How do you deal with a friend in a bad situation?
Q. One of my best friends is being really stupid with a guy she was sleeping with. He dumped her (sort of, she found out on facebook when he started dating someone else)and now is stringing her a long. After the first time i heard she was sleeping ...
A. 21 February 2011: Be straight up with her, encourage her to improve her live and leave him. All you can do.... (read in full...)
My future inlaws wont acknowledge my existance.
Q. so, i guess this isnt really so much a question as just wanting to rant a little lol. me and my fiance have been together for over 2 years and have been living together for a year and of half. now things havnt been easy with either of our parents, ...
A. 21 February 2011: If they don't want to be involved with your life, don't involve them. But make sure you and your fiancé put up a united front. Make it clear your a package deal. They can't get one without the other. Obviously, your beloved needs to be on board ... (read in full...)
I don't want him to feel tied down
Q. Hi, Am 19, my boyfriend is 21, we have been dating for 5months. We have been having sex since the first month. We both still ave along way to go. I love him and want to keep him but, am scared he could get a better girl. He loves me too bu...
A. 21 February 2011: He's a big boy. If he wants some one different, he'll leave you of his own accord. Don't sabatouge your relationship with doubt.... (read in full...)
She's clever, pretty, cute, funny, I just don't feel attracted to her, and I wish I was.
Q. basically,I'm writing this is because I feel like a tool. There's this girl A, in one of my classes, and I'm a gay girl, and she's just said she's bi. Problem is, I think she really really likes me, and I like her too but not like that, and I feel ...
A. 21 February 2011: Be honest. Anything else is just setting everyone up for failure.... (read in full...)
Friend says he doesn't like he co-workers yet he plays along like he does. I'm confused
Q. this sounds silly but its worrying me. ok my good friend transferred to another department recently and is working with a new group of people-i may be joining him soon. what bothers me is he says theres a couple of people there hes had run-ins with ...
A. 21 February 2011: Actually, co-workers hide how they really feel about each other all the time. It just makes seeing each other every day easier by removing the stress of confrontation. Also, sometimes people step out of line, someone else calls them on it, so they ... (read in full...)
My best friend and I are at odds over this guy! Help!
Q. I like the same guy as my best friend. She had a thing with him while she had a boyfriend this summer and she choose her boyfriend over "guy". She has told me to go out with guy since then, over and over again and I said no because I knew she had ...
A. 21 February 2011: The way you've Played this has given you two options; lose both of them or one of them. You've entangled your self into a web of lies and manipulation fairly handily here. You need to decide who you want in your life, then force them into being ... (read in full...)
How do I stop from pushing him into the arms of someone else?
Q. My ex boyfriend and i broke up 3 months ago. i left him because my ex was begging for me back and i didn't really think about it. the guy i left him for was a jerk and i broke up with him and now my ex has a new girlfriend. he says he still has ...
A. 21 February 2011: He's really playing a cruel game by dangling his relationship with her over your head like that; however, you did leave him for an ex. You both need to move beyond the past, and the best way to do that is to walk away and see if he follows, doing ... (read in full...)
I miss her everyday and want nothing more than be a family again
Q. I've been in love with my xwife for over 3 years. We are divorced. When I try to come forward she says Im crazy or scewed up. she wants nothing with me. We have a child of 3 years old together. I miss her everyday and want nothing more than be a ...
A. 21 February 2011: Don't fool yourself; it's over. It has litterally been made official (through divorce). Time wasted on her is time not finding somebody you can be happy with. Move on, start anew.... (read in full...)
Advice on break up!
Q. I had been dating my boyfriend for what would be a year tomorrow. He is at college so I usually don't see him for about six weeks at a time, but obviously he has long summer/easter/xmas holidays. I was out with a friend in december and saw him, and ...
A. 21 February 2011: I don't know for certain, but here's what it sounds like: you're a sure thing for him, so he doesn't want to lose that. At the same time, he wants to move on to another person/other people. So he's trying to keep you in limbo to have a "back-up ... (read in full...)
I have a large labia. Is that unattractive?
Q. This is kind of embarrassing for me, but I am very self-concious about my vagina. I have a rather large labia and fear that men would find it unattractive. Though I've never had sex, I've been sexually involved with a couple of guys in other ways ...
A. 21 February 2011: According to your values, by the time he gets to it, it should be a none-issue. If not, you filtered out another douche who wasn't good enough for you.... (read in full...)
My guy is making me seriously ill...
Q. My guy is making me seriously ill... Ok so i met these guy on fb(i knoww) when i was 17... i have very controlling parents so i was always a straight A's student, didnt drink, rarely went out.. now im 18 and he's 22.. he is the typical "bad boy...
A. 21 February 2011: Things you need to acknowledge: he only wants to get in your pants. You need help beating your anorexia (family). You must break any and all contact with him and his friends. He will not change. He will NOT change. That last one is a biggie. Th... (read in full...)
How can we become friends again???
Q. I like this guy. We went out at the beginning of the school year but he broke up with me after two weeks. We hadn't know each other that long. No more than a month. But when we meet it just clicked. He was the best friend I ever had. I thought I ...
A. 21 February 2011: Are you not friends already? Talking to each other and hanging out is the basis of a friendship.... (read in full...)
I lie to my friends about girlfriends. I've never even had my first kiss!
Q. Hi er I'm 14 years old and living in Portsmouth ATM I have never had my first kiss and I lie about it to mates to not be embarrassed. How can I change this and build my confidence? I need ideas on who in general and how should I tell them? Thanks ...
A. 21 February 2011: Been there. Don't worry so much what they'll think of you. If they're good friends, you may be made fun of a bit, but it will all be in good fun. If it's mean spirited though, you know to seek out new friends. Start honest now, you don't want to ... (read in full...)
Should I continue to be close friends?
Q. I have this really close best guy friend. We are really close, both of our parents think we are going out. He is bisexual. I kind of confessed to him before that I think of him more than a friend, and he didn't feel the same. He just left me and ...
A. 21 February 2011: If he wants something more than friends, don't lead him on by doing things that would fall outside of "friendship activities.". Otherwise you're setting him up for disappointment by leading him to believe you may be more than a friend some day. Be ... (read in full...)
Help, I don't know what's wrong with my boyfriend...
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for going on a year now and everything is fine... my problem is that i havent talked to him in 2 or 3 days now so i dont know if i should just wait until he calls me or should i just try and contact him... i ...
A. 21 February 2011: So he hasn't had a conversation with you for a couple of days. Give him his space. If your relationship can't withstand a brief lapse in communication, it won't work out in the long run.... (read in full...)
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