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Archived questions from: September, 2019 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

My ex has my stuff. How long do I wait to contact him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1871 days ago

30 September 2019 (F) - Dear cupid.. my ex and were together for 2 years. He broke up with me and then slowly crept back into my life then I cought him perusing a relationship with another woman whiles telling me sweet nothings. Well when I found out I cut him loose I ...

I'm so relieved he dumped me, but I do feel dirty and gross.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1871 days ago

28 September 2019 (F) - I'm 14 years old and was just dumped by my first boyfriend. I am not sad, I am relieved! Literally when we hung up, I said, "thank God that's finally over!" Having a boyfriend was not what I thought it would be.i thought I'd have a guaranteed dat...

I want your opinions on how I handled this situation?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1881 days ago

26 September 2019 (F) - Hello members of DC, I'm here to seek your opinion on the following. A bit of history - My ex husband and I have been separated for 9 years. Financially, my ex and I split our children's tuition and living expenses in half and we keep in contact ...

He didn't try to stop me when I told him I lost interest. Can I salvage this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1869 days ago

25 September 2019 (F) - Please don't make fun of me on this post because I'm not looking for smart comments like "Well you lost interest, so why do you care? There is this guy i was having a casual sexual relationship with for 3 years. All was great, except he wouldn...

I don’t want to leave my husband but I need help forgetting the other man!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1882 days ago

21 September 2019 (F) - I need some real help. Here is a bit of background that might help whoever reads this give me better advice. I have been married 5 years but together for 10. We met in high school, went to college together, and are both have the same job right n...

Just because I blocked him doesn’t mean I’m still stuck on him, right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1886 days ago

21 September 2019 (F) - So, my ex and I broke up two years ago! We’re together about 2 years. It was a very toxic relationships. He never left me alone! Him and I would break up he would show up at my job. Or he would put things on my car when I was at home. He is...

Does he really expect that I will do the first move to contact him? Shall I just move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1886 days ago

21 September 2019 (F) - Hi. Here I am again, hope u all can enlighten me. So, here I already broke up with my online bf 2 days ago and its really killing me. I am desperate to contact him again and ask him to be with me. He's my online bf that is so controlling, not so ...

Should I stay or leave my mentally ill boyfriend?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1888 days ago

18 September 2019 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 6.5 years. I'm 29 and my boyfriend is 31. We met online and moved in with each other very quickly in a new town to both of us due to me getting a new job. There were some things I didnt know about my boyfriend until a ...

His disastrous ex keeps popping up and I can’t figure out why I’m being called jealous and insecure!?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1888 days ago

18 September 2019 (F) - the guy im crazy in love with has finally filed for his divorce and custody. his 12 year relationship, from an outsiders perspective i suppose, was pure insane. she cheated on him constantly with men and women, which is appearant just by looking ...

Should I quietly delete him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1888 days ago

17 September 2019 (F) - I think i know what people will advise but its better that i hear it from other people and their views. I joined a dating site 4 month ago met a man had a few dates then he decided he wanted to be single he had split from his girlfriend 5 months ...

What should I tell the girl I'm seeing about my separation/ soon-to-be divorce?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1876 days ago

14 September 2019 (M) - Hi Seeking advice. I have been separated from my ex wife for 12 m months now and have just applied for a divorce with the court hearing to be taken place in November. I have met someone, whom I really like and see it going somewhere. We ha...

My LDR boyfriend was angry that I lied so he broke up with me had sex with another girl so I could see what he felt like

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1898 days ago

8 September 2019 (F) - Okay so... been in a 1 year and 10 months (this past 4th) relationship I have a long distance relationship.... I know I know, what the point? It’ll never last, so some tell it. Around the beginning of spring I had planned to move in with my boyfr...

Is it normal for a man to become nasty and aggressive over not having enough sex?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 1895 days ago

8 September 2019 (F) - is is normal for a man to become nasty and aggressive over not having enough sex because that is how my boyfriend is and I give him lots of sex five times a day every weekend. I feel like his constant pressure is starting to put me off him and sex ...

My fiancé is being mean and ridiculous!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1898 days ago

7 September 2019 (F) - Hey and thanks So my fiancé and I were planning a trip together. We had a disagreement and he said some nasty stuff to me. Called me names and actually threatened to rip my mouth off. I was shocked ! I couldn’t believe this man I’m supposed...

I feel alone and like a loser after he broke up with me, any advice for moving forward?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1650 days ago

3 September 2019 (F) - Hey! I’m 29 and I just got out of a 2.5 year relationship. I really thought we were going to end up together but things dint turn out that way. I really love my ex and I miss him terribly but I’m dealing with the pain, loneliness, grie...

Heartbroken after breakup and feel like my chance for love is over

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1903 days ago

3 September 2019 (F) - I feel a bit silly about this because I think I'm too old to be going through this for the first time. I've had long relationships before that fizzled out. This is the first break up I've had, after 5.5 years, that ended with me being totally ...

"Only time will tell." A good or bad sign for us getting back together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1904 days ago

3 September 2019 (F) - I have a boyfriend who broke up with me because we never had the time to see each other which was true but I want him back no matter what it take I’ve decided to change the things I needed to to be the best me possible and I asked him will there ...

Second cousin is pregnant with my child. How do we tell family, and what about the doctor?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1902 days ago

1 September 2019 (M) - My second cousin and I always been close. We are the same age (I am six months older). When we were teenagers, we did experiment with each other sexually. But that never impacted our relationship in a negative way. We always hung out on the weeke...