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Hey Guys,

I would like to be a councillor when i am older so i guess i am just practicing my advise to people whom which may need it.

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Thankyou guys.

My ex of 3 years has replaced me within 6 weeks

Q.   After 3 years of being with my boyfriend from age 16-19 he told me suddenly that he doesn't love me as much as he used to and ended the relationship, he said he wanted to stay friends but I said I would rather not as it would play with my emotions ...

A.   19 January 2015: Thank you all ... (read in full...)

Who do I choose: new boyfriend, or the ex who wants me back?

Q.   I was with my boyfriend for 3 years...we had the perfect life together, same interests, travelling the world together, he spent all his time with me and I thought he was the one, He proposed to me last year but had zero interest in the wedding, I ...

A.   19 January 2015: Be careful the new guy isn't just a short term rebound. You may think you are totally connected with each other but sometimes that's just you trying to replace the ex with another to stop the heartbreak. A replacement rebound may not be the best ... (read in full...)

Does anal get better with practice?

Q.   Ok so I have an embarrasing question to ask.It's about anal sex,My boyfreind is really into it and the other day he suggested it,I said sure..it only hurt for like a second when he pushed in.The feeling to me is exactly like i'm in the middle of ...

A.   11 February 2013: I have tried anal and it does feel like you are going to a number 2 on the toilet (A turn off right?). One thing you should know is that anal isnt for pleasure of the women. Its ALL for the man. The reason for this is because the anal hole is tigh... (read in full...)

Am I deluding myself or could this just be a phase?

Q.   I watch shemale porn and I have to say that I do enjoy it. I first found out that I liked it when I first discovered it in comics when I was a teen. At first, I found it wierd and beyond the norm'. But over time I found that it was something that I ...

A.   11 February 2013: Dont worry you are not deluded. Everybody is different and Porn is there for a reason. You maybe bi-sexual, OR you may just like watching a female recieve the pleasure that the male gets. Sometimes you can get sexually aroused by the thought of the ... (read in full...)

My son is confused about his sexuality, how do I help him?

Q.   I have a 25-year-old son with Asperger's Syndrome; he is employed as a car valet at a local garage and does well at it (he used to obsess about cleaning the car when young, and now does it for a living, within what's legal on our benefit rules). ...

A.   11 February 2013: If you go to the doctors and ask him to be refered to CAMHS (Child and Adolescent Mental Health Services) that will be 100% free (It is a councilling service for youths) and 100% confidentual. If you say that it is making him feel very sad and he ... (read in full...)

She doesn't post pictures of us together

Q.   I have a girlfriend going for two years and I wonder why she never post pics of us together online on her page. I see women do it all the time but she does not. She says she loves me more than I would ever know but I don't feel like she is ...

A.   10 February 2013: Your girlfriend seems like a very private girl. That isnt a bad thing, look at beyonce and j-z. They keep their replationship private. Thats how relationships last. Mabey she is insecure of anyone wanting to know about your relationship with her ... (read in full...)

Does anyone here HATE the dating game?

Q.   does anyone here hate the dating game? i went on a date with a girl who lives about 1hr away from me, and it went really well, and we are going to hang out again soon. I always am wondering if she likes me or is she getting bored of me, does she ...

A.   17 January 2010: yes its totally normal too be worrying after your first date, trust me, she would tell yo if she gets bored of you but the way it seems like is that she isnt bored at all! its just you thinking too deep about it. call her up unexpectedly and take... (read in full...)

Hasn't been the same since his grandfather died

Q.   Hi I have been in a realtionship for the 18 months now, at first me an my guy were so in love, best of friends etcetc, but a few months ago it began to go down hill. He suffered a major loss as his grandad died, so i tried to let him no i was the...

A.   17 January 2010: mabey you should try giving him some more space, bcause you can never stop grieving for somebodys loss but you will just have to be patient and wait for him to exsept that his grandfarther has passed over. also remind him that his grandad farher ... (read in full...)

I am close to my dad now, should I tell him or not?

Q.   well 3 yrs ago i was sexually abused by my sister's boyfriend, i wasnt very close to my dad back then, so he is the only one out of my family who doesnt know, i dont want to worry him if i tell him, but i dont know wearther it will cause arguments? ...

A.   17 January 2010: thanks guys u have all gave me good advise.... (read in full...)

I am close to my dad now, should I tell him or not?

Q.   well 3 yrs ago i was sexually abused by my sister's boyfriend, i wasnt very close to my dad back then, so he is the only one out of my family who doesnt know, i dont want to worry him if i tell him, but i dont know wearther it will cause arguments? ...

A.   16 January 2010: thankyou x... (read in full...)

Should I turn to lifting weights?

Q.   I asked a question a short time ago about how my confidence is so little when I am at school. From what I can gather I need to make myself - be myself. I need to stop careing about what others could think of me and be who I am. But I get so bitter ...

A.   16 January 2010: dont go your whole life worrying about what people think about you, on the other hand u have to have some street scred so get up half an hour earlier in the morning, put some make-up on, straighten you hair, put some dress jewerary on, pamper ... (read in full...)

HE asked for a one night stand does this mean he likes me or not?

Q.   this guy in mii class asked me to have a one night stand with him...oh n i aint in skool...so does this mean he likes me? that he wanted to start a conversation? or was he just a perv? n he never texted me/messaged me since i said no... but i really ...

A.   16 January 2010: Boys are players, dont do anything with him untill u are a bit older and wait a couple of mouths too see if he will wait for u! i garentiee u he would have moved on to some one who would have sex with him and forget about u, if u decied to do it ... (read in full...)

He is my ex and I am his... so why should I care?

Q.   so my problem is that im too shy and too scared to call up my ex, and totally depend on msn. It's been a a while and he's nowhere to be found. I feel like he doesnt want to ever talk to me. But he was the one who wanted to be friends in the first ...

A.   16 January 2010: well mabey, deep down u still have slight feelings for him because even when you break up with someone u might not love eachother as in bf and gf but u still love him as a friend! this is why you still care about him, because u have also been cose ... (read in full...)

I'm tired of him and want to break things off but how do I do this?

Q.   3 days ago I told my boyfriend that I didn't feel like talking to anyone or dealing with anything without bitching and he said okay I won't talk to you. I was having a really hard time cause my period was late and I was stressing out cause of school ...

A.   16 January 2010: well you should never go out with someone who you are uncomfortable with or do not have feelings for, he is going to find out sooner or later so you should tell him your self before he finds out before anyone else. at the end of the day you have to ... (read in full...)

What music to heal my pain?

Q.   Ok so my girlfriend who i was crazy about and so in love with has recently finished with me to be with another guy. This all happened a bit out of the blue and has shaken me bad. we were together 3 years. Can anyone recommend any songs that I can...

A.   16 January 2010: if u are looking for breakup songs i have a mixed collection for you: chipmunk- oopydaisy ne-yo - so sick alica keys- dosnt mean anything (more of a girl song) justin timberlake - cry me a river jls - beat again hope theese helps pleas... (read in full...)

Should I see whether she misses me by not having any contact with her for about a week or two???

Q.   Ok I am really in love with this girl for 2 years already. I waited for her even though I knew she was in a relationship with her bf for 4 years. Her relationship wasn't going well. She broke up with him a couple of times but patched back with him ...

A.   16 January 2010: yes i think that is a god idea, you should have about 2 weeks space away from her, if she misses u she will get in contact, but if not then the answer is oberious tht she has moved on. good luck and remeber everything hapens 4 a reason!x... (read in full...)

He seems to be so mean to me when he's drunk.

Q.   Okay - This is probably not a big deal but I don't know how to handle it. My bf and I have been together about 1 year. We are buying a house together. Twice now he's gotten drunk and and is so mean. Not physically abusive or anything. But he'll say ...

A.   16 January 2010: tell him how you feel when he treats u like this and tell him u feel like he is putting the drink (the obsettion) b4 yourself x sorry if this advise is not very good, im still young myself and still learning, could u rate my answer pease? thank... (read in full...)

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