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Archived questions from: July, 2018 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

I rejected my ideal guy years ago, and now he's with someone else and it's driving me crazy. Help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2331 days ago

30 July 2018 (F) - Hey, I'm writing this partly to get it off my chest and partly because I need to change something about this situation, even if it's just my way of thinking about it. 5 years ago I was single, much more stupid than I am now, and met a brillia...

What does this type of hug mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2336 days ago

29 July 2018 (F) - I was getting ready to leave my friend's house when I asked him for a hug. He accepted by stretching his arms out towards me, inviting me in. At first, he had his hands on my upper back. Then, after a few seconds, he decided to lower them down to my ...

A minor bump in the road is my parents! How to convince them to let me send him off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2334 days ago

29 July 2018 (F) - Hi all :) Currently I’m seeing a guy who will be moving to the US very soon to complete his education. My parents are aware that I’ve been seeing him and going out with him. (I need to let them know because I’m currently living at home for the sum...

I had sex with my best friend now I want to be his girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2233 days ago

29 July 2018 (F) - So I have been best friends with an American man for about 12.5 years now, we met online and started as penpals , we have emailed nearly every day for 12 years and always ring each other and there for each other if we were going through a tough ...

Not sure what to do as I am in a long term relationship but developed feelings for another!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2332 days ago

29 July 2018 (M) - Hey Dear Cupid, I am confused and conflicted. I am in a long term relationship and have developed feelings for a work colleague. This is my first crush in a long time and this colleague is definitely my type, introverted, intelligent and ...

I’m not sure what to do about these feelings I’ve developed for her! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2335 days ago

29 July 2018 (M) - Sorry in advance for the novel. I (21M) started getting really close to my supervisor (24F) at work last summer. As we worked together more and more, she would flirt a little, and I would just act casual. I even remember one instance where she ...

Why were these girls staring and giggling at me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2339 days ago

26 July 2018 (M) - I had a crush on a girl from last semester's class and at the start of the new semester I walked past her and her friend, probably a distance of 200m. I saw her friend out and about the night before randomly and we both said a friendly hi. The thing ...

Crush on brothers best friend/ nanny’s son (SO CONFUSED)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2341 days ago

23 July 2018 (F) - Ok so 6 years ago, I was 8, and my parents recently had gotten a divorce. Being the charming man my dad is, he found a nanny at church to watch us and cook for us in a little less than a year. My nanny, that we still have today, also has two sons. ...

It looks like he's interested in me but then why doesn't he approach me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2342 days ago

22 July 2018 (F) - There is this guy at my local gym who I have seen for months now and I am very attracted to him and I think he feels the same way. His 24 and I'm 21 (to put things into perspective), he has had his friends 'stake' me out from afar, watching what I ...

I met him 2 weeks ago and am wondering is this a friendship or a rebound?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2347 days ago

17 July 2018 (F) - I am 25 and have been single for a year now. Two weeks ago, I met a guy at a party who works with a friend of mine. We hit it off and talked nonstop. Later that week we ended up going to another group event together and staying after everyone ...

I decided that I wouldn’t text him again but he keeps checking out my social media posts! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2349 days ago

15 July 2018 (F) - It's like a one sided love at 1st sight, but idk , am into someone , am obsessed with him as hell .. we were chatting for more than a year then we met , well he kissed me it was soft coz I didn't want to especially that was our 1st meeting then we ...

My best friend is dating my younger sister!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2350 days ago

14 July 2018 (F) - my best freind has started going out with my little sister (20) and im realy jelouse about it. some back story, me and my best freind we'll call him Tim, we're both 27 and have been mates for about 26 years. anyway about six months back my l...

Shall I stop being a gentlemen and be a man?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2347 days ago

13 July 2018 (M) - Just wondering what you guys would think what’s on this girls mind. She is married with 2 kids. She is few years older than me, we work together. She is quiet person, well respected and often hates guys advancing. For example a friend of mine will ...

This confusing guy is sending mixed signals!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2350 days ago

12 July 2018 (M) - So I met this guy off a gay dating app. We had tremendously good sex. As he left my house he told me he "really wanted" to see me again. He lives in a different city and for a hook up from an app, it was brave of him to say that. I asked him when he ...

Crush confusion

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2356 days ago

6 July 2018 (F) - My crush is a friend of mine and we hangout a bit outside of school like at the park, and I told him I like someone new cuz he knew my previous crush as for we has the same one cuz hes bi and now he wont stop asking me who I like is this somewhat of ...

She only wants to be friends but acts like we are more?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2356 days ago

5 July 2018 (M) - This is a complicated issue that has really affected me mentally. I've been friends with this girl since secondary school and we have always been pretty close, we got closer as we moved up to college and since becoming close friends and spen...

I cheated and want to fix my relationship, but how?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2360 days ago

3 July 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for two and a half years, since I was 23. He is a wonderful person. I love him, he loves me, and we've always worked so well together. We've never had any problems beyond whose turn it is to do the dishes. ...