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26-29,
*isturbed Princess
writes:Ok... so im with this new guy.his totally sweet and everything we have been together 3day today. The prooblem is, i had feelings for him before we got together but then yesterday i didnt have any, i dont know what to do. I dont want to dump him and make him feel bad, his a year younger then me so i think his immature, and i dont really know what to do.A month or two back i started talking to a guy i liked through year 1 to 3 n then still after i changed schools yrs back but i relise i still like him and i dont wanna hurt the guy im with by breaking up with him or telling him.do i wait a week or two and tell him its not working or tell him straight away n just try and make it not so bad for him?
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reader, yanza  +, writes (5 June 2009):
 i have been in the exact same position.
dont leave him hanging tell him as soon as you can it may hurt him but it will be alot worse if you leave it any longer.
its the best thing for the both of you it will be ok for you both
hope this helped good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2009): Oh, wow, DS,...three whole days! Sorry, hon, but "three days does not a relationship make", or something like that. I doubt that either of you has confessed "undying love" to each other. Believe me, he will survive. And both you and he will have many "crushes" before you are out of school...and probably more than a few afterwards. Just tell him you like him and want to be friends. You will probably be telling the other guy the same thing in a short time. And you will probably be told the same thing yourself by a few guys before you are much older. (smile). You will all survive. We all have.
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (5 June 2009):
 Hun you need to be honest with this guy.if you really think there is nothing between you then you do have to tell him.rather sooner than later.if later he'll probably feel like you just lead him on and wanted to keep leading him on.in some way he'll appreciate your honesty will probably be hurt but it's what you have to do.it's what's best really for you and him.Hope this helps :)
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