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30-35,
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writes:Ok, i need help with helping my boyfriend to find that all elusive g-spot - i dont think its that elusive but there we go.We've been together about 2 months and the sex is great apart from i havent cum yet. I have absolutely no troubles by myself but i cant explain to him what the technique is to find the g spot... how to move the fingers and that. I was considering showing him a web page or something that will explain it alot better than i can but i dont know how to go about it. I dont want to make him feel inadequate or awkward, but it would be soooo great if he knew how.So what, do i just ring him up one day and say take a look at this (page i mean). Help?!
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (26 April 2009):
 The G-spot is quite real, and part of the clitoral complex. Although most of the sexually sensitive nerves in the female are located in the clitoris, the matter is much more complicated than that. Sensitivity exists throughout the vulva, including the labia, vaginal opening, near and around the anus and below the surface of the mons pubis.
Inside the vagina, there is the G-spot, typically located about two- to three-inches upward. It usually feels slightly rough or spongy to the fingertips and perhaps about the size of a penny to a nickel. Some may feel as large asa quarter. It usually feels slightly raised on most women. Once located, the preference may be to begin with a gentle side-to-side motion using two fingers. Circular motions are more difficult but may be very effective. A massage session should gradually progress to the man using a come-hither motion with fingertips, which may result in orgasm. It is most effective when combined with skillful cunnilingus that eventually focuses on the clitoris.
Actually, the cunnilingus should properly precede and accompany the G-spot massage, and only after an extended period of foreplay.
Other contributions to technique can be found in the Web site archives. Just enter "Double M on G-spot massage" and various other topics such as clitoris, foreplay, orgasm, multiple orgasms, clitoral complex and more.
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reader, xxkissxx +, writes (25 April 2009):
hey hunni, its not all about the g spot, what u should do is show him where u like to be touched and how you like it, take his hand and show him thats how u like it just relax and enjoy eachother, its much better than looking it up on the web site, because everyone likes different things, he will be happy to know how u like thing
hope this helps xxx
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