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... Send *upersquirrel a private message | | | *upersquirrel's profile:i'm 17, recently split from a long term relationship. it was a very comfortable, loving relationship, which made it very easy and natural for us to experiment sexually (the first relationship of that kind for both of us, we were virgins for each other). i'm a dedicated career girl; i love animals, and will do anything possible to achieve my life goal of becoming a vet (he could cope with being second to my work, but we were both so argumentative and stubborn that he thought it was in both our best interests to split up-and it restored our parents' sanities as they no longer hear us yelling down the phone at each other at all hours:D)
i've known a couple of people with mental instabilities (one of which self-harmed and wanted to die; we're no longer talking, but he's still alive:))
i was in a mentally abusive relationship a while ago, so am very understanding of the lasting effects.
i try to help as much as possible to improve my friends' relationships, so i have a lot of experience in agony aunting :)
i try to help anyone that approaches me with any problem, because i feel that there aren't enough people in the world that take the time to help others with their problems (this view may not be true, but that's what i've experienced throughout my recent break-up) |
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He takes offence when I don't swallow his cum.
Q. I tried really hard to talk to my boyfriend about him cumming in my mouth, because he loves the thought, but whenever he has in the past, I've had to stop myself gagging. I don't think it's the taste, but kind of the gooey texture.. I just don't ...
A. 18 February 2008: if it's the texture you don't like, then make it bypass your mouth... i always got my ex to warn me when he was about to cum, at that point i'd take him as deep into my throat as possible, then i didn't feel it or taste it! hope this helps xx... (read in full...)
What do you think about body hair?
Q. I have a rather odd question. Do women generally find body hair unattractive? If so, where? I have wondered this for a long time, but I am too embarrassed to ask my friends or my family, lol. I mostly just want to know what women think about hair...
A. 7 October 2007: i LOVE it, the only place i don't like it is on their backs... but besides that i really do think that guys just aren't right without it!!... (read in full...)
My ex is all I want, and can't have her, and my social life feels dead in the water. What can I do to stop the negative thoughts?
Q. Hello everyone. My girlfriend has left me after our long distance relationship became too much to bear for her. She's gone away to University and I gather is having a damn good time. Myself on the other hand is very bad just now: It's ove...
A. 7 October 2007: yep that's completely normal, and completely how i feel right now. it doesn't matter how much people tell you there's plenty more fish in the sea, and you're still so young, and he/she wasn't good enough for you anyway etc you still only want your ... (read in full...)
I'm meeting a guy i met on the net and am taking my friend with me. I'm positive he will prefer her!!
Q. I really like this guy, and we have been talking for about a month now over MSN and on the phone. We're supposed to be meeting on friday but theres something thats really troubling me. My best friend is coming with me, and I'm positive that he...
A. 28 August 2007: do NOT meet him alone, take someone with you no matter how much prettier than you you think they are, going alone is too much of a risk..much more of a risk than him potentially liking your best mate. please be safe and make sure someone knows you ... (read in full...)
Any advice on painless anal sex.
Q. How can it not hurt so much? My boyfriend and I have tried to do anal and it hurts alot. He really wants to do it cause he has never done it before but how or what can we do to not have it hurt so much. He gets it in a little way and then it starts ...
A. 23 August 2007: LOTS of lubricant and you must be very relaxed. seeing as you've had bad experiences with it before, that may make you inclined to feel tense..so he should encourage you to relax, maybe a back massage first? i found that helped.
hope this help... (read in full...)
What are your thoughts on a 15 year age gap online relationship?
Q. Anyone can tell me their opinion about a 15 yr old age difference relationship i.e 17, 32 (older male) views from the male side are appreciated (even female), and what if the meeting was from internet that started as a joke and then became a serious ...
A. 23 August 2007: i'm 17 myself and have just started talking to a 33yr old over the internet.. we started talking on the 21st, and have spoken for a number of hours on the internet and a little on the phone too.. i'm almost ashamed to say that i'm actually getting ... (read in full...)
Will eating only 2 apples a day make me lose weight quickly?6
Q. Hey.. ok well i'm planning to lose weight..So i'm going to eat two apples a day and that's it..iv done this now for 1 day..and I no that i'm going keep on doing it..how long will it take like before the weight all drops off?? i'm 9 stone and I hate ...
A. 21 August 2007: that is ridiculous!! i'm the same weight as you, and i absolutely love my body, and i know the guys do to.. curvy is the most attractive way to be. if you're unhappy then maybe exercise and get toned up instead of trying to lose it all.. 3 meals a ... (read in full...)
I am getting ingrown hairs and shave bumps
Q. Alright, so I recently gota gf and decided to start shaving my pubs (from what i gather girls my age prefer shaved). so anyways, i have a problem and i'm wondering if its normal... getting ingrown hairs. sounds nasty i know, but i'm wondering if ...
A. 21 August 2007: i agree with flower girl on the shaving cream... but how do you know your gf wouldn't like prefer you unshaven? i don't know about other girls, but i personally would find it unnatural for a guy to be shaven... plus i just love the fluff to be ... (read in full...)
How can we be more discreet with our lovemaking?
Q. Hi, Me and my girlfriend have been going out for nearly a year and a half. I moved in with her a few months back due to situations at home. Her mum lets us slep together because she trusts us and she's known me all my life and me and her daughter ...
A. 16 August 2007: i found it was more discreet for us to lie on our sides, my back towards him. then it can be hidden as a cuddle, and you don't have to completely remove any clothing.
maybe the fact that her parents let you sleep together shows that maybe they've ... (read in full...)
Should I be worried that he didn't orgasm from my blowjob/handjob?
Q. Today I gave the boy I liked a blowjob/handjob. It was for 10 minutes. And at the end he said, "That's good." and so i stopped. and he was kissing me and caressing me alot. I asked him if he orgasmed. and really quickly he said no. And i was like, ...
A. 16 August 2007: that is absolutely nothing to be worried about, maybe he too was nervous and couldn't relax properly. use your mouth to focus on the tip of his penis(especially just underneath), and use your hand further down; start slowly, and ask him to tell you... (read in full...)
I dont want to sleep with a girl right away, why is this a problem?
Q. Girls, please give me your words of wisdom! I have not have sex I like over a year! I’m not ugly or anything! Just been real relaxed, REAL RELAXED about – getting out there. I hate one night stands – just not me. And this really isn’t about ...
A. 16 August 2007: i loved nothing more than being naked with my ex. it was months into our relationship before we first had sex (though it was our first time ever) and i can honestly say that in future relationships i will do the same. if the guy wants sex when i ... (read in full...)
A relationship break???
Q. I recently broke up with my boyfriend (well he broke up with me) but I don't want the relationsihp to be over. I'm just curious how many people have experienced break-ups and gotten back together successfully? I know it happens - I've seen it in ...
A. 16 August 2007: i also split up with my boyfriend recently (well, he split up with me) this time 'for good'. but in the 16ish months we've been together, we've split up and got back together more times than i can remember. and each time we promised we'd make it ... (read in full...)
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