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Love stories: Help and advice

Do I pay for his band or does he?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - my bf and i have been discussing the kind of ring that i want for engagement and the kind of bands we want. Do i pay for his band or does he? He hasn't brought this up but i'm sure it would come up eventally. ...

Should I try and find her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5653 days ago

31 May 2009 (M) - a year ago when i was 15 i was in this one school and there was a girl who was a grade older than me and every now and then in school we just said hi to eachother. then one day i was on the bus that she was on and i went and sat next to her and we ...

What was the meaning of her looking at me this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

31 May 2009 (M) - sometimes in church our eyes usually meets that's i and a girl of about 17.when our eyes meet we shyly remove it.it was one sunday on which i went to church alone just by coincidence our eyes met we look ourselves for close to 25 seconds before i ...

In need of romantic inspiration!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - Hi there. I am currently single, and enjoying my life. I am doing quite a lot of dating, and getting to know different men in order to figure out what i want. I came out of a 5 year relationship last year, as i just didnt feel fufilled enough. ...

Irresistable urge to contact my first love!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

27 May 2009 (F) - ok--16 years ago and counting, i still think about the first boy i was ever in love with. i was 13. i think we would have dated, but i wasn't allowed to go to his house when he invited me over, so at school we held hands and put our arms around e...

Is it possible to fall in love with someone you have never met?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

26 May 2009 (F) - is it possible to fall in love with someone u have never met but just spoken on the phone constantly probably a year ...

A long tale of cheating ex boyfriends and mistrust. Is there any hope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5659 days ago

22 May 2009 (M) - Ok this is a long read so im saying sorry now.... It started a few months ago i met this girl who lets say is called sue (Not real name)who I really got on with (I was with Jane (not real name) at this point who i did cheat on with sue ) (Not ...

I know I'm ready for marriage, but logically am I too young?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

19 May 2009 (M) - Hello, im 18 years old and my girlfriend is 20 we have been together for a long time now, and she and i have been talking about marriage i know im ready for it and i know she is too.. but logically am i too young?...

5 Ways to Keep Love Alive

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5668 days ago

13 May 2009 (F) - 1. Communicate regularly. There are three types of communication in relationships: informational, disruptive, and connective. Informational communication includes facts or requests like, “We need milk, can you pick some up on your way home?” ...

Compromises for the economics of love and friendship

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

13 May 2009 (?) - This has a multi-part question and may be a bit long. I apologize beforehand for the misfortune of having anyone read it, if they choose to. As I age, I have grown weary of the economics of all kinds of relationships. Lingering friendships that...

My time is running out as an era is ending. HELP !!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 May 2009 (M) - Hi. Please help me as I'm running out of time. Please skip to the end for the problem but it's easyer to understand Reading the full thing. I've known my friend who is a girl for about 5 years now, we know each other so well we even say "lov...

A guy I like is leaving for the military, should I go with him or move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - I need help. Ive fallen for this guy who doesnt want a relationship right now because hes leaving for the military and he doesnt want a long distance relationship and neither do i. But we both really like each other and make each other very happy. I ...

Lost love - normal to see them in another person?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

7 May 2009 (F) - Hello there, I have a small question to ask. When you fall in love with someone, you become completely attached to them and devote your time, self and thoughts to them, right? But, if you lose them, either through death, distance or just ...

What is this and what does this mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - Whenever I remember something that I did with my boyfriend, I get this sort of warm feeling in my chest. What is this and what does this mean? ...

Do I give him a second chance or move on?

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5 May 2009 (F) - what do you do when you just let the love of your life walk out? i had chased him enough and it got the point when i wouldnt want to fight at all i would just cry and open the door. i got sick of him tell me we couldnt be because he doesnt have ...

Love my husband but feel the temptation to cheat on him with a co worker, what should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

5 May 2009 (F) - Help, I am married and I think my co-worker and I are falling for each other. I started a new job in a new country about 5 months ago. It was the first job I had in a long time where I've really enjoyed my colleagues and the work I've been doing,...

LONG Love story... need perspective, please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

4 May 2009 (M) - hi. I've posted on here before and its most likely my falt but I don't believe that the entirety to my problem is coming off correctly. all names are fake. I fell in love. doesn't sound like a problem now but just wait. I've been in love before a...

I can't move on as I still love my ex gf! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

2 May 2009 (M) - I'm going to be honest with myself by saying this, I still love my ex and I want her back. She broke up with me saying she didn't have time for a relationship what with work, having 2 horses to look after and train plus being a scout leader. ...

How do I know or find out if my friend still likes me like he did a year ago?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - Soo heres the thing. At least a year and a hald ago, my best friend asked me out. At the time i couldnt date, so i had to say no, and he understands that. Now that i can date, i would reallly really really! love to be his girlfriend...but i dont ...

I don't know how to break my engagement to my parents!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

1 May 2009 (F) - I am 25 and I have been dating a 42 year old man for almost 1 year. I live in a different state then my family and none of them have met him yet. He is the sweetest guy I have ever dated, he is respectful, caring and I love him. He asked me to marry ...