Braces will make me feel worse about my appearance. I feel ugly, what can I do?
Q. I am a 15 and i regard myself as ugly, i have only ever had one proper boyfriend and i am about to get braces. I know i shouldnt be talking like this but i do have really low self esteem. No one has ever told me i am pretty or beautiful and lets ...
A. 1 November 2007: when i first got braces, i thought they would make me look absolutely UGLY! a few weeks later, after school started, i would be talking to a guy about how i thought my braces looked ugly, and he would tell me they look soooo cute. this happened ... (read in full...)
My self-consciousness in interfering with my life
Q. Im 15, and i know pretty much all i should know about sex before i have sex. i am in a serious relationship, he has fingered me and i have given him a hand job. We do that every few times we see eachother and im fine with it, and want to have sex...
A. 29 October 2007: there's nothing wrong with the way you are, and as you grow, so will your boobs and they will gain a more normal shape, but it's nothing you should worry about anyways. so what? your boyfriend won't care.... (read in full...)
Girls are confusing, what should I do?
Q. Okay so back on October the 12th i was sitting at my computer talking to all my friends until i got a random message from someone i have never talked to in my life. This girl tells me her name and how she doesnt know me, but found me on my friends ...
A. 25 October 2007: she sounds a bit boycrazy and jealous, and probably just has a flirty personality. that can definitely be confusing. you should meet up with her. tell her that if she won't meet up with you, you won't be able to continue in the relationship. if ... (read in full...)
Why has he picking on me?
Q. my mate (guy 17) and i go town and to parks like any other mates, but recently hes started tickling, poking and picking me up, and the last few times ive been with him he keeps sitting behind me and pulling me close to him and he gets an erection, i ...
A. 25 October 2007: well, he does that because he likes you, simple as that. he finds you sexually attractive, and you just have to be honest with him and ask him to stop if it makes you uncomfortable. ... (read in full...)
Extremely happy with my bf, but I still enjoy other male attention. Why?
Q. hiya, i dont know whats going on with me. i am extremely happy with my boyfriend of 7 months, but i still enjoy other male attention. i really feel my bf is the one, but i enjoy others giving me comments e.g. on my myspace site, or previous ...
A. 21 October 2007: there's nothing wrong with enjoying a little attention, just as long as you don't act upon that attention. if you act on it, bad things can happen, such as your guy getting jealous or angry, but go ahead and keep enjoying those little self esteem ... (read in full...)
Shall we own up to what didn't happen?
Q. hi to give you abit of background in the situation me and this girl my own age have been best friends since we were little. Her mum and dad have known me since the day i was born and know what i've been through in the past(my dad died when i was 4 ...
A. 21 October 2007: dont say anything unless they ask you about it, then just tell them the truth and they'll believe you. if they don't bring it up, they probably didn't even see anything.... (read in full...)
I would really love to know the best and fastest ways to gain a 6 pack and a good body
Q. Hi, Well, i am a male (15 nearly 16), but i would really love to know the best and fastest ways to gain a 6 pack and a good body. I occasionally go to the gym and make a point of doing sit ups as i can certainly feel stretching in my abs, but i am...
A. 19 October 2007: when you do your situps, hold a 25-pound weight. thats what swimmers do to gain massive abs, and it works pretty well. school PE doesn't really do anything, but playing football is good, and try to make sure you work out at least 3 times a week.... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin. Shall I pretend that I'm not?
Q. Hi...im a sophomore in high school and well most of my friends along with myself have went into high school as a virgin but most of my friends have lost it this year i dont feel pressured into losing it but when they talk about how everything ...
A. 17 October 2007: I'm a sophomore too. Don't lie about something like that, I would consider it a good thing that you're a virgin. I lost my virginity last year and it's definitely something i regret. You'll get your chance with a guy someday, so don't worry about ... (read in full...)
I'm in an awful situation - can anyone offer some sensible advice?
Q. hi, im 16 and been dating a 21year old and he slept with my friend before me and she is 13weeks pregnant. Then he got with me and I'm late. I dont no whether or not to stay with him as he has offerd me crack. I'm in a awful situation.. I told him ...
A. 16 October 2007: stay away from this guy!!!!!!!!! crackheads are never good news, especially when he might have gotten you pregnant. Tell your parents, they will help you. Get a pregnancy test immediately and if you're pregnant, please don't get an abortion. You ... (read in full...)
I'm 13, is it OK for me to loose my virginity?
Q. im 13 is it okay to loose my virginity im not sure can anybody help ?...
A. 16 October 2007: I can't tell you not to lose your virginity at this age, but I can at least advise you to think about it. I would only have sex with this person if you wanted to have a serious relationship with them. I can tell you that I lost my virginity at 14, ... (read in full...)
What should I do to make my dad understand?
Q. So yeah, I'm a 13 year old girl, turning 14 next year. and i have a new boyfriend who is 17 My mother knows about us and she told me not t do anything I don't want. One time he asked me if i wanted to have sex. I said no and he dint argue. He said ...
A. 16 October 2007: Your dad, like all dads, is just being protective. He understands that usually when an older guy dates a younger woman, all he wants is sex. He will probably never be ok with you dating this guy, but don't try to sneak out with him because of ... (read in full...)
He cant keep it up long enough to have sex. I think its nerves as I am his first!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for 5 months now, and are at the "serious" stage of our relationship. We're both 18 and we've tried to have sex twice now. The thing is, he can't seem to keep an erection long enough for us to actually have ...
A. 16 October 2007: He's just nervous, it's nothing to worry about. He might not be sure if he's ready yet, or maybe he's afraid something will go wrong. Don't pressure him, comfort him. Tell him there's nothing wrong with this being his first time, and this happens ... (read in full...)
How can I find out if I cheated or not?
Q. hi. i am nearly 16, been with my boyfriend just over a year and love him dearly. i recently went to a party of a friends for her 16th birthday and we got very drunk and i cant remember anything that happened. the next thing i knew was i was sat in ...
A. 16 October 2007: Explain to him the situation you're in. If he finds out from someone else, he'll think you're hiding it and almost deifintely dump you. If you explain it, he might forgive you (since you have no memory), and even if he dumps you, you will have ... (read in full...)
Is this flirting or just plain silliness??
Q. today me and my freind were taliking bye the gate at high school (there is a football ground bye our school)somtimes the players drive past today they did and they rodomley waved and smield at me and my freind were they flirting or am i just being ...
A. 16 October 2007: It's just their way of a compliment. Don't think on it really, but guys are like that. They see a pretty girl while driving by and that's just how they react. ... (read in full...)
Too early to commit?
Q. i have been with my bf for one and a half years its really serious and things are going great but most recently i have been thinking about engagements. Is this way too soon to be thinking this serious and this committed??? ...
A. 16 October 2007: I don't think so. I think if you know you definitely want to marry this guy and be with him for the rest of your life, then good for you! But you might want to make sure that's what you want first. Good luck!... (read in full...)
Am I ready to date again?
Q. My ex split up with me just over 3 months ago. I really am missing her dearly. She has made it very clear that we won't get back together, and while I think it is she that is making a big mistake, I feel lousy. These past few months have been...
A. 15 October 2007: I wouldn't start dating quite yet. Definitely go out and have fun often though, it will make you feel better. Don't start dating again until you can honestly say you are over your ex and ready to move on, though.... (read in full...)
I haven't had a period yet. Is this because I masturbate?
Q. plz someone i need help badley! ok here is is...im 12yrs old and i masterbate... all my friends a skwl hav startd there p.m.t (periods) and i havent yet. is there n e chance that i will never start my periods because i masterbate??? i...
A. 15 October 2007: masturbation has nothing to do with your periods. My periods started last year, when I was 14. my mom's didn't start until she was 15. You shouldn't worry that there is something wrong unless your periods don't come in the next few years. So if ... (read in full...)
How do I 'come out' to my parents?
Q. ive been seeing a girl at uni for the past 10 months, id just come out of a bad relationship with a guy who was a real idoit and she was there so me. i love her and the sex is amazing, but now she wants to meet my family, who think im straight and ...
A. 15 October 2007: If your parents care about you, they will be ok with the fact that you're bisexual. There's nothing wrong with it. They should realize this and support you. If this woman makes you happy, then they should be glad you're happy. Maybe you should ... (read in full...)
I fear for my anorexic boyfriend. Please, can you help?
Q. My boyfriend lives in another country and i love him ever so much. I don't get to see him ever but he is anorexic and i'm finding it difficult to support him. As an ex-sufferer, i know what he is going through. But no matter what i say, he seems to ...
A. 15 October 2007: he needs help!!!! I also was anorexic a couple of years ago. I wouldn't even admit it until one of my friends alerted the school counselor, who told my mom. The three of them helped me get better. Try telling someone in his family, or one of his ... (read in full...)
Shy or not interested?
Q. So i'm sixteen and am severly confused about this guy. He's also sixteen, just for the record. So we've been talking for awhile now (mostly through text becasue we go to different schools and don't see each other often) and he's been telling me that ...
A. 15 October 2007: Maybe he just doesn't know what to say or how to act around you, because he's nervous that he might do something wrong? If he really likes you, maybe he's just too shy to ask you out. You could always try asking him out to a movie or something, ... (read in full...)
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