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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I was with my boyfriend for 3 years...we had the perfect life together, same interests, travelling the world together, he spent all his time with me and I thought he was the one, He proposed to me last year but had zero interest in the wedding, I even had to cancel the engagement party...it all left me devastated and empty, On top of this he was also off sex with me for a year and found it a chore to get on top of me. A month ago I moved back in with my mum. Very quickly I began seeing someone from work...our eyes met and we couldn't keep our hands off of each other. He makes my heart pound when I see him and we can't go a day without each other. My ex wants me back. Is it better the devil you know? Should I be in a contended relationship with someone who I don't have a spark with or go with happiness?
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reader, truelondoner +, writes (19 January 2015):
 Be careful the new guy isn't just a short term rebound. You may think you are totally connected with each other but sometimes that's just you trying to replace the ex with another to stop the heartbreak. A replacement rebound may not be the best thing. Be careful that you don't throw away a diamond for a stone because sometimes people deserve second chances and if you screw this up, you may not have another chance your self. If you were all for the new guy, you wouldn't be seeking advise. Your heart is clearly telling you to give your ex a second chance. Sorry if this sounded blunt, but sometimes it is best to try and get straight to the point. Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2015): Don't go back to the ex regardless of how things are with the new guy.
If you and your ex were compatible, you'd still be together.
Let there go. He's wasting your time
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