I don't think I know how to masturbate
Q. I am very confused. I have tried to masturbate in the past, but, I am worried I am doing something wrong. My boyfriend and I have sex alot, but I am confused on how to masturbate properly. I am 18 and have tried to masturbate since iwas 14. My ...
A. 12 February 2009: Satindesire, as usual, has hit the spot (no pun intended)! I would like to offer a little addition to that, if I may? A task for you; just a simple one... Tonight, when you are alone and not likely to be disturbed, I want you to examine... (read in full...)
I hate my B-cups and I need to know how to make them bigger!
Q. ok im 15 and ive been in a B cup since the 5th grade and im a small B i hate the way they look Especially without a push up bra i mean my 10 year old sister is bigger than me {go ahead and laugh cause that is funny} my boyfriend trys to make me ...
A. 12 February 2009: Many, many men - me included - are not fussed about size, only that YOU get pleasure from when we suck and nibble on them.
That's all that matters, precious.
Ron.
65.... (read in full...)
Normal? He wants bj twice a day?
Q. My boyfriend wants me to do bj for him twice everyday(at least once,but doesn't have to make him cum though), if we ever see each other in that day(we don't live together). I just want to know is it normal for guys or it's just he has too much ...
A. 12 February 2009: Nice one, Gina!
Either get him to go down on you repeatedly throughout the day, or maybe blow him time after time when you are with him - wear him out and make him sick of it?
I know that's quite a burden on you, as you dislike doing it, but soon... (read in full...)
Is it worth it to lose your virginity when not in a relationship?
Q. Is it worth it to lose your virginity when you are not in a relationship? I am 20 years old. I am horny all the time, been hooking up with a guy that I am very attracted to whom I would not mind having sex with. I am not naive about sex, just ...
A. 12 February 2009: All good advice from the other answerers!
But it doesn't help you, does it? You masturbate, of course you do - but it doesn't come near to solving your problem?
Going for it would help your physical desires, and for a man that would likely be the e... (read in full...)
Anal sex tips?
Q. ok i am hoping to get some tips on anal... my bf and i have been trying baby steps with it and im cool with it, i was just wondering if i could get some tips on it. ...
A. 11 February 2009: Thanks for replying.
Please do not try to do it ALL in one go tonight; you are young and with a tight, virgin bum, so spread things over several nights and let your bum get acclimatised slowly.
Oh, and relax!
If you are tense it will take longer ... (read in full...)
Anal sex tips?
Q. ok i am hoping to get some tips on anal... my bf and i have been trying baby steps with it and im cool with it, i was just wondering if i could get some tips on it. ...
A. 11 February 2009: You are quite right to take baby steps in your journey towards satisfactory anal sex, "Shortstuff".
Get it right and you will have an enduring pleasure....get it wrong and you will be put off for life!
That would be a shame, because it is a good s... (read in full...)
Age Disparity?
Q. I am writing a paper about if the law should be changed on what age you can date people and if there should be a consentual age. Please respond with any suggestions or information to help me out. Thanks!!!...
A. 3 February 2009: Oh what a difficult one! Why? Because it is such an emotive subject and will bring out all the vigilantes who see paedophiles in every shadow.
I would NEVER advocate under-age sex.
But how you define under-age depends upon where you live; I believ... (read in full...)
Problems during fellatio, any ideas?
Q. well my girl has a problem in giving me a blow job. she likes to suck,rub and perform the whole foreplay. but wen she sucks the head I am not climaxing/dont even feel like I am gonna cum but then she says she gets a very salty taste. I am confused! ...
A. 2 February 2009: If you can't climax whilst she is "blowing" you, I have just the answer in the form of an email an expert g/f sent to me, but it was blocked by the moderator for being too graphic! If you use the system here - don't know how it works, myself -... (read in full...)
Do guys know if you're a virgin when you have sex for the first time?
Q. When you have sex for the first time, is there a different feeling for guys like do they feel you a virgin or the feeling is the same to when you are not one? Like how people say I'm tight and you loose? Is that really true?...
A. 2 February 2009: Ignore what small boys brag about when talking to their peers - it is usually Bulls**t! Ron.... (read in full...)
I'd like advice about losing my virginity
Q. I want to lose my virginity with my boyfriend.We are both virgins,and both the same age.Anyone have any tips on how the first time should be ?.So far,i have been on top of him while we were both wearing our underwear.I was just wearing my knickers ( ...
A. 1 February 2009: All good advice here and not a lot to argue with at all. Candlelight is great, as well as smoochy music, but what you need more than anythingis to be stimulated mentally. ALL good sex starts in the mind. Spend as much time before "the night" exci... (read in full...)
I can't tell my friends what I am doing
Q. hi im not really sure if there is a question in this, im so confused, i think i just needed your opinion on my situation as i cant talk to friends about it i have a best lad friend who i trust with my life and everything in it, we began fooling...
A. 1 February 2009: This is going to show up the difference between the sexes! Most blokes will say "go for mit!", and girls will urge caution, in view of his girlfriend in the background. Is he using you? Probably, although he will deny it even to himself - there'... (read in full...)
The age difference is freaking me out! How do I forget him?
Q. There's been this guy that I had been asking questions about lately. He and I have known each other for about five years; have become really close friends for 2 1/2 to 3 years and have started really flirting back and forth since last summer. He w...
A. 31 January 2009: You are getting stressed about an uncertainty here - you don't KNOW how old he is, only going on an assumption from when he graduated.
Lots of academics graduate late and/or enter teaching late.
I was a College Lecturer, but only entered academe ... (read in full...)
Why do older men think they have a chance with younger girls?
Q. ok i'm a 22 year old woman and i have a question about old men, like 40+. basically why do they try and flirt with us younger girls, why on earth would we be interested in someone who is old enough to be our fathers?! seriously, i hate it when i a...
A. 30 January 2009: "The Old Man" seems to be the most sensible respondent here. I deplore rude and crude behaviour in anyone, men or women, young or old. THAT is justifiable in your posting, Miss anonymous, but not your acerbic attitude to those who choose to go ... (read in full...)
I don't want to give blowjobs but it seems like a problem.
Q. Every time I make out with a guy they always go down on me or should I say oral sex but I feel bad because they lay back expecting me to do the same thing to them which I can never do because it seems disgusting!!! I know it's unfair for them but I ...
A. 30 January 2009: As you can see, I did answer you, but my response was virtually moderated out of existence - you got less than 10% of what I posted. If my postings are to be so severely abridged/censored, is there any point to this site and/or my efforts?... (read in full...)
I don't want to give blowjobs but it seems like a problem.
Q. Every time I make out with a guy they always go down on me or should I say oral sex but I feel bad because they lay back expecting me to do the same thing to them which I can never do because it seems disgusting!!! I know it's unfair for them but I ...
A. 29 January 2009: Why do you think men's bits are more disgusting than women's? Do you enjoy being licked out, having your clit sucked and gently nibbled? Being brought to a flooding orgasm and having him lick you clean? Getting the point, here? OK, let's try t... (read in full...)
Is the new sensitivity in my penis going to be a problem for our future sex life?
Q. Well, this is kinda embarrassing but what the heck! im 20 and am very sexually active when in a relationship, but i have noticed within the past year i am starting to come alot faster than i used to!! with one of my ex's "C", i used to be abl...
A. 29 January 2009: Thanks for the clarification, JJ.
I'm still full of admiration at your being able to fuck non-stop for 2 hours, even if it is, sadly, in your past.
You said you made "C" cum, but you didn't say whether you did?
Did you go for that long WITHOUT... (read in full...)
1st time sex with experienced guy I feel uncertain
Q. im in love with an older guy but i am a virgin. im 20 and hes in his 40s, divorced with kids, his oldest is older than i am. im really scared about having sex with him. I heard that for your first time its better to go on top but im scared i could ...
A. 29 January 2009: Good advice from "smeedle" and "sarcy24", but in many ways I think that you are concentrating too hard and on the wrong things! Relax - sex should be fun; so what if you get it wrong? Just laugh, pick yourself up and start again...... By the ... (read in full...)
Is the new sensitivity in my penis going to be a problem for our future sex life?
Q. Well, this is kinda embarrassing but what the heck! im 20 and am very sexually active when in a relationship, but i have noticed within the past year i am starting to come alot faster than i used to!! with one of my ex's "C", i used to be abl...
A. 29 January 2009: There must be something wrong with me! Are you saying that you once were able to be inside your partner, hard and pumping, for up to 2 hours without cumming? And in all this time, did she not cum? Nor get sore and worn out? Tell me how it's done! ... (read in full...)
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