Why am I having such a hard time overcoming my jealousy?
Q. I need some points of view! I suffer from spouts of jealousy...always have really...and I can't deal them very well...it's taken control of my life. For instance, if my husband and I are at the video store choosing a film, it has to be one with not...
A. 5 October 2009: You and your husband need to sit down and talk about this problem together. It is a problem and you need help. Get advice from a councillor and if he is will get him to come with you. You need to sort yourself out as this problem will not go ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend slept with someone else out of the blue; why would he do this?
Q. My boyfriend of over 2 and a half years has slept with someone else. He came to mine on Saturday, we had great sex, then went to the fair then for a lovely meal. He then went to a friend in London's housewarming party, coming back the next da...
A. 5 October 2009: He sounds very upset about what he has done. You either forgive him and forget about it and dont thow it in his face at the slightest little argument or you break it off. Be sure though before you move forward that he is genuinly sorry and it will ... (read in full...)
I have a crush on him but I think he is still in love with his ex!
Q. dear cupid, i have a crush on this guy and have been crushing on him since last year.. but i think he's still in love with his ex-girlfriend.. but he's always laughing with me and winking at me should i go for it? what should i do?...
A. 5 October 2009: Go for it otherwise you will never find out if he is still in love with his ex or not. He must be interested in you to keep smiling and winking at you. Turn his attentions to you!... (read in full...)
Is there still hope that I can make changes and save our marriage?
Q. I have been married for 15 years. My husband has asked to leave... I have asked for him to stay and let us try... we have been trying for years. I am not able to quite. He has agreed to stay in our home (by my begging) until he finds a place which ...
A. 5 October 2009: It would appear that you are both using your unfortunately life history against your current relationship. You should always remember dont use yesterdays amininition to todays arguements. Let the past lie however painful if was to you both and ... (read in full...)
He lied about his age. What should I do now?
Q. I met a guy who told me he was 18 going on 19..things developed fast and I think I've fallen for him, only for him to tell me he's 16. I'm 22. I'm confused and told him I need time to think. What should I do?...
A. 5 October 2009: If you fell for this lad when you thought he was older, whats changed other than you now know the truth about his age. What does age have to do with anything if you are happy and get on really well.... (read in full...)
Should I go out with a boy who is my "soul mate"? Everyone thinks we need to!
Q. we were out for the day me an my mates and we ran into this boy who is my soul mate hes exactly like me we have the same personalty and everyone says we need to go out and he really likes me but im really not attracted to him but sometimes i think i ...
A. 5 October 2009: Only you can answer the question of whether you should go out with him or not. You say he is your soul mate and you get on very well. You may not be attracted to him but hey give him a chance on the understanding that you were friends first and if ... (read in full...)
How do I go back to feeling happy and complete on my own?
Q. I'm 23 years old, I've just finished my postgraduate degree and started working. I consider myself to be attractive and my colleagues wonder/ask me why I'm still single. I get guys approaching me and asking me out for a date but I never like the...
A. 5 October 2009: One thing always to remember is you are not alone, you say yourself you have a great family and good friends. You say you are not physically attracted to the lads that ask you out so you refuse. Give them a chance. Looks are not everything and ... (read in full...)
My mum doesn't like my boyfriend, how can I explain it to her so she will let me get back with him?
Q. Well, I Was with this boy before but my uncle went and told lies about him to my mam so my mam started not to like him, when i broke up with him i cant stop thinking of him i really want him back but i just dont know how to explain it to my mam so ...
A. 5 October 2009: Why does your uncle have an interest in whom you are dating? You need to speak with your Mum and ask her why he is telling lies about your boyfriend and get her to understand that you are sensible and if you find out he is not good enough for you, ... (read in full...)
I feel so scared and alone, the one good thing in my life has gone!
Q. I think this has been long overdue and I'm not even sure I know how to express exactly how i'm feeling in one question, but I have to try. I'm almost eighteen now and I really feel like i've hit an all time low, rock bottom you might say. I kn...
A. 5 October 2009: I can fully understand what you are saying. Obviously this lad had a complete change of heart while on holiday, sounds to me like he probably met someone else the rat. Speak to your mum or sister on how you are feeling. Mums were young once and ... (read in full...)
I was doing so well getting over him but all my hard work has been undone
Q. 2 years ago i fell in love, it was amazing, i had never met anyone like him,. everyone said we made the perfect couple, and we were so happy. we went out for a year, but towards the last month he said that it was going to quick, he was too young ...
A. 5 October 2009: I may be wrong but it would appear that perhaps you were a bit pushy in your relationship with him and that led to him feeling controlled. However, you must decide if you want him or not and tell him how you feel if that is the case. If you dont ... (read in full...)
My mum doesn't like my boyfriend, how can I explain it to her so she will let me get back with him?
Q. Well, I Was with this boy before but my uncle went and told lies about him to my mam so my mam started not to like him, when i broke up with him i cant stop thinking of him i really want him back but i just dont know how to explain it to my mam so ...
A. 5 October 2009: You have to ask yourself why your mother does't like your boyfriend. Is she just being unreasonable and doesnt like the look of him or is there a reason. Find out how your mother feels, act grown up and ask her in a rational way and it might make ... (read in full...)
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