I broke things off with him because he isn't at the same place I am. I'm so heartbroken!
Q. I started dating a guy about eight/nine months ago after meeting online. The first date was fine but I wasn't particularly smitten - he asked if we could go on a second date. I was hesitant at first - I wasn't really looking to get into anything ...
A. 17 June 2017: Oh goodness... I am your same exact age, prone to panic attacks, and had the EXACT SAME thing happen to me in May.
We had an amazing relationships. Equal effort, lots of caring, being able to be myself, him being so respectful and supporti... (read in full...)
He says he wants to be friends but to be patient. Is he playing games with me?
Q. When I was 22, I was in a very serious relationship. After his father died, he broke up with me. We didnt speak for a number of years. We both married other people, and had children. We found each other again, I was divorced, he was happily married, ...
A. 11 June 2017: I don't think he's playing games. I think he's just being cautious and trying to be tactful. Give it some time. Best of luck!... (read in full...)
His way of proposing really shocked me. Am I right to feel it was disappointing?
Q. How do I get past being disappointed by my finance's wedding proposal? So I recently turned 30 and my boyfriend couldn't get the day off from work so we celebrated the day before he took me out for dinner and drinks and we stayed out till gone mid...
A. 15 January 2017: I feel for you. Why couldn't he have been outside with flowers or hiding, awaiting your reaction? There's been lots of good advice on this post, but I truly feel you should talk to him. You're not wrong for your feelings nor are you wrong for ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend got distracted while texting me
Q. Please tell me if I should be pissed here. My bf and I were having a conversation by text and right in the middle of it, he disappears. Stops texting. So I texted him "u went away?" Then about 5-10 minutes later he replied "sorry I got distracted...
A. 8 January 2017: I think we all thought he was at work because you wrote that he was distracted by a business colleague. Glad everything worked out!... (read in full...)
Should I tell my wife I've been visiting massage parlours?
Q. I'm a married man in my early 50s with a big secret. I've developed a habit of visiting massage parlours and receiving massages that end with sexual stimulation and orgasm. This started a few months ago and I love the excitement of headin...
A. 3 January 2017: Technically you are having an affair. If you feel so guilty, tell her. But you're making the decision to go to the parlors, so you need to accept that if the marriage ends that is because of your actions. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend got distracted while texting me
Q. Please tell me if I should be pissed here. My bf and I were having a conversation by text and right in the middle of it, he disappears. Stops texting. So I texted him "u went away?" Then about 5-10 minutes later he replied "sorry I got distracted...
A. 3 January 2017: Wait what? He was at work and didn't respond for a while? This is NORMAL. Do you like going on dates? Getting gifts from him? Traveling together? Well that requires money and he can't do a good job at work if he's tied to texting you every minute. ... (read in full...)
I sometimes think sex is a chore.
Q. My boyfriend and I are having sex issues and it's really damaging our relationship. He seems to get an erection as soon as he wakes up, but I'm so groggy and tired that I'm not in the mood at that time. I'm also seem to have lost any desire to have ...
A. 5 December 2016: Sounds like you are stressed with work and that's leading into your sex life. Are you on any kind of medication that could influence libido? Some birth controls and other prescriptions reduce sex drive. If your relationship with him is good, I ... (read in full...)
I wonder what I have missed.
Q. I met my boyfriend when I was quite young. We started dating and have now been together nine years. He was the first person I slept with and therefore the only person (fyi I was not his first but this is not my issue). I find it really unsettling ...
A. 10 March 2016: I've been playing the field for years now and crave what you have. Think of "the grass is always greener". I promise you aren't missing out on much. Cherish the one you have! The alternative isn't fun- I promise. Good luck!... (read in full...)
I need to break my duck with girls
Q. How to get over being a virgin? I'm turning 23 and no matter what I've tried it hasnt worked out. I've dated a couple girls in high school but we were "too young" to have sex according to the girls. We loved each other when we were dating but ...
A. 2 March 2016: You're not going to have a good sex life until you like who you are though...
I didn't lose mine until I was 22 By the way. I still have a good deal of friends that are virgins.
Many girls will even like that you're a virgin. Plus you know you... (read in full...)
Texting. Is there a difference between a big X or a little x in a text from a man?
Q. Hi I am 40 and been briefly texting a guy that I know. After our initial chat by text I text him again on Friday and we had a 4.5 hour chat by text and as we were having a drink his texts became more loose but nothing bad and eventually we stopp...
A. 29 February 2016: You're 40 but you sound like a young girl. Calm down or you'll scare him off! Make sure you meet in person soon. Lots of men love to do the constantly text and flirt but never meet up game. Don't fall for that!... (read in full...)
I'm appalled at his disrespect, but what can I do? Is it time to breakup?
Q. My partner of 3 years goes out each thursday night with friends, this is usually fine but i am at work on a friday so do prefer him not to come in too late. He usually comes in about 1am. Weve had a number of arguments about this mainly because ...
A. 28 February 2016: I feel like there may be more of a drinking problem than he's letting on. How old is this guy to still be getting hangovers??
You seem very reasonable and responsible. You definitely don't need some party animal disrupting your schedule and adul... (read in full...)
Should I be sending risque pics to my boyfriend? Will it get on the internet?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months and we have a very close relationship. He is an incredibly sweet person and I honestly trust him with anything. The other day we were talking and it just so happened that he sent me a topless ...
A. 26 February 2016: You seriously could get in trouble. Focus on your schoolwork and friends. ... (read in full...)
My mom doesn't want me to sleep with my boyfriend yet but I've already done it 5 times!
Q. But if a weird question here, just looking for advice. I've been going out with my boyfriend for 4 months now (we're both 17) and we started sleeping together after 2 months but only when I've gone to his house and I'm not allowed to stay over at ...
A. 15 February 2016: I personally think you're too young but that's neither here nor there...
Sex is a BIG deal. You say you're being safe, but YOURE not on birth control! Condoms do not always work. Don't just rely on condoms!
You should get on the pill ASAP an... (read in full...)
Can't get him out of my head but is he really interested?
Q. I met this guy 3 years ago at a program and we became good friends. We both had a 'thing' for each other but both were committed to different people so didn't act on it. We lost in touch after the program ended until last year when I got back on ...
A. 27 December 2015: I think he's stringing you along and that hooking up will hurt you emotionally. It sounds like you're already attached. I would distance yourself and try to meet someone new that is looking for a meaningful relationship. When someone tells you how ... (read in full...)
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