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Archived questions from: November, 2017 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

I'm obsessed with the man I had a little bit of fun with, 16 years ago!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2536 days ago

30 November 2017 (F) - This is really weird. So, some 16 years ago, I had a one night stand with this acquaintance - we traveled together to a new city with a group of friends and stayed in the same house. I was relatively sexually inexperienced and socially inept. The ...

He chose my friend over me but now I think he likes me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2546 days ago

29 November 2017 (F) - Me and this boy went out for about a month then broke up,he then turned for me for help cos he liked my friend.I got jealousy missed him and told him I love him.whilst he was making up his mind we were making out at mine.he then decided know and ...

He cheated on his boyfriend, do I tell?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2542 days ago

25 November 2017 (M) - I used to fancy a friend of mine, he knows but clearly has no interest I’m coping with that. Now his started going out with a guy 10 years younger than him, he told me they were fun buddies cause he couldn’t go out with someone younger than him...

I flirted with another man but I never meant to hurt my boyfriend. How do I convince him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2546 days ago

22 November 2017 (F) - Hello, I am looking for advice. Before I get into it, I take full responsibility for my own actions, and do not shift any of the blame onto my partner. I am merely stating what got me to the point of my betrayal. Me and my (Ex) boyfriend have b...

He's taken my wife. Should I be worried?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2556 days ago

21 November 2017 (M) - my wife an I have been married for 3 years. however things have been interesting for last 18 months. we have a neighbour Raymond who is divorced for a long time and is 44. he has two girls about 8 and 12. me and my wife are both 28. however 18 ...

I'm married but starting to get obsessed with the guy my husband and I had a threesome with

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2546 days ago

21 November 2017 (F) - Over a year ago my husband and i had a sexual threesome with a single male friend of ours after a night of drinking...this was totally my husbands idea..I was always attracted to this friend but had no intentions of taking it any furthur, even ...

I feel that my boyfriend's ex wife was living my dream life and I'll never match up to her

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2513 days ago

21 November 2017 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am off for the next week due to holidays and as my boyfriend is working, I offered to work on clearing out his storage. Now he has an ex wife of 10 years(divorced in 2009) and I brought home a ton of boxes that were never unpacked. ...

My world has come crashing down because my wife just told me that the daughter we've been raising is not mine but from her affair after the marriage!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2548 days ago

19 November 2017 (M) - My wife and i have been married for 3 years, 6 months ago she told me something that rocked my core. the daughter i have been raising is not mine. she had an affair 2 years ago. the reason she cheated was that she was a virgin when we got married ...

We still sext even though he has a girlfriend, how do I move on?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2549 days ago

18 November 2017 (F) - For the past two years ive been sort of sexting/sending the odd nude to this guy. Recently though he's gotten into a relationship, however we have still continued sexting etc. We've never slept together its strictly 'cyber'. A few weeks ago (I ...

My confidence is wrecked, I regret telling people the truth about my ex boyfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2555 days ago

18 November 2017 (F) - I just want to vent about a situation that still bothers me. Basically I had a 6 month relationship with a guy I worked with. He was the first person I'd been with after my marriage broke up. I guess because I was vulnerable and feeling really crap ...

I'm disappointed he saw a new movie with his brother instead of me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2549 days ago

18 November 2017 (F) - So my bf had a family funeral to attend this weekend. It is out of town far away. After the funeral he was bored so decided to go to see a movie that we planned to go see next week together. All he texted me was 'I think I am going to go see the ...

Does this guy who works with the man I'm sleeping with like me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2556 days ago

16 November 2017 (F) - Hello, I'm going to make this question as quick as possible haha! About 8 months ago, I got involved with my boss. He has just quit the company the day we slept together, so technically he wasn't my boss anymore that night, but you get t...

My sister's boyfriend kissed me and now we've been making out behind her back!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2564 days ago

13 November 2017 (F) - My sisters boyfriend kissed me what should I do?? I’m 15 years old and my sisters boyfriend is 19 they’ve been dating for about a year I’ve known him as long as she has known him. This all started about 3 months ago when he started grabbing...

I love someone more than my boyfriend. And I cheated on him with the other person.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2562 days ago

13 November 2017 (F) - So i recently cheated on my boyfriend. This is actually quite a long story but I’ll try to sum it up as much as possible. Early this summer I started talking to this guy, let’s call him James, we’ll james and I hit it off. He was perfect beyond ...

Walked into an awkward love triangle

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2563 days ago

12 November 2017 (F) - Hi, for the last 6 months or so I have liked one of the men (call him Tim) from my workplace. He is one of quite a few men and women that are in our lunch group and we all go out for drinks and things like that fairly often. He has been in a co...

My parents are separated, dad has a girlfriend who's not too great and my mom is spiralling out of control. Help me please

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2510 days ago

12 November 2017 (F) - Hi. My question today/tonight is about separation.. My parents have been separated since April 2016, They are still married but do not live together. I asked my dad nicely if he could pay for flights for myself and my mum to go over east to...

I'm sorry I took her back ... should I end it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2563 days ago

11 November 2017 (M) - SHould i end wid her? she and i came in relation even if she had a boyfriend back then. i somehow convinced her to come in relation. cuz i loved her. but she was kinda confused between him and me. been in relation for 2 months. i had to leave the...

Its a year of no contact with married man, I suspect his friends are contacting me on facebook.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2545 days ago

10 November 2017 (F) - Hello everyone. Thank you for taking the time to read my question. It's a messed up situation but I've been coming here off and on over the situation for a few years now. Several years ago and crush turned into a long term affair with a married ...

New Relationship Reflection, Age Gap and Polyamory

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2557 days ago

10 November 2017 (F) - I have been recently seeing a man that is 10 years older than me, I am 21, he is 31. Saw him at the bar and asked for his number, had a date, was pretty nervous but ended well with us making out and finding out we were really physically compatible. ...

Is online cheating okay?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2565 days ago

8 November 2017 (F) - OK! I found out that my boyfriend of 8 years has been going on adult dating sites looking for women to hook up he'd say he hopes they can come over see I'd stay at my daughters sometimes and baby sit. is cheating OK if there's no actual contact ...

I'm (21M) receiving ridiculously mixed signals from my best friend (18F)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2568 days ago

7 November 2017 (M) - I met this girl during the summer when she was single and 2 months fresh after her breakup with her 3-year relationship and after two months of just getting to know her, I confessed how I felt but at the time she rejected me because she wasn't ...

I'm 30 years old and my mother tries to rule my life!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2487 days ago

4 November 2017 (M) - I’m thirty years old and I don’t know how to deal with my mother anymore. She has been a fantastic mom to me, offering emotional support, taking care of me, making sure I’m okay, but lately I can’t stop fighting with her. And it’s always over...

Still missing the X-Factor... what does he have that I dont?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2572 days ago

4 November 2017 (M) - I might drive a Mercedes Benz, and he does not. I might hold a degree, have been to business school, and he does not and hasn't. Well before I perceived her as a love interest, I stepped in to fill in gaps regarding her father figure in life. ...