Do I tell her how I feel, or do I just wait for her?
Q. I'm a 20 year old guy, and i think i am in love with a 17 year old girl, I have known her all my life but just realised how beautiful and how nice her personality is. I sent her a message the other day telling her how i felt but the next day i sent ...
A. 22 August 2009: I agree with the other two posters, you should definitely tell her how you truly feel. Only two things could happen if you tell her. She will either accept your advances or reject them altogether. Only one thing will happen if you never tell her ... (read in full...)
I'm 22. She's 14 and has a crush on me. Is it legal?
Q. Hi, a girl had a crush on me and she would like to have a relationship. She's only 14 y.o. while I'm 22. I never had sex before and she's attracted to me. Would it be legal with her? Thx...
A. 17 July 2009: Totally illegal! My advice, leave her alone (run away, run real fast). Do not mess up your life with child molestation charges, because that's what it would be if you proceed with any type of sexual relations with this young child. I've just ... (read in full...)
How do you forgive and forget the lies and deceit?
Q. Two years ago my husband had an affair and ended it. The affair lasted about eight months. I didn't know about the affair, but I was suspicious about his whereabouts during that period. Against my better intuition, I chose to trust my husband at the ...
A. 17 July 2009: It is indeed very hard to forgive and forget. If your husband has sincerely made strides to improve your relationship, then that's a start. Nobody said it would be an easy path, but its a path one or more must take. You do not have to forget ... (read in full...)
Confused about this situation
Q. I became friends with a woman through work, so initially we saw each other only in the workplace. After a couple of months, I noticed that she would come up to me on the way out of work and ask if I was working the next day - we worked rotating ...
A. 16 July 2009: I don't think she could give you anymore signs that she's attracted to you. It sounds as if she's been waiting for you to make a move (some form of aggression). Yeah, the peanut butter is in the trap and the mouse will not bite. If you do not ... (read in full...)
Beaten and abused and I need a way out
Q. please help me..ok i am 16 years old and my mom is very physically abusive and verbally abusive towards me.i have been in state custody once because i reported her.i was in state custody for 7 mths and i loved it my foster parents were great.well ...
A. 15 July 2009: Sorry for the emotional and physical abuse you have suffered from your mom. You need to sit down and discuss the situation with your dad about the physical and emotional abuse at the hands of your mother (Just tell him the things that are going on ... (read in full...)
Don't know what to do about these feelings for my ex boyfriends friend!
Q. The father of my child passed away two years ago when I was six months pregnant. He was 19 and in a drunk-driving accident (the guy who hit him was drunk) and I was 17 and a senior in high school. We, admittedly, had only known each other for three ...
A. 14 July 2009: Who are you pissing off? If you think the feelings mutual between the two of you; then go for it. From your writings, it sounds as if he really cares deeply for you. Do not base your decisions on what others think, your life is about your ha... (read in full...)
Am I really in love with him or his cousin?
Q. Ok, so I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years and it's been pretty serious. But recently he had a family reunion and I met his younger cousin and we just hit it off. Ever since I met him I can't stop thinking about him, we exchanged cell phone ...
A. 13 July 2009: You are between a rock in a hard place. Someone's feelings are going to be hurt from this situation (most likely the boyfriend) and it will definitely cause some harsh feeling between the two cousins and their families once your boyfriend finds ... (read in full...)
How do I approach her about her unwanted sexual advances?
Q. I've got a problem and I don't really know how to handle it. Last week, a female co-worker came on to me. We've been good friends since I started working there three years ago and I had no idea that she was attracted to me. She came round to my ...
A. 13 July 2009: I can see her friendship is of great importance to you. See if the two of you could meet for lunch (away from work) or someplace else to discuss what happened during the weekend at your house. Tell her like you told us how her friendship is of ... (read in full...)
5 months pregnant need to tell my parents and don't know how!
Q. I'm so frightend, I'm 16 and I found out about 5 months ago I was pregnant. The guy who got helped in this little creation of ours blamed it all on me and moved to a different school.I wouldn't dare tell my parents, they've done so much for me and I ...
A. 5 July 2009: Tell your mom about the pregnancy, your suspicions about her knowing are probably right. Remember, she had you and knows the signs of pregnancy. Do not put yourself through the stress of hiding the pregnancy from your parents, they WILL be of ... (read in full...)
She cheated, broke up with me, and I'm still hung up on her!
Q. Hi my situation is very complicated. I dated this girl for about a year and two months. I found out she was still talking to an old boyfriend and that she cheated on me. I thought she was the woman I was gonna marry, and even though she did me wrong ...
A. 29 June 2009: Holikdad's advice is right, you will find another woman to fancy. Reading your story was just like deju vu for me. I thought I was reading about my life three years ago as I read your question. Believe me, the world will continue to go on and you ... (read in full...)
How can a guy get over someone so easily? I broke up with him seven months ago and I'm still not over him!
Q. Why is it so f**king easy for guys to get over their ex-girlfriends!? My ex and I broke up seven months ago after a two year relationship and I'm still not over him! He tells me he has only about a 5% emotional connection to me now and that ...
A. 28 June 2009: Move on with your life. Sounds like you are fulfilling his need for lust along with three other women and that's it. Believe me, you will meet someone who will appreciate you more than him. And by the way, big mistake if you plan to attend the ... (read in full...)
I need more confidence but I don't want to be like my mouthy friend!
Q. hi aunts and uncles i'd really like to know how to be confident i've never really had the confidence in myself and i've never known how to have it either. everytime i think positive something knocks me back so i fight back and try again. i'v...
A. 23 June 2009: Just continue to be yourself, in the end your qualities will be more desirable to men as you mature. Your friend sounds like she's easy, water will always take the easiest path.
Maybe the men around you do not know how to approach... (read in full...)
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