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... Send *xkissxx a private message | | | *xkissxx's profile:hi to you all, just a quick bit about myself im a 20 year old female, i am currently engaged to my soul mate and we both have a beautiful daughter who is five months named keira lee, i have lived in south wales all my life,
i absolutely love helping others as i have been through quite a bit in my life which i hane come out stronger at the end,
we all go through things as a part of learning about life and i am here as i have been told that i am a good listener and can give good advice, my friends have alswys told me to be an agony aunt so i was searching the web and i came across this site.
i cant stand people who crictisize others and who are fake and never listen to what the other person has to say.
im just here to help anyone that i can and maybe you can help me along the way.
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Do I need to go to the doctor?
Q. I am/was pregnant for about 3-4 weeks. I began heavily bleeding and I had a miscarriage. Do I have to go to the doctor, cause I haven't been yet? I really don't want to. And how do i tell my bf?...
A. 25 April 2009: hey hunni, u need to question yourself then is he good enough 4 u, because u need support at times like these, what will he be like when something does happen xx... (read in full...)
Pregnancy from this?
Q. can you get pregnant if a boy has came in your mouth then fingered you ...
A. 25 April 2009: some of you can be quite harsh you are here to give advice not criticise, gina is the only nice one out of the lot of you that answered,
hunni gina is right you should speak to someone about this as you cant deal with it on your own, your mum... (read in full...)
Somehow I got pregnant and I'm just not sure what to do!
Q. I'm 17, and i've just found out i'm pregnant. I really can't understand how, as I was on the pill, and even the doctor said it just doesn't add up. But after not having my bleed after day 21, I knew there must be something wrong, and so took 3 ...
A. 25 April 2009: hi there,
at least you have your boyfriend behind you
if you dont believe in abortions then there are other options like putting it up for adoption but hunni you need to speak to your parents and some one that can go through all the options ... (read in full...)
My story of being a teen mum
Q. This is my incredible story on how i had my head on gear and at 13 year old gave birth to twins one girl one boy my little girl is called 'sky marie archer' and my little boy is called 'mason alex james archer' i got pregnant and had twins at only ...
A. 25 April 2009: congratulations, think you have got your head screwed on right but you are at such a tender age, hope you have got your family supporting you, you are going to need it xx... (read in full...)
My friend is desperate for a baby and is sleeping around!
Q. I have a friend who wants a baby but she is 17 years old but she keeps sleeping with all kinds of guys so she will have a baby. What should I do, be a good friend and tell her not to do that or just stop talking to her?...
A. 25 April 2009: hi this is a hard situation to be in as this girl is putting herself in danger, you need to speak to her and firmly tell her the consequences of being a lone parent and a young one at that its a very scary thing motherhood is and the way tha... (read in full...)
Strange period?
Q. For the past week or so I have been experiencing mild cramping in my abdomen. I also feel twinges / pulling sensations in my pelvic area. While walking down the stairs one night I felt something pulling on the right side of my pelvis for just a ...
A. 25 April 2009: this does not sound like pregnancy but you do need to go and see a doctor so he can check you over and put your mind at ease xx... (read in full...)
Do I need to go to the doctor?
Q. I am/was pregnant for about 3-4 weeks. I began heavily bleeding and I had a miscarriage. Do I have to go to the doctor, cause I haven't been yet? I really don't want to. And how do i tell my bf?...
A. 25 April 2009: im really sorry to hear about your terrible loss, make an appointment with a doctor just to check things through just to be on the safe side, i also advise u talk to your bf because he can help you thriugh this terrible time, you can help eacother ... (read in full...)
Where is his G spot???
Q. Ok, i need help with helping my boyfriend to find that all elusive g-spot - i dont think its that elusive but there we go. We've been together about 2 months and the sex is great apart from i havent cum yet. I have absolutely no troubles by myse...
A. 25 April 2009: hey hunni, its not all about the g spot, what u should do is show him where u like to be touched and how you like it, take his hand and show him thats how u like it just relax and enjoy eachother, its much better than looking it up on the web site, ... (read in full...)
Afraid to get my hopes up but are these possibly signs that I'm pregnant?
Q. I have been trying for a child with my husband for the past 10 months. We havent had any luck at all. I have had sore breasts for the past two weeks and my period is due on tomorrow. The last period i had, was very light and was slight for one day ...
A. 2 February 2009: hope everything will go well for you,let us now and take care xxx... (read in full...)
He didn't want "a relationship", but now he says he does. I'm confused.
Q. recently ive been seeing a guy and at the moment we have become soo close and really care about each other we became slightly physical and shared many moments, kisses and stories... i then decided to ask him out offically and he said he wasnt ready ...
A. 21 July 2008: hey,
for your situation before you didnt speak to hm for three days andwalked away from him made him realize is feelings,
what i mean is if you carried on the way that you were and not being together he may not have realized that when you le... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend saying she can't cope with being second to my daughter? Are we done?
Q. My girlfriend that I have been dating for a couple months said some strange things last night. In short, my daughter is visiting and we stayed at my girlfriends place for 5 days. We live in different cities, but close enough to commute for long ...
A. 21 July 2008: not at all it may be the fact, she is accepting that you have a daughter and that she doesnt mind being second best or she could see how close the two of you were so close and maybe she felt taht she could never get that close to you,
have ... (read in full...)
What can we do about my grandma?
Q. I'm so scared right now. My grandmother is very ill at the moment! She has severe memory loss, rarely knows what she's doing and basically has lost her mind. All the family are so concerned about her, she lives with my grandad who tries his best to ...
A. 21 July 2008: i know this is a very very hard time at the moment for yourself and your family but the best thing to do is speak to your parents and see what they recommend,
yor nan could go into a home but it not saying your granddad has to he can see your nan... (read in full...)
Only dating for a week and he's moving WAY too fast... should I be worried?
Q. Ive been dating this guy for 1 week only and I feel like things are moving WAY to fast. He texts and calls me non stop and always wants to see me. He keeps saying he likes me sooo much and is complimenting me saying I'm beautiful, goregous and ...
A. 21 July 2008: hey huni,
it sounds that the feelings are not mutual, if you are worried that things are moving to fast you should tell him how you feel there is no point keeping it to yourself as this how relationships dont work out, the point in being in a rel... (read in full...)
Does the withdrawal method work?
Q. hi, does pulling out work when preventing pregnancy. We started with using condoms, but we usually finish a packet in a day and nowadays we don't bother using it, cause it kinda ruin the moment and we like to be spontenous and stuff. I was thinking...
A. 21 July 2008: hey hunni,
sorry to say but the pulling out method doesnt work as there is pre cum, you should go on the pill but if you do not want to go on the pill maybe because you are a forgetful person or yyou could have a coil inserted which i think la... (read in full...)
Should I try and win her back, or respect her new boyfriend?
Q. 2 years ago I fell in love with the most amazing girl in the world. She moved to the other side of the country and has much as we wanted it to work, it couldn't. I started dating again but never felt the same way about anyone else. 6 Months ago we ...
A. 21 July 2008: hey sweetie,
i know this is a tough one,
well if she tells you that she loves you and hasnt asked for you back then all you can do is try and move on is there any point messing up her head but she is also playing with your emotions you sho... (read in full...)
Does this boy like me or does he see me as a sister?
Q. ok...i have know this boy for many years. i want to know if you think he likes me back. ok he tickles and pokes me he has nicknames for me and always call me it like witch coz my laugh is a bit weird he teases me all the time when i tell him ...
A. 21 July 2008: hey hunni,
well these are classic signs of a guy fancying you, why dont you ask him but you dont want to scare him off as he may just want to be friends.
he may see you as a really good friend and as you may not want to blow it just ask him gen... (read in full...)
If he is too scared to propose to me, should I propose to him? What do you think?
Q. I've been with my partner for quite some time now and we're beginning to talk wedding and family wise. Thing is, I think he's too scared to propose to me. He's given himself so many opportunities, but then backs out and says something else. I wa...
A. 20 July 2008: hey chick
im going to be honest with you, whethr you have been with this guy for 5 years it could still go horribly wrong sorry to say ive just become engaged and had a baby but it not all plain sailing with a young baby we argue but we are stro... (read in full...)
My boyfriend fellated a guy! How do we have a healthy relationship again?
Q. My boyfriend and I went on a weekend away with another couple that have been friends with us for years. In a drunken spell, my boyfriend and the other guy decided to experiment and gave each other blow jobs (without us girls knowing this). Later the ...
A. 20 July 2008: first thing first chick, why should you feel guilty as it was your boyfriend and the other party that done this not you,so dont go beating yourself up about this k,
secondly does your boyfriend know how you feel if he doesnt i seriously suggest ... (read in full...)
I'm leaving and I want to tell him I love him. What do I say?
Q. Tuesday I'm leaving on vacation. I want to leave the guy I love ( not yet dating) a message that tells him how much I love him ( without sounding over dramatic) and say somthing that will make him think of me while I'm gone. any suggestions on w...
A. 20 July 2008: just say something like-im going away for a while and i was wondering when i get back we can make a go of things and tell him your feelings
if not tell him when you get back as he may not be the kind of guy that likes long distance relation... (read in full...)
Do guys REALLY want skinny girls?
Q. ok heres my question do guys really want really skinny gf's???? i know its talked about all the time but nobody ever asks real everyday men! i'm 14/16 is that too big? is that normal? what do you guys think of women and their bodies...
A. 20 July 2008: hey chic,
well iv been with my fiancee for 2 years and when i got with him i was a curvy 12 now im a 14 to 16 even after having a baby, but he prefers me the way that i am not a skinny girl and i asked his mates and they said they prefer the bigg... (read in full...)
Is not bleeding after your first time normal?
Q. hi i am worried, if you do not bleed after having sex for the first time normal? so many of my friends said that after their first time they bled.. but i didnt and i havent used tampons either.. is this normal? ...
A. 20 July 2008: hey chic,
this is normal as the hymen may have already been broken when you wear sanitary towels so dont worry yoursel and not having any pain makes it even better for you x... (read in full...)
He sleeps separately from his wife and I've waited 2 years! Why won't he give me a time frame?
Q. I've been in love with a man for 2 years who is married. He loves me very much, wants to marry me, and plans to move out of home. I believe him - don't think it's just another married man has an affair episode. He sleeps separately from his wife ...
A. 20 July 2008: i thought you might have spoken to him, you dont sound like a nag bag, especially as you only want answers and its your life as well as his, you cant wait forever for him, and that really needs to sink in to him as you have commited to him i know he ... (read in full...)
I think I want to move on, but he keeps kissing me! Should I just carry on with this weird relationship?
Q. Hi everyone! Well I have a pretty straight forward question so I hope you can all help me. Basically I went out with the most amazing boy for a whole year and for someone my age that is practically forever!!!! Any ways and since we have been broke...
A. 20 July 2008: hey chicks,
you have already made it clear that you dont want to be in a relationship with him eventhough you have strong feelings for him
these feelings are not going to go away unless you tell him that you dont want to carry on making out w... (read in full...)
How do know if he's happy? If I'm doing it right?
Q. Hi everyone! i got something bothering me. I've just started having sex and i don't know if i'm doing it right! How do i know if I satisfy him or not and i'm still terribly shy that i can't even walk naked in the room in front of him! Is there an...
A. 20 July 2008: there is no such thing as doing anything wrong during sex, first of all you need to be combfortable in what you are doing there no point being all tensed as you wont enjoy it, just relax and enjoy it and as for your boyfriend and not knowing whther ... (read in full...)
I have strong urges to hurt him mentally, is this normal?
Q. I have a wondeful boyfiend and he loves me so much.I do love him and i know im extremly lucky to have him.I dont know why but for some reason i get irritated with him.Even when he hasnt said or done anything i just get this rage in me and i get ...
A. 20 July 2008: have you spoken to your boyfriend about this and say that you dont mean to upset him when you say nasty things, we all say things we dont mean, maybe you are worried that he is going to hurt you and the only way you can deal with him if he does ever ... (read in full...)
He sleeps separately from his wife and I've waited 2 years! Why won't he give me a time frame?
Q. I've been in love with a man for 2 years who is married. He loves me very much, wants to marry me, and plans to move out of home. I believe him - don't think it's just another married man has an affair episode. He sleeps separately from his wife ...
A. 20 July 2008: i see what you are saying but you need to stress to him that if he left his wife and children he can still provide for his children and give his wife money to help with their childrens upbringing, i know it is hard to wait for someone especially ... (read in full...)
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