My B/f knows that I have a history of depression and yet he's broken up with me, blocked me in every form and now I cant move on
Q. I was with my boyfriend for two years until he decided that he couldn't be with me anymore. I have a history of depression and I think I was wearing him down. He said it's over and to him it's been over for ages before he actually said it was ...
A. 18 September 2014: As a depression survivor, I know how you feel, I once broken up because he knew I had depression. It was tough, but it's not impossible to get through. Now after so many years, I was glad that he left me.
You have to fight this depression alone. T... (read in full...)
Am I overusing the words "I Love you"?
Q. I've known my boyfriend since my first yr in college and we've been dating for the past 3 yrs. Now that we've both graduated from school, I don't see him too much because he lives like 20 mins away from my home. We talk and text every day and he ...
A. 18 September 2014: There are 5 kind of love languages (they define how people show love):
1. Word of affirmation
2. Action
3. Touch
4. Spending quality time
5. Gifts
You definitely are word of affirmation, you like to tell people how they mean to you & you f... (read in full...)
Is my personal trainer interested?
Q. Hello, Today was my third work out with my personal trainer, I didnt know this personal trainer since before. Last week on the second work out I saw him tickle his sensitve area a little now and then. I pretented to not see him dong it...
A. 18 September 2014: Imagine a grumpy ignorant personal trainer who spits when he speaks. Will you still hire him, after he screams at your ear to do more push ups?
Or would you hire a smiley, charming, good looking trainer who keeps making you doing sit ups until yo... (read in full...)
Is it alright to like get back with your ex?
Q. Is it alright to like get back with your ex? Some people say it's not a good idea but I feel like there isn't any harm in giving a second chance. However, I asked my teacher whose quite an expert about it and he said that people tend to fall bac...
A. 18 September 2014: You broke up with him for a reason. Has that reason been solved? If not, you will break up again and it's gonna be all over again.
If you decided to get back together, you have to have an agreement that whatever happen in the past, stay in the p... (read in full...)
I really thought my ex would be there for me as a friend
Q. We were in an off and on relationship. He would always dump me because I'm bipolar and he couldn't handle it. I am seeing a therapist because of this. He knows, but thinks I am the right girl at the wrong time. He broke up with me over nothing and ...
A. 18 September 2014: He seems like he distance himself from you to help yourself getting over him. He doesn't want you to see him out, because you'll cry thinking he's having so much fun without you. He doesn't want to give you hope, but also he doesn't want to hurt ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he see my potential? Is he sexist? Complacent about life?
Q. I feel like my boyfriend doesnt understand one aspect of my life and I need help explaining this to him. I am going to graduate late next year with a degree in engineering. I have worked very hard with my school and it is because I want to provide ...
A. 18 September 2014: He's not sexist, you guys just have different visions.
For the fact that he's willing to move to a town next to the city (for you), he does see your potential & believe in you.
Relationship is about compromises. Each party have to meet halfway.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend went out with a female coworker and I didn't like it. Should I go out with a male to see how he likes it?
Q. Last night my boyfriend told me that he had a super nice dinner with a co-worker/friend because they were leaving. He then told me how the waiter thought they were engaged and he laughed and told me how he said no. Wait what? The friend was a gir...
A. 18 September 2014: Agree with all other answers, your bf is not your ex.
I'm confused for the fact that you said your bf is honest and a straight up guy, but you get jealous. Like, what?
Jealousy is a visible sign of insecurity. The reason why you're jealous i... (read in full...)
I want the freedom to test the waters but my ex won't let go
Q. Hello, I am a freshman at college in my third week and I broke up with my bf at the start. He loves me soo much but almost too much. He also now lives two hrs away. I need a real and tangible relationship, not just skype dates. But at the same time ...
A. 18 September 2014: Girl, you have no idea how lucky you are..
Think about this, after you test the water, what would you do?
What if you met a guy, told him you're not looking for a relationship but ended up falling for him anyway, and he ran away?
You have an a... (read in full...)
I'd like a bit more affirmation from her
Q. I have been dating a woman for about 7 months. We seem to mesh in most ways but I could use a little more affirmation from her. Not long after we started dating she made the statement about how "sexy" the lead singer of a band was. Just recent...
A. 18 September 2014: Men can be insecure too? Well, this is new..
Completely agree with CindyCares, just tell her that sometime a little affirmation would be nice.
But seriously, I never compliment any of my bf with physical affirmation, because I don't want him t... (read in full...)
Why would an apparently happily married person claim that they are in a "complicated" relationship?
Q. When somebody puts on facebook that they are in a complicated relationship, but they still live together, go to family gatherings together. What does it really mean? Obviously they are still going out as couple but is it that they are having p...
A. 17 September 2014: 1. Because they actually not happy & want to get out of it
or
2. Attention seeker. It sounds to me like they're saying: look guys, we actually are not that perfect, come pay attention to us.
or
3. They have problems which they need suggestions... (read in full...)
Are these signs he's no longer interested in me?
Q. Now, I wouldn't normally consider myself the clingy type but now I'm not so sure. Basically me and my boyfriend just got together for about a month and before we got together, we were almost inseparable to the point were everyone else noticed too. ...
A. 17 September 2014: I think you overthink this. How will he have the chance to text you first, if you can't even give the chance to text you first?
If you want to know if you do mean something to him, MIA (missing in action). If he doesn't call/text you in 3 days (or ... (read in full...)
She seems to be hung up on her ex, what should I do
Q. Ok me and my girlfriend have been together just over a year now but have had numerous arguements over her ex. She was with him for amany year....16 in fact yet chose not to marry or have children. They still have regular contact n see one another ...
A. 17 September 2014: The question is.. how long was she single before she started dating you?
People need some time alone after they break up so they can assure themselves that they make the right decision. If you guys date straight after she broke up, she hasn't e... (read in full...)
Why does he get angry when I question him about a girl I know has a thing for him?
Q. Hi everyone! I would like some opinions on this! Me and my boyfriend have been together for five years, we did take a 7 week break over the Christmas period due to personal issues. In that 7 week period I was introduced to a friend of a friend,...
A. 17 September 2014: Wow. Look at those hatred answers from the guys.
1. What is relationship without trust? If you can't trust him, just end it.
2. If you brave enough, confront the girl. Just be prepared of she gonna say. You have to have your options ready be... (read in full...)
We are just friends now but got intimate the other night, help me understand him!
Q. I've been dating my flat mate he is 28 I'm 44 we got on realy well sex was so intense we are now just friends but I have strong feelings for him he says he thinks the world of me what does he mean by this? We got intimate the other night I don't ...
A. 17 September 2014: If you can't handle honesty, don't read this answer.
(seriously)
He wants to be friends with benefits, f*** buddy, no string attached (whatever you call it)
Men will do & say anything to have sex (trust me, I learnt it the hard way too). That'... (read in full...)
I go out with people because I'm supposed to but I never get butterflies
Q. My problem is that I never have feelings for anyone, but i have in the past, and I want to know if anyone feels the same? I was a really emotional child and had very strong crushes on guys, the weird thing is I could never really imagine going out ...
A. 17 September 2014: Relax.... When I was your age, I was like that too.
You're still so young & want to enjoy your life, and I think that makes you reject those guys unconsciously.
Take your time, no need to rush. Just because you don't date them, they can't be you... (read in full...)
What advice can you offer? The love of my life is depressed about his career
Q. My boyfriend and I have been long distance (10 hours distance) dating for almost two years, but have been friends for about 8 years. He recently (last December) sunk into a deep, deep depression, so much he just wanted to stay at home and sulk. It ...
A. 17 September 2014: Men are creatures of pride. They like power, money, nice cars, score a supermodel, etc. When they can't get what they want, it hurts their ego. Although they seem tough on the outside, most guys vulnerable inside if this happens, especially if it's ... (read in full...)
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