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Sex: Help and advice

My partner betrayed me by breaking our swinging rules

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2268 days ago

27 August 2018 (F) - Me and my partner tried swinging it was his idea. Before I drank alcahol I told him what I was and was not ok with and that he should respect my wishes. He said ok. I got drunk and he broke all the rules (sex and kissing) I had discussed with h...

My will be joining another couple for a threesome

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2265 days ago

26 August 2018 (M) - So let me start by saying my wife and I have been married for 8 years an are blessed/ deeply in love. So last night we had a couple over for cocktails, I was at work when they arrived and when I got there my wife was already buzzed and was acting v...

Lack of sex is causing me to feel unloved and unwanted. I'm a newlywed!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2270 days ago

25 August 2018 (F) - I need direction and I am so lost. My newly wed husband and I dated almost a year before we married. Engaged for only 3 months I thought this is what I have waited so long for. after the first night of our honeymoon I had this gut feeling something ...

Accidental work fling with a subordinate

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2273 days ago

22 August 2018 (F) - I began a new job back in October - which was my first real directing title. At the time I was given a number two as well as any other team members I needed to develop the area. In the beginning it was very hard for me and my no.2 to see eye to e...

I’m not a sex doll with a bottomless purse and no needs of my own!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2273 days ago

20 August 2018 (F) - I've been with my bf for 3 and a half years. Recently we are not getting along. I had a great job but I found out they were going to replace me so I quit. I tried to find a new job and I couldn't find one for 2 months. Which meant my partner had to ...

What should I do about this married, flirting floozy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2272 days ago

19 August 2018 (M) - I have a friend and shes always says she love me. Shes married to She once said I love you more then you know what is she trying to say to me. She flurts with me to. I dont know what to do....

I feel very betrayed and hurt.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2275 days ago

19 August 2018 (F) - Hello, So I’m writing this because me and my boyfriend a we’re having trouble and he broke up with me. However, he said he would give me a chance to work on things and see whether we would get back together or not. I thought we were working on ...

I think this 15 yo boy will probably want sex!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2275 days ago

19 August 2018 (F) - i am a 13 year old . this guy is very cute and i like him a lot . and he asked me if i wanted to have sex with him and i told him “ rpprobably not maybe i’ll succ you tho “ and yeah he is 15 and is not a virgin and i’m 13 and i am . ughhh idk what ...

Does my wife really believe we need this money this bad?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2274 days ago

18 August 2018 (M) - I'll try to keep it short. My wife picked up a small second job cleaning/taking care of an elderly man (80's) 20 hours a week. She heard of this guy through a customer at her waitressing job. Guy is paying her $20 an hour under the table. Pr...

Did I just get used for sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2274 days ago

18 August 2018 (F) - So I've known this guy for a while and last week our texts turned sexual and he said do I want to meet with him. So we met we were kissing, we held hands we had a good time. Then he asked if I wanted to have sex with him I said I couldn't because I ...

After 28 years of marriage I just feel sad.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2274 days ago

18 August 2018 (F) - M Y husband and I have been married for 28years. We have 3 children. We had our own cleaning business which went bankrupt. Whilst working in our family business I also had a 4 day a week external job. He now has a casual care taker job. He works ...

I always find some flaw in men, am I a full-blown lesbian?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2278 days ago

18 August 2018 (F) - Hi, I am 32 and reevaluating my life. I have noticed a pattern of freaking out from liking the same sex. I must admit that I think I'm definitely into the same sex because I am attracted to them physically. I haven't yet gone on a date and don't k...

How does someone go about meeting other bi-curious people?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2274 days ago

17 August 2018 (F) - I am a 40 something woman who is interested in exploring my bi-curiosity. I have had a couple drunken make outs with girlfriends when I was in my twenties but no other experiences to speak of. I am divorced and dating a man but my desire to have a ...

She likes slaps and I like kisses. We have a baby girl but I don’t see how this will work!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2279 days ago

16 August 2018 (M) - More than a year ago, I started dating a girl who I was exactly smitten by but wanted to see how things would progress. I was introduced to her via a friend so I really wanted to see where things would go. During the first few weeks, we got on ...

How long after hooking up do I wait before texting him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2279 days ago

15 August 2018 (F) - I went out with a guy I've known for a while but we started talking differently recently so last night we hooked up and one thing led to another. He said he would be busy this week with work and he suggested we maybe hook up on Sunday. So how long ...

My body turned him off ... he preferred to watch porn.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2275 days ago

15 August 2018 (F) - I split up with my boyfriend of 10 years a few months ago and he's really effected my self esteem. He said quite hurtful things about my body, I'm just looking for some opinions from guys about what kind of imperfections would really put you off. ...

Is it normal to have an orgasm this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2281 days ago

14 August 2018 (F) - Hey Guys, I'm a virgin. I was wondering if it's normal to have an orgasm just by playing with my nipples... cuz i have a very quick orgasm within just 3 minutes of teasing the nips.I don't even have to stimulate the clit; the work get's done with ...

How do I find a match? I have herpes!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2281 days ago

12 August 2018 (F) - I'm wanting to start dating in the future and eventually attract a soulmate to share a life with. However,I have herpes (HSV-2); how do I keep myself emotionally safe? This will mean opening emotionally. ...

Could he be gay? Is he not attracted to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2281 days ago

12 August 2018 (F) - I am now wondering whether my husband might be attracted to men and not women... My husband and I met online about a year and a half ago, we dated for about a year when he proposed. He was keen on getting married even just a month into dating, whi...

What is it with guys and porn? He has me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2281 days ago

10 August 2018 (F) - I'm in a long term relationship, we're both in our mid twenties. We live together and both work from home so we spend a lot of time together. My bf watches porn while i'm in the shower. We have sex twice a month since I stopped initiating. I k...

My girlfriend lied about her sexual past. How do I trust her?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2280 days ago

9 August 2018 (M) - I have been dating this girl for four years now and have asked about past relationships with guys in the beginning of our relationship . She had told me that she slept with three guys, two boyfriends and a friend, when telling me about her ...

My boyfriend's sexual past worries me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2281 days ago

9 August 2018 (F) - Im currently dating this man whose been sexually active since a very young age. Well at first he didn't tell me about it, everything was going awesome, until we got too comfortable and he decided to share some personal things about him. He told me ...

She’s a good wife and a good mother, but did she break me too much? Will I ever forget what she put me through?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2288 days ago

8 August 2018 (M) - My current wife and I dated from 2011 till now. I never had any reason to think she was ever unfaithful, but she talked a lot about ex boyfriends, and she had cheated on a number of them. We got engaged in 2014. And were supposed to get married i...

Is this just a one night stand or something more?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2283 days ago

6 August 2018 (F) - Okay people I need opinion here.... especially from a guys perspective!! So i met a guy from my old state through social media. He contacted me first asking about hiking trails in the new state I was located. He was helping move his mom here whe...

I love my girlfriend but don't enjoy sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2290 days ago

5 August 2018 (F) - I'm in a relationship with another girl and have known her 2 years. I do love her but I don't enjoy having sex at all. I don't know if it's because I don't physically fancy her that much or because I can't be bothered to have sex. I find it boring ...

Why does my partner fall asleep during oral sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2291 days ago

4 August 2018 (F) - My partner has done exactly the same, fallen asleep during a blowjob! This is the 2nd time now he has done it, I’m starting to think it’s me that’s making him fall asleep whilst giving him a boring blowy. I know I’m rubbish at giving head as it is ...

What's a healthy approach to make sure I never end up forgetting about me along the way when I meet a guy again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2293 days ago

2 August 2018 (F) - I broke up with my long term boyfriend about 3 months ago now and I genuinely have lost all form of sex drive whatsoever. I used to have a really high sex drive during the relationship, masturbated, etc and now I couldn't think of anything worse. R...

I don’t like intercourse but like oral!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2294 days ago

1 August 2018 (F) - Intercourse VS oral..... Which is better? I don't like having sex but I love giving and receiving oral sex. Is this a problem? ...