Should we stay together when he goes to university or just break up?
Q. Hey, I was hoping if someone could give me advice. I dont really know what to do. My boyfriend is going off to uni in about 4-5 months. We've been going out for quite a while, and we've been discussing what to do whether to: stay together when he ...
A. 10 May 2007: Hi
I have had my fair share of long distance relationships. The first 2 my boyfriends lived about 4 hours away from me. I did have huge problems with them becauseI msised my boyfriend and also because I worried alot, although loving him dearly I... (read in full...)
I want to have the big commitment talk with him, but I'm worried of how he will react. Any suggestions?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been talking since last September and dating since November and have known and been friends with each other for years. He's buying a house soon and asked that I stay with him eventually. Thing is, I'm scared to ask him how ...
A. 10 May 2007: Hi
The best thing you can do is..well, talk. I know it might be difficult but that's what you need to do. You need to tell him your concerns and how you are feeling. It may be difficult but you do have to do this face to face. Typing online i... (read in full...)
Should I meet up with my ex even though I now have a BF?
Q. Hi I'm meeting up with my ex this weekend. I only went out with him for a few months back in 2004, we split up because I felt that there wasn't that spark there, plus it was a long distance between us. I've been with my current boyfriend since ...
A. 9 May 2007: Thanks for all your advice. I know it sounds bad but we did it last year too and my boyfriend was fine then as well. If he said he really didn't want me to go then I wouldn't but because my ex...i don't like to call him that really because he is ... (read in full...)
Should I meet up with my ex even though I now have a BF?
Q. Hi I'm meeting up with my ex this weekend. I only went out with him for a few months back in 2004, we split up because I felt that there wasn't that spark there, plus it was a long distance between us. I've been with my current boyfriend since ...
A. 9 May 2007: The problem is myself and my ex are really good friends so I'm wondering if it's just that that I'm feeling. We chat on the phone but hardly see each other, because of the distance. I really want to see him and my current boyfriend is ok about this, ... (read in full...)
I'm together with an amazing woman, but I don't fancy her. What shall I do?
Q. I am in a relationship with an absolutely amazing woman. She is kind, caring and everything I could ever hope for. But I just don't fancy her. I am waiting for something to 'click in', but it isn't. I fall asleep with her at night feeling guilty and ...
A. 8 May 2007: I've gone out with someone in the past because we were basically like best friends. We had everything in common and I felt I should go out with him because I wouldn't find anyone else who was so similar to me and so kind and caring. Or someone that ... (read in full...)
I'm together with an amazing woman, but I don't fancy her. What shall I do?
Q. I am in a relationship with an absolutely amazing woman. She is kind, caring and everything I could ever hope for. But I just don't fancy her. I am waiting for something to 'click in', but it isn't. I fall asleep with her at night feeling guilty and ...
A. 8 May 2007: I've gone out with someone in the past because we were basically like best friends. We had everything in common and I felt I should go out with him because I wouldn't find anyone else who was so similar to me and so kind and caring. Or someone that ... (read in full...)
Cut off contact with my ex bf so I could heal! Was this the right decision?
Q. After my boyfriend and I broke up 2 weeks ago now because he has commitment issues. He was still emailing me, I finally ended it with him saying I think we shouldn't contact each other anymore. I told him that I need to heal and move on with my ...
A. 8 May 2007: Hi
I think if you still have feelings for your ex then cutting off contact is probably the best thing for now. If you still have feelings for him and keep seeing/contacting him you won't be able to move on. I have a friend who is in the same situ... (read in full...)
I like this teacher and I just can't get her out of my head! What can I do?
Q. Hi i wrote up on 6th April this year and posted the question which i have written below, I don't mean to annoy anyone on here but it got no answers and i really really need your help, i hope none of you take this the wrong way with me posting it ...
A. 8 May 2007: Hi I can't say exactly why you might feel like this but if perhaps things with your provate life at home weren't so good and this teacher was someone you looked up to this might be why you have these feelings. Somtimes, especially when younger, yo... (read in full...)
I'm starting to resent my husband... is our 13 year age gap to blame?
Q. There is a 13 year age gap between my husband and I and when we married first it was ok. We now have 2 young children 4 and 7 and he is 50 - I am 36. The age gap is more noticable now and he doesnt really get involved in the upbringing of the ...
A. 5 May 2007: I don't knoew if it's the age gap or not. I personally am in a relationship with a man 18 years older than me, but we have not got to the marriage stage and I am only 21. Sometimes though I do wonder about the future. Anyway, although it's important ... (read in full...)
I'm still in college and my Bf who is 10 yrs older is concerned hes holding me back!
Q. I wrote a question the other day, but it ended up being interpreted wrong, so I will try to rephrase it. I have been dating the same guy for 2 years now, and we understand eachother and connect on so many levels. The problem we're having right no...
A. 4 May 2007: Hi
You need to talk to him about this and tell him how you feel about it. If you don't feel held back tell him so. I'm going out with a man who is 18 years older than me and I am 21. I could be off clubbing, drinking etc if I wanted to all the ... (read in full...)
The fact that he didn't tell me he was married and older, really bothers me! What should I do about this?
Q. Hi, I'm 21 years old and am going out with a 40 year old man. We've been together 2 and a half years. It started off with me believing he was 32 when we first got together but I later found out he was actually nearly 40 and had been married. He...
A. 25 April 2007: Thanks for your advice. A bit of info about his marriage CD- it was in 1996 i think, he was an oil rig worker and he was in Brazil, met this girl and within a month or so they decided to get married because they wouldn't have been able to be ... (read in full...)
In a relationship with a child but why do I keep visiting my ex's MySpace profile?
Q. hi all, this is going to seem stupid it does to me but i suppose i just need to get it off my chest. a bit of background info on me;i have been with my boyf for over 3 years w have been living together for 2 ad we have an 18 month old daughter...
A. 24 April 2007: Hi,
I too have had similar problems. My first proper boyfriend who I was with about 4 years ago for 8 months I loved very much and although it was long distance we seemed to have a great relationship although it had it's bad times because of my in... (read in full...)
My 15 year old gf has told me she wants me to "have my way with her"! How do I deal with this?
Q. my girlfriend ov 3 months says she wants me 2 as she put it "have my way with her" but i am 16 and she is nearly 15 and it feels like i am taking advantage so i havent. i have low confidence and im scared she will leave me because of it. she says ...
A. 24 April 2007: Hi,
Don't feel useless at all and don't hate yourself. This is only my opinion but I think that if you're not confident enough at the moment you shouldn't feel pressured into doing anything. Hey, I wasn't at all confident enough to have sex at y... (read in full...)
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