'm super intrigued (and angry) about males' obsession with a girl being a virgin? Like really? Why does it matter? I would honestly rather not be a virgin (when I get married). But that's just ...

Dildo insertion is uncomfortable - I am a virgin. Any advice?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

29 July 2013 (F) - Question: I have a vibrator/dildo (and I'm a virgin), and when I insert it, it doesn't feel good. It doesn't feel (really) bad, just kinda uncomfortable. Am I do something wrong? Any advice? [i use some lube]...

After losing my virginity to an escort I am left wondering if sex is overrated

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4149 days ago

27 July 2013 (M) - Hi all, I just wanted to confess that I had just lost my virginity to an escort. She came to my place and had arranged a 1 hour session. To my surprise, I didn't couldn't stay fully erect all the time. I thought I would finish very quickly beca...

Thoughts on losing virginity to a ''friend with benefits''

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

27 July 2013 (F) - Ok so, this might sound really childish and terrible but I honestly have NO idea what to do and since the whole topic and question in hand is on my head I need help with the answer: Ive been in a ''Friends With Benefits'' relationship for about a ...

Boyfriend broke up with me for not having sex with him

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

24 July 2013 (F) - I am 21 years old and in college studying to be a registered nurse,recently I met a guy, he's very attractive and he asked me for my number, he texted me the same day asking me to come to his house.i told him no because it seems like he wanted sex ...

I'm modest and reserved but seem to attract guys who only want sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

23 July 2013 (F) - I seem to be attracting the wrong type of men and I have no Idea why ? I wonder if Im doing something wrong ? I have never been the type of woman to expose her body, I dress pretty classy, I wear clothes that accentuate my curbs, and may show a...

I'm wondering if girlfriend was a virgin?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4173 days ago

19 July 2013 (M) - hello dear aunts, I have recently start dating this girl, she has just turned 21. she recently confessed she was a virgin when we did it for the first time, however I've been skeptical. (sorry for being graphic) I gave her oral a few times, only ...

I am new to having sex but am worried something is wrong. I feel like I could pass out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4173 days ago

19 July 2013 (F) - i need some help. i had sex for the first time about two days ago. yeah i was nervous but also very comfortable since it was with my boyfriend who i love very much, and he also helped me feel comfortable. what i dont understand it right when i ...

Does getting oral still qualify you as a virgin?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4174 days ago

16 July 2013 (M) - hey guys just a quick question does geting oral qualify as being a virgin some people say yes others no if you can help please do...

Do we just need perseverance to be able to have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4179 days ago

12 July 2013 (M) - Hi I'm a 24 year old male who had been in a long term relationship for three years and then ended it fairly recently. I am now seeing someone else who is 23 and a virgin. I've had sex with a few girls before but never with someone who was a virgin...

Six dates already, why is he not asking me out again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4179 days ago

11 July 2013 (F) - Hi, So I have just started dating a guy about a month ago. At the beginning, I was very reserved and didn't kiss him till the 5th date. We always hang out and he always texted me after the dates saying he cannot wait to kiss me. I told him, I don't ...

He's my first, I'm not his. I find myself wishing I'd done more before I met him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4181 days ago

11 July 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend now for 6 months. Prior to getting closer, he explained early on that he's had 2 sexual encounters. One was oral (received/given) and the other was actual sex. He doesn't count it as real sex because the girl got on top ...

We've been together a week and now he wants to have sex! I don't know what to do!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4182 days ago

9 July 2013 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for a week now, he is asking me for sex ,we are both 14, i dont know what to do can you help me? x ...

Please help me - did I lose my virginity?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4185 days ago

6 July 2013 (F) - Over the summer I had a boyfriend we will always be together well anyways , one day we were at his bedroom and we got sexual he sticked his penus in me and I had pain but my question is if he sticked it in once did he pop my cherry ? when we got up ...

I'm having erections during the day. Is it because I'm young or have a high sex drive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4187 days ago

5 July 2013 (M) - Hello I'm 22 yrs old and I haven't had sex yet. My question is: I noticed that I have few erections when asleep and especially in morning which last for half or maybe an hour.also during the day I have erections ( not too many). Does this happen b...

I ejaculate immediately after penetration, am I a virgin? What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4186 days ago

4 July 2013 (M) - i dont know if i should say i broke my virginity or not because each time i try to hav sex i ejaculate the moment i put on a condom. I started having sex 3 months ago and in most cases i ejaculate immediatly after penetration.am scared to make l...

Lost my virginity months ago and still bleed every time I have sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4187 days ago

4 July 2013 (F) - i had just lost my virginity on valentines and everytime we have had sex i have bleed im worried and dont know what to do ...

My virgin boyfriend can't stay hard to have sex and makes me feel totally unattractive

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4156 days ago

2 July 2013 (F) - I'm 17, nearly 18 and I've been dating my boyfriend for about 3 and a half months. I was not a virgin when I first started dating him - I lost my virginity to my ex boyfriend - but my current boyfriend is still a virgin. At the beginning of our ...

My boyfriend is a virgin, has performance anxiety that makes me feel undesired.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4191 days ago

1 July 2013 (F) - I'm 17, nearly 18 and I've been dating my boyfriend for about 3 and a half months. I was not a virgin when I first started dating him - I lost my virginity to my ex boyfriend - but my current boyfriend is still a virgin. At the beginning of our ...