How do I hint to potential online date friend id like to get to know him better
Q. Hi , i recently asked about making contact with a guy i like and know on a dating website i took everyones advice and messaged him , We had a little chat / bit of a catch up the problem now is we havent messaged each other today , i dont want to be ...
A. 4 August 2016: You've already made it clear that you are interested by messaging him. I'd take a step back and let him reach out to you. If he contacts you, great. If not, he's not the last guy on earth.
Not to be mean, but you seem a little desperat... (read in full...)
Can she up sticks and go taking the children with her?
Q. My daughter in law is leaving my son and has made it clear that she is taking the children with her. Can she up sticks and go taking the children with her?...
A. 25 April 2015: This is very upsetting, but on the upside, his chances of getting happily remarried are much higher if the mom has custody. ... (read in full...)
Whenever a boyfriend even mentions anal sex I become furious
Q. i don't know what is wrong with me, but whenever any of my past partners so much as suggests anything to do with anal sex i get infuriated and not even in an outwards manner but rather in a passive aggressive way. i cannot quiet put my finger on it, ...
A. 6 February 2014: Don't overthink this. You think anal sex is nasty and you are mad when someone suggests it because there are so many more satisfying ways for a man and a woman to be intimate. Anal sex is usually about a guy checking a box off of his sexual to-do ... (read in full...)
I've got it all and done it all, so what next!
Q. I am faced with a strange dilemma. I am 31 years old, I made all my childhood dreams come true already, I am recently divorced, have no kids because I never wanted them, men fall all over me, I have a healthy lifestyle, steady job, car, a cat, I am ...
A. 9 December 2013: Maybe you should just sit back and relax a little, eventually you'll come up with a new goal/dream. You could just be too overwhelmed at the moment to know what to do.... (read in full...)
My wife doesn't want to tell me that I am not her best lover. Why does she lie?
Q. I met my wife when she was 40 (now she is 46). She told me that, among almost 30 previous sex partners, I am her best lover. I can not believe her. My penis is only 5 inches and normal thickness. I am not bad in bed, but I know I am not the best. ...
A. 14 August 2013: You probably are her best lover! You're the one that wanted to marry her, the one that loves her. You make love to her, the ones before didn't.
I can only speak for myself, but most of my lovers had the same sorts of techniques and abilitie... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and his ex...is he lying?
Q. I need advice people, here's my dilemma: I have a boyfriend of 7 months now, I met him two years ago and he did then have a gf and I had a bf, nothing came of it, just regular chats here and there. I broke up with my BF and he also broke up with his...
A. 5 April 2013: Ugh, I've lived through this situation. Literally, you're describing exactly what happened. The ex also sent provocative photos, etc. I can tell you what happened with me. My boyfriend continued to secretly communicate with his ex behind my bac... (read in full...)
Why is it online men in their 50's only want young women?
Q. I have been online dating + looking at online personals and I cannot believe how much most men online suck about age. I will be 25 in a couple of months + was shocked to see that there are tons of men in their 50s who specify they want women 18-25! ...
A. 28 January 2013: Don't let these weirdos get to you. Women, like men, don't expire until they die. For the record, I have a male friend who has complained about the same scenario. He's only 26 and he keeps getting hit on by 40-something women on-line. My advice ... (read in full...)
Is it normal not to have had a boyfriend and kissed a boy and all that stuff at my age?
Q. i'm 17 in a couple of weeks, and i haven't really had a boyfriend, never properly kissed a boy or anything, and i was wondering if that is normal. majority of my friends have boyfriends and stuff, and i don't think i'm shallow, and yes there have a ...
A. 10 December 2012: It's very normal not to have had a boyfriend or have kissed a guy at your age!!! Don't rush it. You're very young. I'm twice your age and what I really remember is all the peer pressure to hook up. Please take your time, you have plenty of i... (read in full...)
He doesn't see a future with me, but he wants to keep me in his life? For what?
Q. Why would a guy who has simply stated with clarity that he doesn't see a future with me because, I don't share his culture, race or language be so hell bend on me remaining "friends" with him? It's not like we were friends before---we have a brief ...
A. 10 December 2012: Sweetie, you made a mistake. Chalk it up to a life experience and move on. Do not be friends with this man. The reason you're so upset about this situation is ego. This relationship bruised yours and inflated his. By your own account, this ma... (read in full...)
Six months later I'm still grieving at the passing of my grandfather and feel like people think I should be over it
Q. i know this isnt a relationship question but i'm still grieving over my grandpa's death and dont know who to turn to about it. i havent had a nice year, i lost my horse suddenly, i became ill with anemia and then close to a year ago my grandpa w...
A. 25 November 2012: Please don't be ashamed of your feelings. Losing a loved one is one of the most difficult experiences we have. Six months is not a long time and it's perfectly normal to still be upset. If, however, you feel like you can't talk about it with your ... (read in full...)
How can I successfully get to know this exchange student? I am in love with her but she seems not interested.
Q. Hello everyone, Since the beginning of the year, I have developed a crush on an exchange student, who has been transferred to my college to study for 3 years. I do not have any classes with her, and whenever I see her - she is always with her...
A. 13 August 2012: You're really worried about putting yourself on the line. But the worst thing that can happen is that she'll say no. I promise that if she does reject you, you'll move on much faster than in you keep pining away from afar. Ask her out. You've ... (read in full...)
Would you give your girl a second chance after she cheated on you?
Q. hello everyone, i'm confused but reached the end when i'm with dearcupid. Men will you forgive your girl of 4 years, after she cheated for the first with no reason and confess to you. And then tells you how much she loves you, can't live with out ...
A. 12 August 2012: You're not going to like my response but once a cheater always a cheater. I'm a girl and I can honestly say that the girlfriends I have who have cheated on their boyfriends do it again and again. I've never heard of a girl who did it only once (or ... (read in full...)
My fiance cheated on me because he jumped to conclusions, please help!
Q. My fiance were supposed to get married april 2013. I was planning a surprise trip for his bday in october. I have a male friend who is a travel agent and since it was a surprise, went through him to buy the tickets book the hotel. I paid him cash ...
A. 12 August 2012: Unlike YouWish, I see nothing wrong with your actions. I don't see having dinner with a platonic friend as a suspicious act. You viewed it as no different than having dinner with a girl and let's face it: it was no different than having dinner ... (read in full...)
Have a new girlfriend, but stilll miss my ex so much!
Q. Is it normal to think about your ex, but being with someone new? I dated my ex over a year ago and I broke it off. A year after our break up, she had already a boyfriend for six months, and still called me. We started meeting up regularly , havi...
A. 29 November 2011: Your ex is bad news. She has no morals and no consideration for other people. Why do you love her? Her actions don't sound too lovable. More importantly, remind yourself of why you broke it off. To answer your specific question: yes, I ... (read in full...)
I'm 19, never had a girlfriend, never even kissed a girl and I hate feeling like an outcast among people I'm surrounded by
Q. I'm really depressed, I can't deny what I feel. I'm 19 and never had a girlfriend. I've never even kissed a girl. It is something about myself I despise. I'm constantly surrounded by couples and I'm friends with so many couples I can't stand it ...
A. 29 November 2011: It's hard not to be upset when you feel left out, but 19 is still VERY young. You still have plenty of time to get a girlfriend and have sex. Try not to take it all so seriously. Plus, lots of people exaggerate their sexual conquests. I do... (read in full...)
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