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writes:we were out for the day me an my mates and we ran into this boy who is my soul mate hes exactly like me we have the same personalty and everyone says we need to go out and he really likes me but im really not attracted to him but sometimes i think i should just go out with him what do you think x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2009): Darling, he is blatantly not your soul mate! YOU don't even fancy him, it's your friends trying to push you together, it's POINTLESS going out with someone you don't like out of peer pressure, come on.
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reader, boo22 +, writes (5 October 2009):
 Hi, don't make the mistake of going out with people cos your mates think its a good idea. I've done it and their wrong! Only you can decide if your attracted to someone or not. If you're not then you're just great friends and thats fantastic, just leave it there.Your mates may think they're being helpful of they may just be creating a bit of drama. Either way, if you don't feel it, it's a waste of time and you may lose him as a friend. good luck x
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (5 October 2009):
 He is your soul mate but you are not attracted to him?
How does that work? If everyone else says he is your soul mate and you do not... well you are the one who are supposed to know.
Sorry, but sometimes a guy everyone thinks is right for you, just doesn't do it for you. You can't force love.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (5 October 2009):
You don't have to suddenly go out with him. Why don't you try just getting to know him more first, then see if attraction develops?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2009): Give him a chance ! Sometimes we don't find people attractive at first but then later when you get to know them you do :) good luck !
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2009): Why not? Do you have anyone else you'd rather be with? If not why not just do it. You might find out there's nothing there, or he's a jerk, or he might just make you fall for him ;) Give it a shot, don't do things you will regret, and go with the flow of things ;)
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reader, adamskidude +, writes (5 October 2009):
 youre 14ish, go out with him, have fun, hes not your soulmate, but go for the ride anyway.
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reader, Summer1951 +, writes (5 October 2009):
Only you can answer the question of whether you should go out with him or not. You say he is your soul mate and you get on very well. You may not be attracted to him but hey give him a chance on the understanding that you were friends first and if a relationship doesnt work out, you can always go back to being friends.
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reader, Heartbroken in love  +, writes (5 October 2009):
give him a chance. believe it or not but attraction is not always instant. think about the other option here which is go with an instant attraction and hope and pray that he feels the same way. this will most likely lead to heart ache and a whole lot of not being on the same page and frustration. so give him a chance. you may open a whole new deminsion of who you are and then maybe all the sudden find him to be quite attractive. just give him a chance
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