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Sex: Help and advice

Does he love me and want to express it this way, or is he just trying to get what he wants?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1870 days ago

29 September 2019 (F) - I told my long term boyfriend that I was getting my IUD taken out. I said to him that he would need to start wearing condoms. He said “no I don’t pull”. We have one child together already that was unplanned. He has not proposed but has no problem if ...

How do men feel about establishing exclusivity before sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1868 days ago

26 September 2019 (F) - How do men feel about establishing exclusivity before sex? Ideally, I prefer to only have sex with men I'm committed with, but I know that realistically both partners should know if they are sexually compatible before committing. Is it reasonable to ...

How would you handle your partner making such a comment?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1876 days ago

24 September 2019 (F) - I have been married for about ten years. I married later in life, being a career person and single parent before that. At first I was wildly in love with my husband, and ignored several red flags, thinking that with someone to love him that they ...

My best friend wants to get me interested in his fetish thing?!?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1876 days ago

21 September 2019 (F) - My male best friend who have known for the last 6 years He is into fetish wear and sex toys and games. He has confided in me and told me some info about his other life what interests him in this etc. He wants to get me now into it wearing outf...

Five years in, where is this going?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1883 days ago

16 September 2019 (F) - Wow! So I haven't come here for advice in a very long time, I hope you're all well! Hmm I don't really know where to begin. I am nearly twenty seven and my partner is early forties, we have been together just over five years. We are currently re...

Does my wanting to perform oral sex on a man make me Gay/Bi?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1791 days ago

15 September 2019 (M) - Hello, I have posted here before about a similar issue but it never got resolved and the sexual idenity confusion cycle continued. My question is does my persistent fantasy of wanting to give another man oral sex make me gay/bi? In the past ...

I really like the co-worker who I slept with but she's non committal and there's this other girl who's interested in me. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1884 days ago

14 September 2019 (M) - I’ll get right to it, I have a friend that’s also a coworker and we’ve been friends for years, and honestly I’ve always wanted more but haven’t expressed myself. Until recently, I expressed my feelings and we talked and it was just a line that we ...

We've been married a month and only had sex once

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1884 days ago

12 September 2019 (F) - I just got married a month ago and since then my wife and I had sex only once. On our honey moon we didnt have sex either. Today she came to me and said she wants to invest in her friends business and that she wants to help her friend by sending ...

Girlfriend and I went away together for a whole week and nothing happened sexually

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1888 days ago

10 September 2019 (M) - If you went away with your partner and you didn’t do anything in bed, would you consider that normal? It was a whole week and I never been so stressed, trying to plan things, make sure it’s all right, so it would of been nice to be intimate in our ...

I love sex but have a phobia about semen

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1888 days ago

9 September 2019 (F) - Ok this is probably going to sound weird but here goes... I think I have a phobia of semen. The idea of seeing a man 'finish' just repulses me. I can't deal with the thought of a man finishing inside me either. That's not to say I don't like sex. ...

Is it normal for a man to become nasty and aggressive over not having enough sex?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 1887 days ago

8 September 2019 (F) - is is normal for a man to become nasty and aggressive over not having enough sex because that is how my boyfriend is and I give him lots of sex five times a day every weekend. I feel like his constant pressure is starting to put me off him and sex ...

My husband wants me to dress up as a horse!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1887 days ago

4 September 2019 (F) - My husband wants me to dress up as a horse ?! We have been married nearly 20 years and had a “normal” sex life with regular loving sex. The most adventurous we do is phone sex and I do enjoy it. I ride horses and wear jodhpurs all the time - he jok...

How do I communicate with my boyfriend about how I feel towards this topic?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1859 days ago

4 September 2019 (F) - Hello, I am a 23 year old female and my boyfriend is 26. Recently I feel like my boyfriend has been acting strange. I have noticed some changes. He is a really nice guy and good to me and my family. He is also good with his family as well. A littl...

Can a relationship work and last if it began with an affair?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1893 days ago

2 September 2019 (F) - It’s messy it’s complicated but I need advice. I started working in a local bar about 8 months ago. I’m 24 and when I started working there I met a man he’s 40. It started as friendly. He would always advise me on customers and always told me ...