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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I am a 40 something woman who is interested in exploring my bi-curiosity. I have had a couple drunken make outs with girlfriends when I was in my twenties but no other experiences to speak of. I am divorced and dating a man but my desire to have a same-sex experience just seems to be getting stronger. I've always identified as heterosexual but honestly, I've never been faced with the opportunity to explore my sexuality fully. I feel like my sexuality is fluid and I am interested in exploring it. How does someone go about meeting other bi-curious people?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (23 August 2018):
 Have you spoke to your partner about this and is he okay with you exploring that side? In hindsight you would be cheating so I think you need to discuss this with him.
As a starting point maybe you could try internet dating for a while and see if anybody pops up there, but be sure to explain that you are looking to experiment so that someone doesn't get hurt.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts  +, writes (18 August 2018):
 Your bi-curiosity doesn't excuse cheating. That's wht this would be unless your boyfriend is happy for you to do it.
It's also easy to find people, but you need to be honest that you're just experimenting because lots of people don't want to be your guinea pig.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2018): Don't assume all men want a bit curious woman, if you want to experiment then really you should be single, or at least be open with your boyfriend.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious +, writes (17 August 2018):
 You need to decide what you want most: your boyfriend or to "explore your sexuality". In fairness, you cannot have both at the same time - unless you have discussed this with your boyfriend and he is ok with it.
There are so many dating sites these days, and I have seen many ads from people like you, who want to "dabble". Put yourself out there. Be honest, don't lead anyone on and see what happens.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (17 August 2018):
 You are dating someone right now.. Is he OK with you... "experimenting" with women?
Would you be OK if he wanted to "experiment" with men?
I think you need to have a little more respect for your relationship and either dump him so you can be SINGLE and do as you please, not become a cheater because your "desires" have become stronger. That is a lousy excuse to cheat.
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