My FWB says he loves me now that I lost weight. Reality check?
Q. Ok here is the story I have been fwb with this man for almost a year now. Well I'm losing weight and he is starting to really respond to this. He tells me how beautiful I am and how much he wants me and how he can't keep his hands off of me. He h...
A. 12 March 2009: I agree with Gina, It's a very difficult subject. As a guy I would admit to prefering slimmer girls however I think fitness and healthiness are more important than size. Perhaps this is a little general but I would say it feeds from the idea that ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend thinks my sex drive is too high!
Q. I am a 21 year old girl and my boyfriend is 24. For the last few years I have masturbated almost daily and when I got into this relationship my sex drive has remained really high and my boyfriend comments on it a lot. He never complains in the ...
A. 9 March 2009: Sex drive does vary from one person to another. Generally it's considered to be higher in guys however this is not always the case. From the sounds of it if you masturbate everyday you probably do have a very high sex drive for a girl. At a gues... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend's fascination with lesbians is stupid!
Q. Am I stupid or wrong if I think my boyfriend's fascination with "lesbians" is juvenile and stupid? I will admit I feel slightly insecure/inadequate, since of course to him these girls (who would have to be bi, he said...) would have to be hot for it ...
A. 11 February 2009: I wouldn't let it make you feel like your no enough. A lot of guys that like the idea of lesbians (particularly lesbian porn) like it because watching other guys have sex makes them feel insignificant. The thing to remember about most male fantas... (read in full...)
Help!!!I am scared of making a fool of myself as I don't know what to do.
Q. I asked this a few days ago but I would like some male advice as well. I need some help, to cut a long story short I lead a very "sheltered" life, I have never had a boyfriend never had any physical contact with a guy and it didn't bother me...
A. 6 February 2009: It's not that uncommon to still be a virgin but you may find it difficult to talk about it with him.
It will be really difficult for you if the relationship is only a "bit of fun" what makes you first time easier is doing it with someone who you ... (read in full...)
Why did he treat me so badly? And why do I still care?
Q. I cant seem to get over how my ex treated me.here are some of the things he would say! Im fat ive got a fat bum. I dress stale. He could dress me better.he felt sorry 4 me thats why he was with me. I had a sad life. If i was bloke he would smash my ...
A. 6 February 2009: I agree completely with RCN. You should forget about him entirely and move on with your life. It is not important what he does or who he is friends with on FACEBOOK.
It's not uncommon for guys who prey on girls with low self confidence to criticis... (read in full...)
Should I let the past go in order to experience the best relationship I have ever had, or do I have a right to be worried?
Q. Should I stay or go?? I have been with boyfriend for a year now and it is the greatest relationship I have ever had. To me, he is a caring, beautiful person who generally always considers me. However, we have been honest with each other about our ...
A. 16 August 2007: People do change, or more acurately learn from their mistakes. The question is do you believe that he has learnt from what happened with his wife.
When you say "eyed up" what do you mean? Even married men will stare at attractive women (mostly ... (read in full...)
Dreaming about a girl i know. does it mean anything?
Q. I'm a 19 year old female and i dreamt that i was around a female who i know in real life and then she went off with a guy and i felt jealous then i think we did sexual things together.Then i felt emotional connection towards her.While i was waking ...
A. 16 August 2007: Ultimately dreams are just a way of interpreting what happened to you in the waking world. Whilst what you dreamt may have been something you subconciously wanted, that is definately not always the case. The fact that you asked out another girl... (read in full...)
Is she over me and should I get over her?
Q. The girl i like is actually my colleague. I started working with her in October 2005 till Feb 2006. At that point, there was no attraction, only a professional acquaintance. I rejoined the workplace in September 2006, and then the flirtations ...
A. 16 August 2007: I think you already know that any potential relationship you have with her will be far more effort than it's worth. I've known other girls like that and I would say it's not that uncommon for girls to not know exactly how they feel about a guy... (read in full...)
How do I deal with the insecurities I have before geting back into another relationship?
Q. Ive always had bad insecurities and have depended on other people to make me feel good about myself. This includes my ex bf...but I broke up with him earlier this week and I feel un loved and dont like myself. How do I deal with the insecuriti...
A. 16 August 2007: I cannot understate this, Everyone feels the way you feel at some point or another. The trick is to find something you're good at. Whether it's something you already do, or a new hobby, and take pride in your abilities and yourself. You're definat... (read in full...)
I had the girl I had always day dreamt about and then she left me...
Q. Hey all, I met a girl at the start of university on my course, we had small talk in lectures whenever we crossed paths and I instantly liked her, I remember seeing and empty chair next to her and not daring to sit in it! So anyway I just ca...
A. 16 August 2007: In my opinion it comes down to this; Whilst she still loves you your relationship has hit an obstacle and she feels that it would be better for both of you to go your seperate ways. She is using the distance between you to make that easier on b... (read in full...)
My wife and I don't get along - would it be wrong to have sex with my ex?
Q. My wife cheated on me several times. We started to divorce but then we decided to give it another try. I must admit I hold onto a lot of resentment for all the lies and deciet along with her excuse that it was my fault she cheated. Things were good ...
A. 15 August 2007: Trust and communication are the two most important elements in a relationship and it appears you have neither with your wife. If you can't address these issues, quickly! then I would have to say that a divorce is inevitable. As for cheating, In... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my second cousin...
Q. Every summer our family went to my grandma's place. I met my 2nd cousin there. We are not so close but I'm fallin' for him, I don't know why.. No one knows what I feel for him only me.. Then one day me and my mom went there to have a vacation. ...
A. 15 August 2007: This is not a descision you should make by yourself. If you really love each other than you nned to discuss this with each other.
Ending a relationship because of fear of social stigma is a really bad idea. If that were the case there would be... (read in full...)
I had the girl I had always day dreamt about and then she left me...
Q. Hey all, I met a girl at the start of university on my course, we had small talk in lectures whenever we crossed paths and I instantly liked her, I remember seeing and empty chair next to her and not daring to sit in it! So anyway I just ca...
A. 15 August 2007: I think you're on the right track, she is really struggling with the commitment issue.
Basically with any relationship people have to get to a point where they concider the long term future for you, is this the guy i want to marry? settle down wit... (read in full...)
I hate myself! How do I stop feeling this way?
Q. Ok, i really need some help here. Im always picking faults in my appearance and if i see something i don't like (which is nearly always) i get really really angry. I think that i should be prettier, thinner just like other girls i see. I absolutl...
A. 15 August 2007: It's possible your problem goes slightly further than we can really help you with here, but I'll give it my best shot.
You clearly have really low self esteem. which to be honest isn't particularly uncommon at your age. What complicates it is th... (read in full...)
My ex works at the same place as me and all my feelings have come back for him...
Q. Overview. We dated, and it was a bad time, so we broke up, quickly and painlessly. I moved on, and he moved on, to home school. A year later I got my first job at McDonalds, then to find out he works there too. Everything came back, all the ...
A. 15 August 2007: I don't think he'd be as shocked as you think to find out you still have feeling for him, and unless you talk to him about it you'll never no if there is something there for you.
What is your relationship like at the moment? Friends, close fr... (read in full...)
Whilst deep down I know she's right, it's really hard and part of me wanted to try a long distance relationship.
Q. I'm relocating at 400 miles for a job, and I have recently being saying goodbye to all my friends that are staying put. Since May I've had a crush on a friend who I suspected (occaisonally) may have returned the feeling, and after walking he...
A. 14 August 2007: Thanks flowergirl I'm a real advocate for communication unfortunately I'm not really going to get a chance to talk to her about it. The timing really was awful. She did say I could ring her, which i probably will and we do have some future plan... (read in full...)
I found out my girlfriend made out with some guy and went down on him at that party.
Q. My girlfriend and I had been dating for a few weeks when she cheated on me with another guy. She confessed about it to a friend of hers, and told me about it at a party a week after it happened. She only told me she kissed him though. A couple ...
A. 14 August 2007: This sounds remarkably like it was lifted from a Hollyoaks script. In my opinion she has already used up all her chances. The fact that she has lied to you repeatly, and even omitted imformation whilst begging to get back with you is out of line. ... (read in full...)
I know he loves me but he's still married, he says that he is going to get a divorce and we will get married and have a life together, but when!
Q. I am in life with a married man who in return really adores me as well. The problem is I do not know if we will be together or not. We have both liked each other for ten years, we use to go out drinking together with mutual friends and...
A. 14 August 2007: I hate to point out the cliché but it's quite a famous situation for a married man to constantly say he intends to leave his wife. Also stalling for time is not a brilliant sign. A year is very long time for this to go on for and if he truely lov... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but I haven't talked to him in ages. Does he have another gf?
Q. I have an internet bf (dont protest against that bit) ive just got a new phone and i cant ring him or antything so i canty talk to him because of the time differences and the fact that he can only use his m8 computer talk to me.I know that he reall...
A. 14 August 2007: This is one of the greatest challenges for long distance couples. If you know he loves you then the first thing you should be able to say, is that if he found someone else you would be the first person he let know (and he would be really upset about ... (read in full...)
What are the signs when a guy is using you? Am I just his "money comfort?"
Q. What are the signs when a guys is using you? He works full time but has called in sick I think too many times. I wish he was more responsible. I feel like I support him and me. Eventhough he gets paid twice as much as me. I am almost everyday buying ...
A. 14 August 2007: The question is do you see this as a long term relationship. I must confess that from my perspective he doesn't sound like he's a good partener.
Your mistake was getting into this situation in the first place $1259 is a lot of money, especial... (read in full...)
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