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*JZippy
writes:Well, this is kinda embarrassing but what the heck!im 20 and am very sexually active when in a relationship, but i have noticed within the past year i am starting to come alot faster than i used to!!with one of my ex's "C", i used to be able to have sex for about 2 hours:she was quite noisy and sensitive and well... not to make it seem harsh but... loosenow my last ex "P" i could barely last 20 mins: she was quite tight but never made much noise as she was not sensitive.. i could make her come but the tightness and the quiteness just left too many free thoughts on coming and worrying incase i wasnt pleasing her... which meant i would last 20 mins if i was lucky! most of the time ide cum in bout 5 mins!im worried coz i can now come quite quick during sex or foreplay, and am wondering if im going to stay this way or if its poss for me to get my old drive back!!is it supposed to become less sensitive again??????
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reader, JJZippy +, writes (30 January 2009):
JJZippy is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hey Ron:
yeah sometimes i did come with "C" but was able to become hard again in minutes and carry on...
i think it was coz she was loose, i dunno, but ill jus have to find out i guess...
i dont sleep around, sex is important to me, so ive been waiting for someone who can handle what im like now...
i have a gf now, but there is no way im having sex with her until she says its ok, and i believe she'll be fine with it...
But! too much sex in a day is bad, i had sex 9 times in one day, and on the 9th time i bled instead of coming. its sooo painful!
so try to not come too much...
Your never too old buddy, its jus a drive, i may get it back and same goes for you.
only time will tell, even though its harsh.
So Chin Up...well, cock up in these terms lol, and keep trying, and good luck...
Best Wishes,
JJZippy
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reader, tra40d +, writes (29 January 2009):
 Thanks for the clarification, JJ.
I'm still full of admiration at your being able to fuck non-stop for 2 hours, even if it is, sadly, in your past.
You said you made "C" cum, but you didn't say whether you did?
Did you go for that long WITHOUT cumming yourself, or, even more incredibly, cum but remain hard and carry on for an hour or so?
This old bloke must be getting well past it!
Regards,
Ron.
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reader, JJZippy +, writes (29 January 2009):
JJZippy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTo tra40d (Ron) :
well kinda yeah! "C" did come but we carried on, generally for 1 to 2 hours... due to forplay, her loudness and her being loose (i think), but yes she did get sore..
but with "P" i was lasting only for 20 mins tops if lucky and was very hard to make her come during sex!
i dunno if it was coz she was tight and too quiet, but now i come way too fast!
I want to be able to last again.
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reader, JJZippy +, writes (29 January 2009):
JJZippy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTo Anon:
it does not matter if i used protection or not, i jus seem to come way too fast after "P". even if i was to masturbate or have slow sex, it will happen quickly!!
i was jus wondering if i could become less sensative again?
or can louder women make you less prone to come quickly, due to distration?
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reader, tra40d +, writes (29 January 2009):
There must be something wrong with me!Are you saying that you once were able to be inside your partner, hard and pumping, for up to 2 hours without cumming? And in all this time, did she not cum? Nor get sore and worn out?Tell me how it's done! Ron.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2009): If you aren't wearing a condom perhaps you should as the reduced sensitivity from that could be all you need to last longer. Another avenue is to cum before intercourse, either hours before or even just before if you can get an erection again, as that will likely make you last much longer.
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