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Archived questions from: October, 2018 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

My married lover doesn't want me to go on trips by myself. Why doesn't he trust me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2211 days ago

31 October 2018 (F) - My married lover travels with his wife up to 3-5 times a year. The longest he is away is a month at a time. It's very difficult for me, even though I've chosen to place myself in this role. I feel resentful and left behind. They are natural ...

I'm in a messed up situation with a guy from another country

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2213 days ago

29 October 2018 (F) - Hey dear agony aunts I met this guy one month ago (B) who got my number from a friend of mine. We started talking casually. B doesn’t live in our country and he told me he while we were just talking that he had a girlfriend in a different country ...

Lover wants to stay with his children for now

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2213 days ago

28 October 2018 (F) - My lover cannot live with me just yet because he still wants to live with his children who are 21 and 19.....He said they still need him .... He doesn’t love his wife... they share no interests as a couple, just stayed married for their kids sake... ...

I'm hurt, confused, angry and betrayed.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2210 days ago

28 October 2018 (M) - So Last night I texted my gf and asked her how it started and she said that they met at a mutual friends house and he went up to her and they started talking about regulsr shit at first. Eventually they started chatting over what...

Five years on and he is still accusing me of cheating!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2219 days ago

20 October 2018 (F) - How can I get my partner to trust me? We've been together 5 years, I've NEVER done anything that's remotely disloyal or unfaithful. When we met I had a few male friends, I'm now not allowed to speak to any of them despite the fact that all I've ev...

Should I fly 4,000 miles to go see my ex? Would it be cheating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2221 days ago

19 October 2018 (F) - So... we’ve broken up for 5 years after an incident and subsequently I moved home to my home country. Contact was lost eventually as we were sick of crying over the phone. Recently, I thought I saw him whilst on vacation and sent him a text. He...

How do I move forward and stop letting his coworker get to me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2223 days ago

19 October 2018 (F) - So my husband has a female coworker and their work relationship has made me uncomfortable. More so because of the actions of my husband. He has lied to me numerous times and all lies have been associated with her. While this was happening, I was ...

I kissed other men while we were broken up, now back together did I cheat on him?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 2215 days ago

17 October 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I had split up for week, his decision and I was gutted but said I would respect his decision. I went out with a friend for a night out and i kissed two men. I love my boyfriend and I was upset with it all. We have now got back tog...

My boyfriend is thinking about working with a woman I don't like! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2228 days ago

15 October 2018 (F) - I don't know what to do anymore. I feel like I'm at the end of my rope. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years and I love him with all my heart but I have always struggled with trust issues due to my boyfriend's career. He works at a gym a...

Is it cheating if my boyfriend stood and talked to a naked woman for 5 minutes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2226 days ago

13 October 2018 (F) - Grrr. Me and my boyfriend of 10 months have been arguing a lot lately. We've hit a rough patch. To make matters worse he broke his hand so he's out of work and can't drive right now. I moved him into my home about 2months ago. So now he's ...

I'm willing to leave my husband but my married lover isn't saying anything about leaving his wife

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2227 days ago

12 October 2018 (F) - Iv been having an affair for a couple of years now and decided to end my marriage. I'm living with a friend but my married lover is still staying put. I said it was my problem about leaving my husband but he said he was still worried for me. He ...

What should I do to guard my heart and not be a fool?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2230 days ago

11 October 2018 (M) - Hello, everyone. I’m a 21 year old homosexual male. About three weeks ago, my toxic, 2 year relationship ended with my ex. Throughout the entire duration of our relationship, he emotionally cheated, meaning that he would inbox other guys on social ...

My partner is googling how to flirt sites.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2234 days ago

8 October 2018 (F) - Hi all Just seeking opinions as to whether there is a need for concern or just over reacting. Bit of back ground info. Been in a relationship for 10 years. In the earlier part there were bouts of cheating on his part. We worked through it but I ma...

Should I tell my potential mistress that my marriage is falling apart (not true) in order to increase my chances that she'll do it without guilt?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2235 days ago

7 October 2018 (M) - My question is simple. I'm married and going on a trip this weekend to meet a friend that I'd like to get intimate with. She knows I'm married, but has hinted she doesn't care that much. However, I'm not sure I trust that. Should I tell her that my ...

On social media he blocks me, unblocks me, friends me then unfriends, I don't know what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2242 days ago

1 October 2018 (F) - I have no idea where to begin I am only hoping you all can offer some advice. So I was with my ex for three years, we were engaged at one point, but I broke it off after our twin babies were born stillborn. We stayed in a relationship we just ...