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Archived questions from: September, 2014 (see latest in Friends with Benefits category)

Friends with Benefits: Help and advice

I know he's a player but my gut says he really likes me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3705 days ago

29 September 2014 (F) - ok so here goes.. I met this guy in march just after i broke up with my ex and we hit it off straight away! its like we just had this little spark as soon as we met each other. I knew he was a player from the beginning and had commitment issues b...

Why was my sister friend so rude to me and why are women so mean to each other?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3707 days ago

26 September 2014 (F) - A few months ago my younger sister ( who lives in another state) got married, smallish amount of people around 60, at the end of the night there were buses that took us from the venue to the car park in the town where we all had parked car...

If it's FWB why does he care who I date?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3708 days ago

26 September 2014 (F) - Hey everyone, I have been in a sexual relationship with a colleague of mine for almost a year now. Prior to anything sexual, he made it clear that he did not want any emotions or attachments to form once we had sex. He also stated that we w...

My FWB guy said I love you..was it just post sex emotion?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3710 days ago

23 September 2014 (F) - 4 years ago I had a brief fling with a guy. It didn't work out but it was good while it lasted. About 6 months ago we bumped into each other after a night out and exchanged numbers. Since then we've had a fwb situation going on. We spoke about it ...

We are just friends now but got intimate the other night, help me understand him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

16 September 2014 (F) - I've been dating my flat mate he is 28 I'm 44 we got on realy well sex was so intense we are now just friends but I have strong feelings for him he says he thinks the world of me what does he mean by this? We got intimate the other night I don't ...

I committed the ultimate sin of friendship and I slept with one of my bestest, oldest friends.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

16 September 2014 (F) - The other night I committed the ultimate sin of friendship and I slept with one of my bestest, oldest friends. I was the one who suggested it on a night out that ended up just us two - proposing we try a FWB type relationship. He was surprisi...

How can I let the anger towards him go away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3719 days ago

15 September 2014 (F) - I know (or think) I don't love him anymore, but there is still anger towards him, because he didn't treat me right, partially it was my fault because I loved him and hoped one day he would love me too. We were friends, then we dated for a short ti...

We're no longer together but I was offended by his actions

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3718 days ago

14 September 2014 (F) - I went to a wedding recently with an ex bf. we didn't go as a couple but we went together because we were both invited, our mutual friends would be there as well. during the wedding I noticed him talking to this girl on the dance floor. then I saw ...

Should I try again and contact my ex after 30 years apart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3719 days ago

14 September 2014 (F) - Hello 30 years ago I broke up with my fiancee when we were in our twenties. We had enjoyed 7 years together and shared lots of interests and he was a good, fun, kind, interesting and loyal boyfriend. But we had been together since our teens and, a...

Three years of emails and now he wants FWB?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3721 days ago

12 September 2014 (F) - When I have known someone for three years and there is no relationship. Just emails. Three dates for coffee and chatting. Emails only. Now he has indicated he can only be friends with benefits as that is the only thing that works for him he ...

Could random kisses during a casual sex encounter mean anything more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3724 days ago

9 September 2014 (F) - A guy I've been casually having sexual relations with for the past 2 weeks brought me over to his place for sex. Before his place, we stopped at the supermarket for dinner. We were chatting in the car as he parked, and I laughed about something ...

Uncles, after a certain age do you find it impossible to engage with anyone new emotionally? Did you feel like that but then fell in love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3727 days ago

7 September 2014 (M) - Imagine the situation. You're a man in your late 40s, you left a pretty grim, loveless marriage a couple of years ago and are now living on your own. You like the feeling of freedom, but are sexually frustrated - you think to yourself "All I need is ...

He's hot one day and cold the next. Is this FWB going stale or does he want it to become more than FWB?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3728 days ago

6 September 2014 (F) - I was wondering if anyone could give me an outside perspective of my puzzling situation. I'm 24yrs old and have what I assume to be a friends with benefits with a guy 16yrs my senior. We started hanging out 2months ago. we clicked instantly ...

What does he think now that he's seen that I'm really not skinny?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3731 days ago

3 September 2014 (F) - Ok, so bare with me on this. I'm 24 and I have a "sex friend". We have been seeing each other for just over a year now, but I'm not a skinny girl, and you can see I'm not skinny. I'm a curvy 16 and I've never gotten completely naked with him. I've ...