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writes: Hi, me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months. We have come out of the 'honeymoon period'. I miss the way we used to be. We are more like best mates than girlfriend and boyfriend. The problem is not sexual, however. How can I improve our relationship, without using sex?
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reader, trusty +, writes (3 May 2005):
Try to set the scene of when you first met, like redo your first date or when you shared your first kiss. It may remind him of what a wounderful thing he has got in his life. If this don't work just have a serious talk with him and explain what you're feeling and try to make things better in your relationship. If this doesn't work, he is not worth it. But I hope all is well and hope you two are destined to be together. good luck xx
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reader, confused_gurl +, writes (3 May 2005):
I'm not completely sure what to tell you. All I know is that you need to talk to him and figure it out, and SOON! Because that's what happened to me and my ex. We stayed together for almost a year, and most of the time it was like we were good friends, but with my good friends I would talk about things that I couldn't talk to him about, and things started to fall apart. I was happy with him, except for that one detail. So all I can say is try your best to get it figured out, if that doesn't work then either stick it out, or get out of it before you end up hurt worse. good luck
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