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I am a psych student from Alabama. I've always been good with advice, and am very knowledgeable about sex. At one time I wanted to be a sex therapist, but discovered over time that I was interested in the field of eating disorders and learning disorders. I enjoy helping people, and think that communication can solve many of todays problems. People seem to have lost the ability to listen to others. I enjoy being able to teach people, and prefer to base my advice on experience and research.

My friend might be anorexic, how can I help?

Q.   hi. I think my friend might be anorexic. How can I know? What do you have to eat to be anorexic? How much do you have to exersise? Please help, I'm not sure what to do. I need to know exactly what makes someone anorexic, so i can see how serious ...

A.   6 November 2007: AN anorexic person will generally make excuses not to eat- like "I ate before I came over" or "I had a heavy lunch" They will generally talk a lot about weight in general and be very interested in food in general- like studying the nutritional fact... (read in full...)

I love him, but he hates my family, how can I handle this?

Q.   so i love this guy i have been with for two years. We have been pretty serious, and I really love him, but things are just so hard. He said he hates my family, and i'm not sure how to take that, because family is very important to me, and he is ...

A.   6 November 2007: you certainly can't force a person to like other people. Try to talk to him about going to family events as something that would be important to you, but make sure to respect his feelings. Don't force it. Family is very important to me as wel... (read in full...)

What may be wrong with my periods?

Q.   does anyone know what may be wrong with my periods? i started them a few months after my 13th birthaii and i was 15 in may. so i started over a year ago and i have come on every single month on the 17th guarenteed. come on on the 17th and im off by ...

A.   5 November 2007: Same thing happend to me and then it stoped all together. I went to the doc and found out that it IS NOT DANGEROUS- And I did go on the pill. it made me feel much better, the periods were far more comfortable even... (read in full...)

I'm embarrased because I have small breasts

Q.   I'm embarrased because i have small breasts and get called names for them. Im like an A cup and im 14. 15 in feb. Im wondering if sleeping with a bra stops their growth because i always sleep with one on. I need help...

A.   5 November 2007: I can certainly tell you that wearing a bra DOES NOT stop development. I wore a bra as soon as I started growing, and I now have DD cups. Not everyone gets larger breast. a lot of it is genetic. Be proud of what you have- there are plenty... (read in full...)

How to delay your period? Starting a new pack straight after the old pack, is this true?

Q.   Hi, im on the pill (21 day pack) and am going on holiday soon. I heard you can stop your period for that month by starting a new pack straight after the old pack, is this true? and after that 2nd pack do you then leave it off for a week and get your ...

A.   5 November 2007: There are also new brands of pill out that you can take 3 months straight (like seasonale) They do the very same thing as just skipping the placebo and going on to a new pack. It's perfectly safe, and your doctor would tellyou the same! Have fun ... (read in full...)

I don't know what to choose, how do I decide?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have now been together for 6 months. We're both seniors at the same school. And we're both each other's first serious relationship. He just told me last night (he'd never told me before) he wanted us to be together even af...

A.   5 November 2007: You honestly never know what will happen, either way. I, personally speaking, would be worried about a guy who is worried about being able to stay faithful. That just says to me that it would be easy for him to stray. What if you had to go out of t... (read in full...)

How can I stop my girl from laying on the guilt trips!,

Q.   Hello all, Well I've been with my girlfriend with seven months now and we have the kind of relationship that I'm sure would make an outside observer a bit ill...lots of cuddling, lots of "I love you"s and "I love you more"s -- in other words, ver...

A.   5 November 2007: I always think that communication is key. Sit her down at an opportune time (like when she's calm) and ask some questions about how she feels. Showing the interest in how she feels and what she thinks will reassure her in a way that you care about ... (read in full...)

I'm nearly 17, how long should I wait before I move out with my boyfriend?

Q.   I am 16 years old and will be 17 in december and I am with a guy thats 18 and well my parents strongly don't agree with what im doing. I am white and he is black, but see that don't bother me...But it seems to bother my parents. What can i ...

A.   5 November 2007: I know that you don't want to hear this- but it is probably a good idea to stick with your parents (or grandparents) I understand the feeling of parents or grandparents not agreeing with something that you are ok with- and that's certainl... (read in full...)

I'm uneducated in sex. Do women crave sex?

Q.   im 21 and have my first girlfriend 6 months ago and havent had sex in like 2 months and even before that it was seldom. Everytime we try sehe gets pissed off and doesn't even talk to me and its cause I am unable toget hard and rarely if I can it ...

A.   4 November 2007: Only SOME women use sex against men- and those women do a huge injustice to women such as myself. Women do have a sex drive- and it sounds to me like the woman you are with is just not supportive of you. My advice is that you need to find a w... (read in full...)

Had sex without condom on the 7th day of pause (from the pills), are these signs that I'm pregnant?

Q.   Ok pleas help me.. I'm on the pill but on my last day of my seven day break about a week and half ago, i had sex without a condom with my boyfriend. Now for about 4 days ive had slight stomach cramps and slight dizziness in the morning and weei...

A.   4 November 2007: My body likes to play tricks on me- I am on the pill, take it near-perfectly, and he doesn't usually come inside of me. The very few times that he does, my body plays a trick on me and makes my period a day or two later than usual! Yo... (read in full...)

Are relations about sex or love?

Q.   earlier my families were planning for me to have arranged merraige and now they seem like they drop the subject as a result i stayed vergin till now. the thing is i don't know how to choose the first guy to have sex with plus my past ...

A.   4 November 2007: I love the fact that I fell in love with my fiance long before we had sex. Sex is just a huge troublemaker when there isn't love. ... (read in full...)

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