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Archived questions from: April, 2019 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

What is the best way to reject this persistent guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2069 days ago

23 April 2019 (F) - There is a guy at work (we work in separate departments) and he is always trying to chat me up. I thought he just wanted to be friends a "friendly co-worker" relationship, but I bought up about a vacation trip and said I went with someone and his ...

Despite all the nonsense I still wanted him but the "Facebook relationship" woman he's never met in real life reaps all the benefits

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2068 days ago

22 April 2019 (F) - He is a typical Mr Unavailable. We were close once and we’d text all the time. I was coming out of a destructive relationship and soon our involvement became romantic. Despite his advances and “promises”, he was just unable to commit to a ...

I like a girl and I don't have any expectations of her liking me back. How do I tell her about my feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2071 days ago

18 April 2019 (M) - Hi So to cut a long story short. I really like a girl, I believed she liked me for a while but now I think she doesn't. It's mixed signals which usually means they're not into you. I can't really move on until I know for sure as I always want t...

Should I tell my former professor how I feel about him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1980 days ago

17 April 2019 (F) - its been about 6 six years now since I left college and I got along really well with my maths teacher and I started to develop strong passionate feelings towards him , I was aware it was not appropriate so I have never told anyone or him . just...

Could this teenage boy be having a CRUSH on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2078 days ago

13 April 2019 (F) - Do teenage lads get crushes on middle aged female authority figures? This is a bizarre situation and you can rest assured nothing will be acted upon - but as a female tutor in her late 40s I work with young men of teenage years aged about 16 or...

I'd like to be more than friend's ... and am debating whether to send a fb request

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2079 days ago

12 April 2019 (F) - So I’m wondering when it’s appropriate to add someone on Facebook. I’ve had a crush on a girl for a while but I haven’t really got the guts to talk to her, we’ve spoken briefly but it’s in her work and I think it’s inappropriate to flirt with ...

I have to have dinner with the girl who rejected me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2081 days ago

8 April 2019 (M) - Hi To keep a long story short, I have to have dinner with the girl who rejected me, her parents and a few of her other friends. It's the first time I've seen her since she rejected me a few weeks ago. We're trying to be friends but i just ...

I'm really confused about this guy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2083 days ago

7 April 2019 (F) - So, me and this guy have been talking. It was ok. Then he sends a message saying I've been thinking long and hard about your messages. If it was the the other way around you would you would cause for concern. So, dont apologise again. Im not up for ...

I am willing but don't want to move too fast.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2083 days ago

7 April 2019 (F) - Dear Cupid I am single and have been for the last 20 yrs. Only thingvI do is work and come home to an empty house my children are grown and on their own. I really want to get back out in the dating world but I am afraid of getting hurt again my pass ...

I have a crush on my boss - How do I get over it, and fast?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2083 days ago

5 April 2019 (F) - Hi there - thank you for reading... So I am a Personal Assistant (Secretary in some countries) and I have a really good working relationship with my boss. My issue is that I have started dreaming about him and have started to develop a bit of...

I cannot flirt, create a spark or connect sexually with women

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2086 days ago

5 April 2019 (M) - I find it impossible to give off sexual vibes. I revert straight into a friendship style of communication. If there’s ever any slight indication of sexual interest from someone I freak out and go into a seemingly calm and causal interaction which ...

His words say "just friends" but his actions say otherwise!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2076 days ago

4 April 2019 (M) - I've become very close friends with another guy over the past 2 years (both of us gay). He's so warm and natural to be around. After the first six months of our friendship I told him I had feelings for him but he said he was just looking to be ...

I'm unhappy in my relationship but feel stuck because we live together and share a rental contract.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2086 days ago

3 April 2019 (F) - So backstory: I've been in a relationship for 2 years and recently I've been thinking a lot about how he doesn't really make me happy anymore. I've spoken to a few friends about this and they have suggested breaking up which is much easier said than ...

How do I carry on being professional when I have a crush on my married boss?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2089 days ago

1 April 2019 (F) - Recently I have had to spend more time working closer with my boss. I have never really had much to do with him on a one to one basis and so have not really thought much about him or his home life. Have now found out he has been married for over ...