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Archived questions from: 20 October, 2014 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I like guy 1 but I have this niggling fear that he would be a cheat!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3690 days ago

20 October 2014 (F) - I met 2 gypuys round about the same time 2 months ago and having been seeing them both for the past 2 months. I haven't told either of them that I'm seeing someone else and i don't know if either of them are seeing anyone else. I can't quite deci...

Should I tell her I've never kissed a girl before?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3470 days ago

20 October 2014 (M) - I have a date with a girl this weekend but I'm nervous because I've never actually kissed a girl before. I'm not saying we're going to kiss on the first date but if it goes well, who knows. What I want to know is, if we do kiss, should I tell her ...

After enduring so many personal difficulties I now discover the man I've started seeing is HIV positive

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

20 October 2014 (F) - Hi everybody. Please don't judge me, I feel horrible enough. I just want some advice and opinions please. I have had a difficult last ten years probably. My father had an affair and as a result of that my mother and father divorced. They a...

I gave an ultimatum to my boyfriend: start talking about your feelings or lose me.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3690 days ago

20 October 2014 (F) - So, i've been searching on google about giving ultimatums and all of them are related to getting married and stuff. Mine is way more simple. Basically, our stone in the path of our two year relationship has been his constant closure towards love and ...

My best friend said its either her or my boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3690 days ago

20 October 2014 (F) - Please help! I recently fell out with my best friend of 11 years. the reason we fell out was a little to to with alcohol and alot to do with our boyfriends! basically me n my friend used to see eachother every weekend we went to university toget...

Do I accept the offer from my ex? Or continue to put up with my Bf ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3688 days ago

20 October 2014 (F) - Hi, I will try and keep things factual! I have a bf who I have been seeing for 4 years, we don't live together but there is a strong feeling of love between us. He tried to move in last year but I stopped him because I wasn't ready. partly because ...

How should I apologize to my Bf? I spoke to him harshly about his video game playing

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3692 days ago

20 October 2014 (?) - Hey everyone My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months and we do fight occasionally. Yesterday however i accidentally blurted out "Fine go play your games that seems so precious to you" and I really didn't mean to say that. It's video ...

How long is the average time people date before getting engaged?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

20 October 2014 (F) - How long is average for people to date before the get engaged? I am curious because one of my friends met a guy and married within a year. One of my friends got engaged after a year and married within another six months. Another got engaged three ...

Been single for 9 months. So why am I attracted to Players and Commitment Phobic men?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

20 October 2014 (F) - i find myself stuck. Iam really attracted to good looking men who are commitment phobic/players. I've tried dating the nice guy and i get really bored and not at all interested. Ive been single 9 months now and i just want a good relationship. sick ...

Have I ruined my life as a result of having an affair with a married man at a vulnerable time in my life.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

20 October 2014 (F) - For a period of time from 2011-2013, I had an affair with a married man. I make no excuses for my behavior, which was terrible, but I had earlier that year been assaulted, had gotten out of a long-term relationship, and my self-esteem was at all t...