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I'm here to ask for help and to give help. I'm currently attending university over in Canada and I'm loving it here! I was born in Canada, but raised in Hong Kong. Not much pisses me off, I am a very relaxed person, who is currently in a long distance relationship with someone I love very much!

Would someone really hold back and push you away if they really did have feelings for you?

Q.   Would someone really hold back and push you away and say they don't want you if they really did have feelings for you? Like for example if they weren't ready for the relationship or whatever, even though they can have a relationship with others ...

A.   26 February 2012: There are plenty more fish in the sea. It's true. I remember when I liked a guy and he liked me back, I wanted a relationship after a couple months but he said he wasn't ready for one, truth is, I wasn't ready for one. He may have not been ready to ... (read in full...)

Should I tell him that I slept with someone else while we were broken up

Q.   Hey so my boyfriend and I had been together for not even a month when he broke up with me. He had broken up with me in the spur of the moment because my friend had gotten mad at him for not giving me the attention a long distance relationship ...

A.   23 February 2012: You answer may have been somewhat useful? But it wasn't specific enough. Your second answer was much more helpful, so thank you for that. Two lines didn't really tell me much. I also know that I don't have any STIs because I actually JUST got tested ... (read in full...)

Should I tell him that I slept with someone else while we were broken up

Q.   Hey so my boyfriend and I had been together for not even a month when he broke up with me. He had broken up with me in the spur of the moment because my friend had gotten mad at him for not giving me the attention a long distance relationship ...

A.   23 February 2012: Well I don't have any... and I used a condom. That wasn't a very helpful answer. I AM in love with him, and I don't want to lie to him. But I asked my mother what she thought seeing as she is my bestfriend, and she said it would jeopardize our rela... (read in full...)

I'm turning into a jealous, paranoid person verging on control freak! How do I deal with this?

Q.   I don't know why but lately I have become extremely paranoid about a girl at work who happens to also be a friend of mine....I know I am being irrational but kind of just need to get it out there.... My boyfriend and I work for the same company...

A.   22 February 2012: I say, talk to your friend to back off! You've already talked to your boyfriend several times and he's denied everything except the fact that she is unattractive! Your friend shouldn't be flirting with a friend's boyfriend especially when she knows ... (read in full...)

How to take my dating relationship to the next level?

Q.   I've been on 5 dates with this guy recently. He really likes me and I really like him, but he said from the beginning he wants to take baby steps and I'm fine with that. I really would like to take our dating to the next the next serious ...

A.   22 February 2012: 5 Dates is nothing.. Unless you've been dating for a month or two! He's still getting to know you, and has made it obvious that he likes you. Appreciate the time you spend with him, if you feel like he is worth the wait. Ask him after the 10th date, ... (read in full...)

New relationship - Am I being silly or what?

Q.   Good afternoon all, I will give you a little background regarding my situation. I'm in my 40s and met a wonderful man a couple of years younger back in November while walking my dog. We actually live on the same street and we have been dating ...

A.   22 February 2012: I say you just keep going with the flow. You seemed to be doing really well with that at first! He's probably just really busy trying to sell his house, going to work, taking care of his daughter AND he IS going through a separation. Give him some ... (read in full...)

Oral sex saved for a special occasion?

Q.   My boyfriend has been asking me to give him oral sex for a little while, and I finally brought up the courage to do it for him the other day. It was spontaneous and romantic and everything I imagined it to be. Since then, He has asked me a coupl...

A.   22 February 2012: If he's going down on you, there's no reason for you not to go down on him! Can't have your cake and eat it too. ... (read in full...)

What is the deal with this girl? Are things still fine between us?

Q.   Hi, I met a girl back in November. We went out a few times and slept together then I didn't see her for two months but we stayed in require contact with one another. I asked her a few times in that space of time if we were finished but she told me ...

A.   22 February 2012: It sounds to me like she IS interested, but that she's keeping you there as an option because of that question she asked about whether or not you're okay with her staying with a friend. The fact that she didn't specify whether or not her friend was ... (read in full...)

I don't want a repeat of my last visit to Russia to meet my ex

Q.   HI, I recently went back to russia to visit an ex girlfriend and her family. The last time i was there was 4 and a half years ago and she actually dumped me after 24 hours of arriving.I left early and came home. I forgave after a time and her fami...

A.   22 February 2012: I think that you should wait another 4 days. If she is still giving you the cold shoulder, then you should definitely ask her to see if something is up. It is better to be safe than sorry, especially in this case since you are traveling quite a ways ... (read in full...)

Am I gay?

Q.   Well my problem is im 16 and male and think i like guys because whenever im with my friend "aaron" i feel attracted to him and when we were getting changed for PE i got an erection when i saw him in just his boxer shorts. Am i gay? And if so how ...

A.   22 February 2012: I went through something like that when I was 14/15 where I thought I liked girls. But I've come to the conclusion that I'm pretty straight. Sometimes I find that depending on the type of porn you like, you know. The reason I say I'm "pretty ... (read in full...)

5 months dating is too early to say I love you, isn't it?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months now, and saturday night he told me he loved me, I didnt respond and he went quiet but then we said nothing about it since. The thing is I have thought that I am falling in love with him, I do h...

A.   22 February 2012: Whenever you feel like saying it, say it. I'm completely in love with my boyfriend and I've only been with him for... not even two months! I met him last year and we dated but it didn't work out because of me, and I stopped talking to him. I started ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend posts pornographic photos "girls of the week" I don't like it!

Q.   My boyfriend posts up photos of porn girls and promo models in weekly blogs that he makes for his gaming group and stating that they are "his girls of the week." I find this so disrespectful towards me but is this over reacting? He claims the ga...

A.   22 February 2012: It's completely understandable as to why you'd be upset with him for posting up pictures like this! However, he isn't cheating on you with those girls in real life! If he was actually meeting up with these girls for the weeks they were his, that ... (read in full...)

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