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Archived questions from: April, 2019 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

I know I can't trust him again but I also want to tell him let's work on it and can figure it out. What is wrong with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2039 days ago

25 April 2019 (F) - I've been dating a guy for about 2.5 months who is going through a separation. He has treated me better than anyone I've been with before and I was really starting to imagine a life with him. The gestures he made, how he made me feel, our ...

I don't think he's over his ex yet. What should I do now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2034 days ago

23 April 2019 (F) - To cut a long story short...A guy I’ve dated previously (but never been in a relationship with) and someone who remained a friend for about 5 years suddenly exited his toxic relationship of six months. I hadn’t seen this friend in a year or so but ...

Despite all the nonsense I still wanted him but the "Facebook relationship" woman he's never met in real life reaps all the benefits

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2042 days ago

22 April 2019 (F) - He is a typical Mr Unavailable. We were close once and we’d text all the time. I was coming out of a destructive relationship and soon our involvement became romantic. Despite his advances and “promises”, he was just unable to commit to a ...

How do we move past what I did?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1990 days ago

20 April 2019 (M) - Just a little background to begin.Married for 16 years,2 teenage kids,work and money have been a huge source of stress for the past year.My wife is often gone with one of my children out of town for sports most weekends for the past 2 years. over ...

I looked in fiance's tablet to find out he lied to me about where he was. Where do I go from here?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2044 days ago

19 April 2019 (F) - My fiancé plays soccer once a week with our mutual friends and also invites his colleagues. I tried it a few times but wasn’t into it and stopped going. Up until a month ago he would come home around 8 and we would have dinner together. Then, one ...

There is something wrong with me, as soon as we have sex I dump them!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2052 days ago

14 April 2019 (F) - I daydream about sex most if the time.I read about it, and I watch it. I also find dates, the person usually starts to like me and we hit it off, then we have sex, and then I immediatley cut them off, even if i've enjoyed it I just need to find ...

I think I am being manipulated into being Plan B

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2039 days ago

14 April 2019 (F) - My ex who dated me for almost 5 years suddenly blocked me on whatsapp and 3 weeks later sent me a break up letter. I did not react but I cried and still cry. I went online 2 days ago and saw that his ex wife has new pictures in his new house wh...

I suspect my ex set up my (now also an ex), boyfriend to cheat on me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2051 days ago

13 April 2019 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for about 3 months now. I go to his house every weekend for Friday and Saturday night, and he comes to my house usually to stay the night on Wednesdays. He's been a complete sweetheart to me and we had good plans for the ...

LDR wont introduce me to his teenager son which means we cant spend some weekends together

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2052 days ago

13 April 2019 (F) - I have been in a long distance relationship for 4 months He is 68yrs old has 15 yr old alternate wknds I am 62 one son 28 lives away he wont introduce me to his son so we can spend wknds together Am I being unreasonable? I work f/t m-f ...

Will he take me back even though I have acted like a nutter?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2050 days ago

13 April 2019 (F) - I posted once before - see http://www.dearcupid.org/question/everything-was-perfect-until-he-lost-his-nan.html Since then it’s all been pretty messy.. I went a little psycho for a while, kept trying to contact him etc to which he completely ignor...

I get dates but then I think there might be somebody better so I ghost them

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2051 days ago

13 April 2019 (M) - Hello everyone, I am looking for some help and would be grateful for your opinions. I'm single and looking for a woman, and I've had 13 dates so far this year. I'm not a fussy guy and I liked 9 of them. With 7 of these 9, I have had second or th...

I have neve wanted children, husband is being pressured to adopt his orphaned nephew

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2051 days ago

13 April 2019 (F) - My husband and I are both 29 and child free by choice. His sister and her husband, both 40, passed away in a car accident two months ago. They left behind a 9 year old who is currently living with my husband's parents. Long story short, his paren...

Looking back forces me to ask myself if every relationship is different.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2054 days ago

12 April 2019 (F) - I was going through old files and found a video of me singing with my ex... Yeah I know I can already see the "bad idea! Bad idea!!" red flags going up haha I'm long since over it. Today it's like a painful lesson that has taught me more empathy ...

She seems like a nice girl, but I think she is also a fake profile who follows me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2054 days ago

10 April 2019 (M) - Hi ladies and gentlemen Sorry, this is going to be a long and very weird story. I met a girl, we spent 1 day together (platonic) and it was nice. we kept in touch and grew closer but we live 9 hours by car away from each other so didn't see ea...

My mother threatens to cut me off over the clothes I wear

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 2040 days ago

10 April 2019 (F) - I'm a 31 year old woman who lives and works away from my parents. My parents were never the overly controlling kind, although my mother is kind of very conservative when it comes to certain things. She doesn't approve of partying or wearing ...

If he takes days to respond, is he not interested?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2053 days ago

9 April 2019 (F) - I met this guy online a few months ago, we live an hour away from each other. We were talking casually for about a month before meeting up. We had a great date and ended up hooking up afterwards. I wasn't planning on it but it sort of happened when ...

I think I got HPV from my new boyfriend which could only mean he's cheating on me, right?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2054 days ago

9 April 2019 (F) - I think my new boyfriend is cheating on me. I have recently been to the doctors because i am so tired and have a problem on my throat / back of my mouth. We use protection so i know im not pregnant. The doctor told me i have hpv. I know the only ...

I have to have dinner with the girl who rejected me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2055 days ago

8 April 2019 (M) - Hi To keep a long story short, I have to have dinner with the girl who rejected me, her parents and a few of her other friends. It's the first time I've seen her since she rejected me a few weeks ago. We're trying to be friends but i just ...

My boyfriend won't tell anyone that I'm a part of his life and I feel like a dirty secret

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2058 days ago

7 April 2019 (F) - My Boyfriend refuses to tell anyone about me he claims he is private . He won't even tell his parents about me claims he is fighting with his Mother... yet she text him every day he visits her at Christmas and she just sent him flowers. This has ...

I am willing but don't want to move too fast.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2057 days ago

7 April 2019 (F) - Dear Cupid I am single and have been for the last 20 yrs. Only thingvI do is work and come home to an empty house my children are grown and on their own. I really want to get back out in the dating world but I am afraid of getting hurt again my pass ...

How do I chose the one to spend my life with?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2058 days ago

6 April 2019 (F) - i got into so much mess its driving me insane. I cant find my way anymore im in two long term relationships one of 21 years and one of 2 years I don't know what to do. I cant seem to make a choice through uncertainty, feeling scared of the pain and ...

Its seems being committed is hard work.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2058 days ago

4 April 2019 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together nearly 4 years. We rent an apartment together and we have a good life. He's adorable and funny and kind, but sometimes I feel like I love him more as a friend than a lover, and I don't know if that's normal or ...

My older boyfriend wants me to pretend to be his daughter.

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 2056 days ago

4 April 2019 (F) - I dont think age should matter in a true loving relationship. My dad thinks otherwise and so I have moved out and anto my bf's place a few months ago. Although he is about 10 years older than me he is just so adorable. I like so love him to pieces ...

My boyfriend lost his business and has stopped talking to me and his friends.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2060 days ago

4 April 2019 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for over 10 months now, re just recently had to close down his business and is unemployed now. About 3 weeks ago he stopped talking to me, I thought I got mad at me so I leave him alone, 3 days in I texted him agai...

My husband is selfish, I am thinking of enlisting in the military.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2060 days ago

3 April 2019 (F) - My husband would not let me see his cell phone last night. I wanted to see the pictures from a birthday party, he said "No, I would go through his phone" and if I trusted him then I wouldnt have a issue with it. I am a stay at home mother 3 kids, he ...

Does he care or not care ... he keeps contacting me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2063 days ago

3 April 2019 (F) - I have an ex who reached out to me six months after ghosting me, and tries to pretend nothing came between us. I don’t respond, and he later replies in a passive aggressive manner as if to say “don’t worry I don’t care anyway”. A bit of history, ...

My boyfriend defends his ex when I get upset she visits when I am not there

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2063 days ago

1 April 2019 (F) - im asian and my bf is european, we been 5 month know each other and we already meet also with his parents, my case is i really dont like and never accept when my boy still welcome her ex, i know they was together 5 year before. this girl dont even ...