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writes:I have a date with a girl this weekend but I'm nervous because I've never actually kissed a girl before. I'm not saying we're going to kiss on the first date but if it goes well, who knows. What I want to know is, if we do kiss, should I tell her I've never kissed a girl before? If so, should I tell her before or after the kiss, or not say anything at all.All advice is welcome and thanks in advance. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2015): at your age I would imagine it is still acceptable.
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (21 October 2014):
 No do not tell her. That is soft. cmon man. Just make eye contact smile hold a door or two but dont pick up her tampon if it falls out of her purse. Be a gentleman but not a kiss ass. Do not show up with bears n flowers and all this crap. Use that to amplify attraction not create it. Be cool calm and importantly, confident in every aspect of body language and conversation. Good luck.
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reader, Auntie_C  +, writes (21 October 2014):
 Personally, I wouldn't tell her straight out. Let her ask first, trust me most girls go on a question spree. I'm victim to that myself, haha!
Side Note: Some advice on the kissing part itself... don't SUCK and gag her with tongue. Let your mouth linger with hers, and dance with her tongue playfully. You'll do good I'm sure. Either way good luck! God bless.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (21 October 2014):
 I would tell her if she seems very friendly. She could feel very special that you are her first and be understanding that you can be nervous. I don't think it matters when you say it. Very few girls would actually respond negatively that you never kissed. So if that happens they are not the ones for you because they are shallow. You should try holding her hands first, then at the end of a date try to find somewhere to sit down and talk.
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