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Pink tinted discharge and mild cramps: signs of pregnancy or beginning of period?

Q.   i had sex on days 9 and 10 of my cycle... that'll be 4 weeks ago on thurs...my period was due on sunday it still hasnt come on..but today i had a bit of pink tinted discharge...other then that no changes cept very mild cramps... do you think th...

A.   8 January 2008: If it's pink, it might be ur period and, if ur worried, ur period could be late without u being pregnant. the best thig to do is to get a pregnancy test.... (read in full...)

Does need a break means I will leave you?

Q.   my boyfriend has recently told me he needs a break. Does this mean he is goin to leave me?...

A.   16 December 2007: Okay now, You need to talk to ur boyfriend because most of the time a break means: I am tired of you and I need to stay away from you. it could also mean that he needs about a week or two cuz he got too much going on. Make sure u know the true ... (read in full...)

My mom read my diary and now I feel all traumatized! What to do about her??

Q.   My Mom read my diary this morning, I'm traumatised. She knows my sex life in huge, digusting detail, she knows that I'm a good child brought up very well and I never wanted that to change. I'm a 14 year old female who initiated sex with my ...

A.   16 December 2007: I dont think it is something that u should be traumatized by, big deal she read ur diary, let her know that ur mad and tell her not to go through it again and since its ur privacy, she should know about it and also respect it. Parents do that all ... (read in full...)

Why would she bother to contact me now?

Q.   Take a deep breath . . . i am wondering why an old girlfriend has contacted me?, after 26yrs has gone by, i still loved her at the time but she bunked off with another guy, so i had to leave, we was working together, it was the stress and strains ...

A.   13 December 2007: I think the reason why she called you is probably because she realizes that you were good 2 her. maybe she still loves you or maybe wants to re establish some kinda frienship with you. talk to her and youll find out.... (read in full...)

How can I rebuild my relationship?

Q.   I am having problems with my boyfriend. We live together and have done for the last couple of months but we are arguing alot lately and the physical side and is pretty much dead (for me anyway). Can you help me re build my relationship. ...

A.   13 December 2007: Talking is always good. It has helped me and I am sure it wll. Make a nice diner or take him out.then after, you can start telling him that you love him... get in the mood and I am sure that it will put him in the mood. I am not trying to scare yo... (read in full...)

Her Grandma is trying to break us up

Q.   I m in love with lady who is having my sweet son, the problem is her both parents are passed away and her grandmother she don't like me without a reason, I am afraid if i lose her she will suffer as she is unemployed what do do?...

A.   13 December 2007: well, you can try to figure out whats the reason why nana doesnt like you. You can ignore her and try to get your girl to love you more because after all you are not in love with the old lady, you are in love with her grand daughter. Or if it is ... (read in full...)

How soon can I take a pregnancy test?

Q.   hi all ive got a question now my boyfriend and i had unprotected sex on the day i finished my period 2nd december , and from then we been having sex and the condom spllit inside of me , now im worried as i keep thinking could i be pregnant ? is the...

A.   13 December 2007: This pregnancy test can be taken five days before your period. Its called First Response. you should try it, I have and Its pretty effective so have my friends an they say it is too. so try and you'll know whether ur pregnant or not... (read in full...)

What did his parting words mean?

Q.   I broke up with my bf.There were so many misunderstandings and confusion and unwilligness to open communication on his side,so that our separation came as logical solution and even relief.However i feel depressed and im sure he feels the same. ...

A.   13 December 2007: I think you should call him up, try to meet up with him and try to figure out what that means. Did you lie to him when u were with him? were u hiding anything from him when yall were together? this thing has so many meanings to me. i think he is the ... (read in full...)

He loses his erection a bit when I go down on him. Whats wrong?

Q.   Hey everybody. I want to start out by wishing you all happy holidays!! Anyways, I have a problem. Everytime I go down on my boyfriend he always goes a bit limp. Not completely but it goes down a bit. Everything is fine when we have sex. He has...

A.   13 December 2007: IT could be two things. Maybe he doesnt like it that much or maybe he is too excited. You can keep on asking him how does it like it as in using your tongue a little more, deep throat it or just suck on the top of his penis. That is if you're not ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend was unfaithful, what should I do?

Q.   Hi I'm 19 and I've been with my girlfriend for 2 years. We took a gap year round the world together for 5 months having the best moments of our life. We hardly fight, and we have loved each other so much in the last 2 years, and I never would have...

A.   3 November 2007: you should make sure that you know whether she'll do it again or not. question her. talk to her as much as you need to so you can find out why she cheated on you in the first place.then, if you think that she is kinda sincere maybe you can forgive ... (read in full...)

How do I say get lost, nicely?

Q.   I have a friend that I known since I was younger, but I have lost touch with over the past few years. Now, she keeps calling me up and asking me if I wanna go shopping or whatever, and I don't really wanna because I prefer my best friends. I am...

A.   3 November 2007: you can actually always give the person an excuse so you dont go wherever the oerson is going or you can just say things like" why dont you make new friends" that what Id do... (read in full...)

I'm in love with a married man! Do I break up with my twice-as-old-as-me-boyfriend!?

Q.   I am 20 years old. I have been with my 40 year old boyfriend for two years. About six months ago, I have met this 34 year old man and I fell I love with him. He's married. He is a friend o my family and so is his wife. They got two small kids ...

A.   20 August 2007: I love the married man and we've been together now for 10 months. Sometimes I don't even think of him as someone who's married and some other time I do. Its not that I don't know that what I am doing is wrong but I wanna make myself happy. Yes I am ... (read in full...)

I can't stop thinking about him and it's wrong.

Q.   Please help. I have recently been married and had an affair before being married with a friend of a friend. I became quite close to the guy but he lives a distance away and I see him rarely so nothing physical happened in recent years and I married ...

A.   19 August 2007: I think that its totally normal since you had a history with this man before. You can think about it and actually get something out of it. You know whether you want to call him, tell him you can't stop thinking about him. I think its really up to ... (read in full...)

I make him happy in ways his wife can't... Now what do I do?

Q.   I have somehow gotten myself into a relationship with a married man. He set boundaries at the beginning stating what he was comfortable with happening between the two of us, but he has slowly broken all of his own rules. He is definitely starting to ...

A.   28 July 2007: I feel you and I the same thing is going on with me right now. I would love for her to find out 1 way or the other and to tell you the truth, I really want her dead. I just don't think that he will ever leave her. Well, anyway, be patient! If you ... (read in full...)

My ex and I want to get back together but doesn't want me to continue a relationship with my friend

Q.   I'm 38 and gay, and have been with my partner (who is 21) for nearly 3 years. We recently had broken up for about a month or so, and in that month I met someone else who I consider a friend. We did hook up once during that month but now my partner ...

A.   10 July 2007: I think you should sit down with your partner and talk to him. Have a long talk with him. Tell him what you really want and if he does love you, he'l trust you and he'l let you do what you want. Trust is what comes first in every relatioship. He ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with a married man! Do I break up with my twice-as-old-as-me-boyfriend!?

Q.   I am 20 years old. I have been with my 40 year old boyfriend for two years. About six months ago, I have met this 34 year old man and I fell I love with him. He's married. He is a friend o my family and so is his wife. They got two small kids ...

A.   30 May 2007: I am just in love and trust me, when u r, u don't think about nothingh or anyone else but the person that ur heart belongs to or the person whom u think that your heart belongs to. Whether I might get hurt or not, I ain't worried about it now. I ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with a married man! Do I break up with my twice-as-old-as-me-boyfriend!?

Q.   I am 20 years old. I have been with my 40 year old boyfriend for two years. About six months ago, I have met this 34 year old man and I fell I love with him. He's married. He is a friend o my family and so is his wife. They got two small kids ...

A.   30 May 2007: Well, I understand that you guys have almost the same advice for me. Thanks anyway! Y'all have been very helpful. The thing is that even though he is married, I just ain't ready to leave him yet. Since I am in love with him and also, my boyfriend of ... (read in full...)

I am 18 and very attracted to a 36 year old man who I know is interested in me as well... is it crazy?

Q.   I am 18 and very attracted to a 36 year old man who I know is interested in me as well... is it crazy? ...

A.   28 May 2007: To tell you the truth, it will be hard to adapt to his little ways because of the age gap. But if you guys are in love with each other, it will work out. Just don't let it get boring. Always make sure that you're there for him and make sure that he ... (read in full...)

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