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... Send *ertigo a private message | | | *ertigo's profile:Hey.. most of my friends from school and college keep telling me how I should chuck my technical background and become a psychiatrist. Well, i know most of them are going overboard with it... yet i think i do come up with fairly decent third-party views to situations where i can empathize with those involved. And the perspective of a rational third party can be helpful on most occasions.
I've lived most of my life so far in the cosmopolitan metros of the country... known so many people and places, I can barely remember names(I know, that sucks.. but i'm good with faces!)
Have been going steady for 2 years with college sweetheart(been in love with him for almost 5 years now ^_^) We're long-distance and it's so tough sometimes but we manage and make it work despite the odds.
I love reading Sci-fi, watching flicks on dvds(cant sit thru entire movies in the theaters), traveling, and i cannot live without the music i love. He hates reading any kinda stuff('cept for letters from me, thank God), laughs thru slap-stick comedies that i find torturous(he, btw, totally hates all the 'Arty' stuff i like), and the only music he'll listen to is some of what i play( to crib about it later!)
So much about me... will update if i can remember something i'd like to tell. So long :) |
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Anyone else turned off by the way some guys kiss?
Q. Is there a reason why some men when they kiss a woman every seems ok but when the lips touch there comes the hard tongue and they think is sexy and that makes them great kissers. I find it a turn off and is not seductive..I actually said to this ...
A. 27 June 2008: hi
it's not like you're the only one who's had a bad kissing experience... happens to lots of women (and men). Bad breath, too much saliva, too much tongue... any of these things and more could turn one off. I personally find too much tongue slig... (read in full...)
My boyfriends family keep picking on me and my bf...what should I do??
Q. Okay so I have a dillema that I'm having trouble on how to handle. I've been with my boyfriend for going on nine months now. The issue isn't with my boyfriend its with his family. He has cousins all younger than we are and for some reason they find ...
A. 27 June 2008: My advice to you - Ignore the brats.
You haven't done anything for them to be so nasty towards you. But again, the more you retaliate, the more stubborn and resistant they'd get.
I wonder why your bf lets them pick on him, but maybe it's a family t... (read in full...)
How can transfer personal files from computer to laptop?
Q. I know this isn't a relationship question, but i would appreciate any answers. There are some files on my computer of which i need to transfer to my laptop (don't ask for the reason lol) but i'm not sure how to transfer them. I've considered email...
A. 27 June 2008: Hey
Why don't you just write your files on a DVD or CD? In case you don't hav a DVD/CD drive, the easiest is to get a pen drive or memory card, and do the transfer.
Emails wouldn't work if the files are very large in size.
Other options for ... (read in full...)
How can I built up my self confidence?
Q. Can anyone tell me how to work on my self-confidence and build up my self-esteem so that the next relationship or person that I date, I can believe myself as lovable and therefore make it work?...
A. 26 June 2008: Aww... there's no reason for you to feel like that! Never think such negative thoughts. I'm sure you're a lovely, sensitive and wonderful person to be with. Don't let such feelings ruin the comfort that you can build into the relationship. The more ... (read in full...)
Surely if he were so in love with me he'd make that 2 hour drive?
Q. met a guy in March, he lives far away bout 2 hour drive. Well he is my friends cousin. We started dating and he came to see me a few weekends and became very serious very soon. He said he wanted to marry me, knew he felt that way and started ...
A. 26 June 2008: hi there i'm in a 2 year old relationship, long distance and kinda harsh on the both of us. We've had similar situations, and we've managed to work things out by being understanding, patient and accommodating. Although, it seems like your guy is w... (read in full...)
What brings on his bad mood? What can I do?
Q. i need so help please. ok so ive been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now and here latly everytime we go out we both have a really good time but once we leave he is in a really bad mood and alwayz takes it out on me there has been times that he ...
A. 26 June 2008: hello
I'm not too sure wht cud bring on his mood swings, maybe it's work, maybe it's the alcohol, but whatever it is, all i'd like to say is that u need not bend backwards to keep him happy.
Is it that he gets drunk and then gets nasty? Is he nicer... (read in full...)
Is it safe to take this medication again?
Q. Last week I woke up with my period and vaginal thrush. Yuck! I had no symptoms other than a soreness in my vagina. No itch, no discharge, no pain. I went to the chemist and got canesten oral duo. I took the tablet and applied the cream and the ...
A. 26 June 2008: hi
all women, at some time or the other, do experience what you are going thru presently. Mostly it goes away with a one time medication. But it can also become a recurring problem. You need to visit the gynec, self medication might not be the best... (read in full...)
What brings on his bad mood? What can I do?
Q. i need so help please. ok so ive been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now and here latly everytime we go out we both have a really good time but once we leave he is in a really bad mood and alwayz takes it out on me there has been times that he ...
A. 26 June 2008: hello I'm not too sure wht cud bring on his mood swings, maybe it's work, maybe it's the alcohol, but whatever it is, all i'd like to say is that u need not bend backwards to keep him happy. Is it that he gets drunk and then gets nasty? Is he nic... (read in full...)
How can I built up my self confidence?
Q. Can anyone tell me how to work on my self-confidence and build up my self-esteem so that the next relationship or person that I date, I can believe myself as lovable and therefore make it work?...
A. 26 June 2008: Hello there the first thing you should understand that each one of us has unique characteristics that are charming in their own ways to certain individuals out there. Of course we have our inadequacies, which regular person doesn't? But those do... (read in full...)
I rejected his hints as I'm not physically attracted to him, do I tell him that?
Q. There is a guy friend who is interested in me. He has dropped plenty of hints that he wants more than a friendship with me but I act as though I don't get his hidden messages. I am not physically attracted to him nor does his personality pull me in ...
A. 22 March 2008: Hi.
Start checking out the skinny guys around you... I'm sure he'll get the idea that you prefer lean men :)
And you could also let him know indirectly that what you feel for him is purely platonic. Emphasize on what a great 'friend' he's been and... (read in full...)
I'm scared my GF could be pregnant at 14, how to tell our parents?
Q. i need help,im 14 and i think i made my girlfriend pregnant who is also 14. im really scared, i dont really know if she is or if she isn't. if she is, i dont know what i would do and how we would tell our parents. can someone please help me!!!...
A. 22 March 2008: Hey again
Since you did not ejaculate inside her, chances are low of getting her pregnant. But in some circumstances, emission of semen does occur even before ejaculation. So don't take chances with the 'withdrawal' method. Use condoms, they're way ... (read in full...)
Can you get pregnant on the last day of you period?
Q. can you get pregnant on the last day of you period? i have read several different colums saying u can im trying to conceive and wondering if i'll be pregnant this month. my last period was 2/28/2008 and ended on 3/4/2008 so if i had sex on 3/4/2008 ...
A. 22 March 2008: Hi there
Yes, chances are you could get pregnant by having sex on the last day of the period. But that depends on a load of other factors. If your menstrual cycle is shorter than average, you could have begun to ovulate by the time your period ende... (read in full...)
Jealousy? Or do I really still like him?
Q. i went out with this guy who i really like and i really want to get back together with him but he has a girlfriend and i dont know if he likes me or not. i called hi yesterday and told him i still had feelings for him and that i'd call him back ...
A. 22 March 2008: Hi there.
Sometimes our own feelings get us rather mixed up and confused. You haven't said how long it's been since u guys broke up, but judging from your question, it seems not too long back.
Of course, you still feel for him if you have been reg... (read in full...)
I'm scared my GF could be pregnant at 14, how to tell our parents?
Q. i need help,im 14 and i think i made my girlfriend pregnant who is also 14. im really scared, i dont really know if she is or if she isn't. if she is, i dont know what i would do and how we would tell our parents. can someone please help me!!!...
A. 22 March 2008: Hi.
I know it's a scary situation. But it'd help if she could take a pregnancy test. However, it depends on for how long she's missed her period for the test to come out right. If she's late, then it could be a lot of other reasons. But if she has ... (read in full...)
What do you do when you are in love with your friend...
Q. What do you do when you are in love with your friend but don't know if they love you back?...
A. 22 March 2008: I think you should start by dropping subtle hints about your romantic inclinations. Get into a little chat someday about flings and crushes. You might wanna figure out what's in his heart before you declare your feelings. Find out if he likes ... (read in full...)
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