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im a 19 year old girl, i live in belfast which i love im in a relationship of 1 year with my boyfriend who i absoultly adore, i have 2 big brothers and 2 younger sisters 1 niece and 1 nephew who i all love to bits. i love going out with friends and just having lots of FUN. so if theres anything you want to ask me just drop a message im really easy going and kind aswell. |
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I have my first session with a counsellor coming up, any advice on how to go about it?
Q. Hi Ive posted before about a problem ive had about visiting prostitutes and feeling lonely. ive now decided this is a sexual addiction I have and want to see a counselor. Im going for the first session on Saturday with a relate counselor and wa...
A. 21 April 2010: hi there hope i will help. when i was younger something happened and i had to go speak to somebody about it at the start i was so nervous thinking what will they think or say to me but they are the kindest people you could ever speak to they are... (read in full...)
Why is my ex acting so immature?
Q. My ex boyfriend whom I broke up with over the phone doesn't want to talk to me so its kind of like we didn't have a closure which now I don't care if we ever do because we haven't talk since. He went back out with his previous ex girlfriend and ...
A. 21 April 2010: hi there i hope i will help. im here to be completly honest with people,firsty you chose to end things with him over the phone so it sounds to me its you who didnt want closure. i dont think that its fair that he feels that he has to leve his frie... (read in full...)
Is this prof coming on to me?
Q. I go to college, and I have one professor that's always taken a shining to me. I noticed this first when he tried to help me get a job by introducing me to an employer and praising me in front of him. One day I stayed back to finish an assignme...
A. 21 April 2010: hi there
if this was me this is how id deal with it.
i would take a step back and look at the bigger picture and if i do this i think he could be being a little to over friendly a teacher and a student should never meet at a house or anything... (read in full...)
My ex's cousin wants me to go out with him but I don't want to
Q. so im 15 years young recently i've been saying im over my ex alot of times yet i know im not in fact i think i love him my ex boyfriend.my exboyfriend cousin likes me hes always calling me and seening how am i doing and when im not in the mood he ...
A. 21 April 2010: hi there
hope i can help you with this problem,firstly your ex boyfriends relative should not be considering or wanting a relationship with you. it is wron on so many levels he he should have respect for both of use and the 2 familys. when he askd... (read in full...)
Worried that my over protective father won't accept my boyfriend but tired of living a lie!
Q. I have a boyfriend he's 27 years old I'm deeply in love with him I live with my dad and he don't want me to have any boyfriend untill I'm 30. he treats me like a 2 years old girl the only way I could go out it's when I'm going to church or school. ...
A. 20 April 2010: hi there
hope i can help you out, i think your dad should maybe give you a bit more space as you lost your mum sorry about that. but if you take a step back and look at the bigger picture your dad is just looking out for you. but he also needs to l... (read in full...)
Obsessed with my housemate!
Q. I'm not one to usually share but am slowly driving myself crazy with this problem. I moved in to a house share about 2years ago and it was great except I soon fancied one of my housemates. Despite getting on great he never showed any obvious signs ...
A. 20 April 2010: hi there
my advice for you would be sit him down and tell him that you have feelings for him but just not as a friend more and see what way he reacts back to you when you tell him. if he tells you he dosnt feel the same but still wants to be frie... (read in full...)
Am I enough for my porn-addicted boyfriend?
Q. My boyfriend won't stop watching porn. He said it's not the girls or sound that turns him to it but the story of how they got their (Blackmail, bribe, etc). The problem is in my past relationships a lot of bad things have happen with porn. It hurt...
A. 20 April 2010: hi there
my advice would be for use to sit down with eachother and have a real serious conversation about this. tell him exactly how you feel about him going on and watching porn. also tell him that he is hurting you when he goes on it because you ... (read in full...)
Where can we go to make love and have some privacy???
Q. hi everyone.. i am in a relationship since 3 years.. both of us are perfect for each other.. we share a great bonding together.. i am 21 years old and he is 22.. we study in the same college.. we live with our families in a small town in india.. we ...
A. 20 April 2010: hi there
i can remember when me and my boyfriend wanted some us time and couldnt do it because of friends and family i had to sit my mother down and tell her that i wanted to sleep with him just me and him in a nice place and she understood so she ... (read in full...)
Besotted by my teacher...
Q. I am 15 years old and I am in love with a teacher at my school who is 25 years old, I may sound naive but it's not a silly little crush and I didn't choose to like him and I have never been a believer of age meaning anything, also he is single so i ...
A. 20 April 2010: hi there okay you say its not a silly crush for this teacher but you are just 15 years old? i think you really should try and forget about him as he could be sacked from teaching at this school and at any school students and teachers really shouldnt... (read in full...)
Is she my true love or should I move on?
Q. I have gotten back with my ex but am not sure it is the best for both of us. She and I had been together for over two and a half years. Most of that time was wonderful. She was very giving and understanding in many ways but also demanding in ...
A. 20 April 2010: hi there i really understand what you are going through as i have been there myself i have been with somebody and then we finished got back togather and it didnt work out and we realised we wernt good togather at all. i think you really need to ... (read in full...)
Painful sex, is there something wrong with me?
Q. i had sex for the first time when my bf fingered me it was so painful but i never had any pain wen i did that to myself.when we had sex it was painful i couldn't feel anything but pain but my bf says that he liked it a lot. and when he went down it ...
A. 20 April 2010: hi there
i think you should go to your doctor and explain the pain you are getting when you and your boyfriend have sexual intercourse. everybody is very different when having sex after the first time. you should try things on urself for a whil... (read in full...)
Is it my fault he is controlling and abusive?
Q. Please help me I am so lost...I asked for advice a few months ago about part of my situation...I'm 21 and when I was just turned 18 I cheated on my then boyfriend with a guy who turned out to be a complete stalker/ obsessed compulsive lair. Let's ...
A. 20 April 2010: hi there
i really hope i can help you with this. okays you made a mistake when you were 18 that has got nothing to do with him as you wernt with him when you did this. he maybe feels that you should have been honest with him when he asked you abou... (read in full...)
Had sex with a co-worker, should I tell my fiance
Q. My fiance has been in jail going on three months now, his date to be released is May 28th. I love this man with all my heart and soul. We have been through so much with his probation officer and his time. I was able to see him twice a week and talk ...
A. 20 April 2010: hi there. may i ask you a personal question? how can you stand by this man if you know what he has done? what i think about this is you are feeling lonely as you do not have your man around to comfort you if you have had a bad day or if your fee... (read in full...)
He's talks big about sexcapades, but he doesn't come through in the bedroom!
Q. Why does my new boyfriend talk big but not act on it? I've been seeing this guy a few months. He lately has been descriptive of what he wants to do to me in bed. He says things like "I wanna Butt F* u" or "are you ready to get on all fours and purr ...
A. 19 April 2010: hi
men are like this they tell you what they would like and are gonna do to you but then they never do it. i would take matters into your own hands and take charge do things to him that maybe he wouldnt expect from you and then might say oooh she ... (read in full...)
He's in no hurry to divorce his wife! what should I do?
Q. I have been dating this guy for two years who is separated. he is so good to me and we have such a great relationship. I could never imagine my life without him in it but my problem is everytime I mention him getting a divorce he gets offensive and ...
A. 19 April 2010: hi there
what i think you should do is sit him down and tell him how you feel about him still being married to his wife. Also tell him what this is going to do to your relationship if he does not get divorced from his wife. To me he is using this... (read in full...)
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