I worry about her flirting, but she tells me it's not a problem!
Q. My girlfriend is s terrible flirt. I can usually deal with this when it happens, as it just seems like harmless fun. However we were out the other night and I noticed that her flirting with this guy was very similar to how she was with me when we ...
A. 18 May 2005: get rid!! she is walking all over you,it also sounds like she is afraid of admitting something, maybe that she feels that there is a problem in your relationship and she is trying to cover it up by flirting with other guys.if she loves you or evens... (read in full...)
I think I'm in love, but I'm not sure if this girl is The One...
Q. What to do? I'm 16 year old, young hispanic male who has fallen in love for the first time and I'm willing to do any thing for my girlfriend ,but I'm not sure if she is the one. This isn't the only question I have, if you are interested in he...
A. 18 May 2005: hey i have also fallen in love for the first time, i have been with my boyfriend for over 18months,and after all this time everytime he touches me or kisses me or even looks at me in a daze he makes my heart beat faster, i get excited everytim... (read in full...)
How should I respond when my boyfriend kisses me on the cheek?
Q. Ok, I recently got a new boyfriend, and I really like him. The other day he kissed me on the cheek, and I didn't know what to do. I want to show him that I care about him, and I liked it when he kissed me, I just don't know how to respond. So, my ...
A. 18 May 2005: hey, I absolutely love it when my boyfriend kisses me. He always make my heart beat faster. Wwhen he kisses me on the cheek or on my head I always just look into his eyes and smile and sometimes kiss him back on the lips, but dont kiss him back eve... (read in full...)
My 9-year-old is making trouble with my new partner and I don't know why...
Q. Hi, Please help. I don't know what to do. I have 4 kids, one to my present partner. My other kids are having difficulty getting along with my new partner. They always seem to clash. My daughter of 9 years old seems to do whatever she can to make my ...
A. 4 May 2005: I am 15 years old, My parents divorced when I was 7. They both have re-married since. I suppose you have accepted the fact that your daughter is finding it difficult to come to terms with the fact that her parents are seperated. All kids have this ... (read in full...)
I'm wondering if my past experiences might mean I'm bisexual..?
Q. When I was younger I had a close friend (a female) and we used to dry hump each other. I don't remember how we ended up even starting it, but we then started to do it every time we were together. Then, one of my other close friends (also a female) ...
A. 4 May 2005: It doesn't also mean that you're bisexual, just because you experimented a little bit when you were younger. It's part of growing up! NO girl can deny the fact that they haven't looked at another girl and wondered! If you really want to experien... (read in full...)
When I catch my boyfriend flirting by text, he always has some excuse for it...
Q. I am only 15 years old. I have been in a relationship with this guy for nearly 18 months. I really do feel that I do love him and that it's not just lust, it's so much more! But I do need some help. Our relationship lacks a bit of trust. He trust...
A. 4 May 2005: Hey this is Trusty who wrote the question. thank you so much for your help. I have been living apart from him for over a month, it may not be long but it feels like a life time. Things have changed a lot since I left though. We used to speak ev... (read in full...)
I'm "the only one" for him... but he's getting text messages from a girl he snogged...
Q. Please help me. I think I am driving myself mad with worry. Last year in September I started seeing someone, and later on found out that he snogged a girl who he worked with. He was man enough to tell me and knew he was wrong. Since then, we...
A. 3 May 2005: You're not the only one that's scared of getting hurt. SOME men are known to like the attention from other women and like to lead them on just have fun but never get physicaly invovled. Still, this is no excuse. Talk to him about the message,... (read in full...)
We're very much in love... but his profession would never be acceptable to my family!
Q. Forbidden Relationship - please give me some advice! Me and my boyfriend of 12 months are very much in love. We have a great relationship and are very happy. We have recently moved in together and things are going great. We are from different r...
A. 3 May 2005: Do you love this guy, and I mean do you REALLY love this guy? Because if you do, nothing and no-one should stand in your way of it. Just like age, religion, nationality - none of that should matter. Your family have accepted his different religion, ... (read in full...)
He had his choice and he chose her... but now he wants me, too!
Q. Over a year ago my best friend was given the ultimatum by his girlfriend: her or me? He choose her but now he constantly rings me telling me how much he misses me. I've told him to concentrate on his relationship and to forget about me but he's ...
A. 3 May 2005: What's to be be worried about? Friends last longer then boy/girlfriends. Do you miss your 'friend'? Meet up with him just the once for now, though. Talk about what is going to happen, and tell him straight that you will see him as long as he tells ... (read in full...)
My b/f puts me down in front of his friends and complains that all I do is bitch. Am I wrong to think of leaving?
Q. My b/f and I have been living together with my three children for almost 6 years. Our relationship is OK but I am worried that we may break up. I stay in the house because he's in our garage with his friends and doesn't want me around because hes ...
A. 3 May 2005: This quy sounds like a total jerk. It sounds like he don't want to leave you but only because he is using you as an object to show off to his mates. It also sounds like he is not ready for a relationship. Do you love this guy? Cause if you dont and... (read in full...)
I'd love for us to go back to the way we were when we first met...
Q. Hi, me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months. We have come out of the 'honeymoon period'. I miss the way we used to be. We are more like best mates than girlfriend and boyfriend. The problem is not sexual, however. How can I improve our ...
A. 3 May 2005: Try to set the scene of when you first met, like redo your first date or when you shared your first kiss. It may remind him of what a wounderful thing he has got in his life. If this don't work just have a serious talk with him and explain what ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and flirting with a married man
Q. Dear Agony Helper,
I am 14 years old and i work for my parents as
they own a chinese takeaway. There is also a guy who works for my parents
and he does the delivery. He is married and has 4 kids, he's in
his 40s....
A. 3 May 2005: I JUST WANT TO SAY A;; THESE PEOPLE WHO THINK THAT TEENAGERS CANT EXPERIENCE LOVE, WELL YOUR ALL VERY MUCH MISTAKEN,TEENAGERS LOVE IS MORE STRONGER THEN ANY ADULT CAN EXPERIENCE IN THEIR ADULT LIFE I THINK YOU ARE ALL FORGETTING WHEN YOU WERE A ... (read in full...)
If my boyfriend loves me like he says, why is he also going out with another girl?
Q. I am only 13 but I am in love with someone. He says he loves me too by telling me this, but he is going out with another girl. What I am confused about is if he loves me then why is he going out with this girl? I don't know what to do and I need maj...
A. 3 May 2005: Do not even listen to whoever wrote the rubbish about you not knowing what love is. If anyone or a group of people should know what love feels like more then anyone else in the world and that's teenagers. Teenagers' love is more real than what ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and the father of my baby is 28. What do I do?
Q. I'm 15 and currently in a relationship with a man of 28. We have had sex and I know I'm pregnant! What do I do? He already has a child (as a single father) and I think he would go mad if I told him! Should I lie and say it's not his?...
A. 3 May 2005: Do you know how much trouble this guy can get into? He is 28 after all. He would go to prison if the police were told. You need to think whether you want this baby or not. Forget about the father, it's all about you now. There is a chance that when ... (read in full...)
I'm interested in her, but she's only 16. Do I tell her or wait until she finishes school?
Q. Dear cupid, I have got a problem. There is this girl that I like but she is 4 years younger than me. I'm 19 and she is 16. The next thing is that I am a technician at the school she goes to. So what do I do? Do I tell her how I feel, wait till ...
A. 3 May 2005: Oh my god! You seriously have to tell her, now or when she leaves, whenever, but you have got to tell her. I guess cause you work at the school you can't have a relationship with her so your best bet is to wait until she leaves school to pursue a ... (read in full...)
My husband has moved out, has been texting our neighbour and says he doesn't love me any more!
Q. 6 months ago checked husband's mobile phone, found texts from my female neighbour! I have twins (4 yrs old now). We've been married for 7 yrs this Aug. I thought my husband and I were soulmates; this is my second marriage. I adore him! He had a tu...
A. 3 May 2005: You have been married to your husbend for 7 yrs right? Well you should know him inside and out! If you do, do you believe him when he tells you he doesn't love you anymore? Because if you don't believe him then I think there may be a chance he may ... (read in full...)
Things between us seem strained & I want to do something to make them better...
Q. Me and my girlfriend seem to have become more distant these past couple of weeks. I love her dearly and want things to last between us. What should I be doing? I feel if I ask her 'is anything wrong?' it would make things worse between us....
A. 3 May 2005: You can only make things better if that's what she wants to. Maybe asking her whats wrong may help but if you don't want to go there, just try and have a nice romantic meal, not too over the top, and after try and discuss what she wants out of the ... (read in full...)
I want my proposal to be "perfect"...
Q. I need to know the perfect time to propose to my girlfriend. Can you please help me ...
A. 3 May 2005: First off, you need to know whether getting engaged is what your girlfriend wants to do. I don't mean like ask her straight out; I mean just like drop hints and ask where do you see yourself in 10 years' time and so on. Depending on whether your ... (read in full...)
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