I'd have bet my life my wife would never, ever cheat on me. But she has...
Q. I met my Wife when I was 21 and she was 17, we were both virgins and this was our first serious relationship for both of us. We have now been together for 17 years and happily married for the last 11 years, we also have an 8 year old boy and a 3 ...
A. 19 May 2006: This is a very tragic situation, for the lack of a better word, and a very complex one too. There’s no simple answer as to what should be done.
Indeed, you had something special, as you seem to be doing reasonably well financially, you have two... (read in full...)
Calling all married couples. How do you feel about first loves and exs??
Q. Hi there. I'd really like to hear from the married amongst us. What feelings do you have towards your 'first loves' and exes. I'm getting married and I have a feeling that the argument about whether to invite his 'THE EX' is looming. ...
A. 19 May 2006: Some couples deal well with the presence of an ex in their lives, others don’t. The basic rule is – it’s fine having a cordial contact or perhaps in some cases even a friendship with an ex, as long as the current partner doesn’t mind. If the current ... (read in full...)
Id like to get out to socialize but he becomes jealous & flips out about it!
Q. I married one of my ex-husbands friends, he lived with us as a roommate and then we began an affair after he moved out. I have a child with both husbands, aged 20 and 11. My husband/ex-hubby's friend/father of my child is extremely jealous and ...
A. 19 May 2006: There is a clear incompatibility between you two, you being more avid for a social life and him preferring the stay at home life style. Yes, that’s something that will always bother both of you, but the good news it doesn’t seem like something ... (read in full...)
She is still in contact with her ex,is she cheating or am i over reacting?
Q. I'm worried that my girlfriend may be cheating on me with her ex. The story is basically this; She went out with him for a short period of time about 5 years ago (possibly more) but broke up with him because he treated her badly (I'm not sure ...
A. 19 May 2006: Your girlfriend has cheated before (“…ended up cheating on him with…”). That’s the first red flag. She says she will stop messaging the guy, yet you catch her resuming her little conversation with him a while later. Another red flag.
With ... (read in full...)
I'm happily married but there's this attractive woman at work who likes me! What should I do?
Q. Hi There. I'm in a spot of bother at the moment. I'm married,quite happily and have 2 children and darly love my wife. BUT.... there's this girl (yeah I know!!!) whom I work with. We get along great and she's really attractive. She's engaged to...
A. 19 May 2006: You shouldn’t feel guilty for your desires. They are natural, everyone has them whether they are committed or not. They are related to your instincts and that’s a consequence of being human.
What you do need to be careful with are your actions.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend pressuring me....should i dump him?
Q. Dear agony aunts, My new boyfriend keeps pressuring me to snog him and to give him blow jobs but i dont want to. Should i dump him?...
A. 19 May 2006: There’s no room for pressure regarding physical intimacies. Everything must necessarily happen naturally and it must be pleasurable to both sides.
When a guy truly loves a girl, he respects her timing and waits, as long as the girl has good sen... (read in full...)
How do you make the first move without looking desperate?
Q. I'll try and keep this short and sweet. I have been dating my bf for awhile, im not a virgin but he is still alot more experienced then i am and said hes not gunna do anything i dont want. I want to have sex but dont know how to make the first mo...
A. 19 May 2006: My advice may be boring and unexciting, but I suggest you wait until he makes the first move. It’s sort of a convention.
If he is delaying the first move he’s probably doing so because he respects you as a “serious” girl, and if you start ta... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has had 6 lovers and I am a virgin
Q. I've been seeing my 22 year old boyfriend for almost 3 months, and last night I learned that he has slept with 6 girls in his past. I'm a 21 year old virgin, and knew that he had had sex before, but I feel so differently now that I know his ...
A. 19 May 2006: I think someone’s past is not “just the past”, like something that can be overlooked and ignored. The past actually tells you a lot about the general outlook on life, values, and principles the person strives for. I find it very important to see how ... (read in full...)
Should I get pregnant by this man
Q. This is really stupid i know but i'm completely in love with this guy, who's told me he wants to have sex with me. The thing is, i know he doesn't have any strong feelings for me, and i'm tempted to try and get pregnant with his baby so i can have a ...
A. 19 May 2006: Besides being very immoral, since it’s extremely selfish, your idea will only lead to unhappiness not only to both you and the man you love, but also to the child itself.
If you tried this like 5 or 6 decades ago, you might have forced the guy ... (read in full...)
I am going to meet my online guy offline and want to know how I can open up and show him how great I am!!!
Q. Well i met this guy at Christmas briefly and i got his msn address. We've spoken ALOT and now I'm going to meet him next week with a friend of mine. He says he really fancies me and i really like him too, im just worried things will be really a...
A. 19 May 2006: First, there’s no problem about feeling shy. I would say a majority feels at least a little awkward in these situations, even if in different degrees.
The fact you are bringing a friend along is going to help you a lot. If you suddenly run out ... (read in full...)
Can you fall in love over the net?
Q. I am currently involved in an online/long distance relationship. Can you fall in love over the net? Is it expecting too much for me to want him to restrain from chatting to other women, especially ex's or girls who he had a previous interest in?? ...
A. 19 May 2006: You have to judge his actions according to the “boundaries” you two have established, and given the peculiarities of “online dating”, I believe these boundaries can only be properly defined if you have talked them through. Don’t expect this or any ... (read in full...)
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