Emotionally sick after going so much, please, how can I be strong and be happy again when I feel otherwise?
Q. The past year has been a rough one. I was in love with this guy and he left me for my best friend and then broke our friendship apart. Then in December one of my really close friends commited suicide unexpectidly. I try to forget about everything ...
A. 27 April 2011: This has been a rough year for you. Losing a friend this way is a terrible pain for you to go through. Anyone who lost a friend or loved one to suicide knows the grief and its not something that can just be ever forgotten. And also betrayal from ... (read in full...)
Emotionally sick after going so much, please, how can I be strong and be happy again when I feel otherwise?
Q. The past year has been a rough one. I was in love with this guy and he left me for my best friend and then broke our friendship apart. Then in December one of my really close friends commited suicide unexpectidly. I try to forget about everything ...
A. 27 April 2011: This has been a rough year for you. Losing a friend this way is a terrible pain for you to go through. Anyone who lost a friend or loved one to suicide knows the grief and its not something that can just be ever forgotten. And also betrayal from ... (read in full...)
Am I a bad person for setting the trap for her to fall into? In my defence, she did some really horrible things!
Q. So I met this girl (we are both 28) when she came to my country on a two month vacation. She was attractive, beautiful and smart (basically the opposite of me ? ) but anyway, we got on well together and things got serious towards the end of her stay ...
A. 28 March 2011: Thanks for the follow up. Don't feel bad how it ended. The best defense is a good offense ( for some people : ) She knew she made an ass out of herself, so she got mad to cover up her embarrassment. You're a nice guy. You should be careful with the ... (read in full...)
Sex addiction is wrecking my relationship.
Q. I think i am a sex addict and I need help to stop my . Before I go on I don't want anyone judging me. I was in a happy relationship with my boyfriend but things started to go south and I wasnt getting the amount of affection or sex i was used t...
A. 28 March 2011: Some people may or may not understand. I think it takes a lot of guts to post this question, and open up about yourself. Its great that you are self aware! So many people just go on sleeping around and not even realising that its a destructive ... (read in full...)
My ex is cheating on her current boyfriend with me......
Q. My ex-girlfriend is cheating on her current boyfriend with me. It had been a year since we broke up and I get a text from her Recently. You can guess what happened from there and is still happening. I say she needs to leave her current boyfriend ...
A. 28 March 2011: Do you still love her, or is it just for sex? She might be thinking about that and she's confused if you are just using her. She might be afraid of you hurting her emotionally, but she loves you still. Her current relationship could have been ... (read in full...)
Am I a bad person for setting the trap for her to fall into? In my defence, she did some really horrible things!
Q. So I met this girl (we are both 28) when she came to my country on a two month vacation. She was attractive, beautiful and smart (basically the opposite of me ? ) but anyway, we got on well together and things got serious towards the end of her stay ...
A. 6 March 2011: Ha ha it's messed up, snooping and tricking.. but a lesson was needed. I don't think its that bad, I could see myself doing what you did given the situation. Bad person? Please, no way! Anyway, if you want to continue with her you could apologize ... (read in full...)
Am I a bad person for setting the trap for her to fall into? In my defence, she did some really horrible things!
Q. So I met this girl (we are both 28) when she came to my country on a two month vacation. She was attractive, beautiful and smart (basically the opposite of me ? ) but anyway, we got on well together and things got serious towards the end of her stay ...
A. 5 March 2011: Ha ha it's messed up, snooping and tricking.. but kinda funny what you did though. Anyway, if you want to continue with her you could apologize and say sorry it wasn't the best thing to do, but you got jealous because you care, and you did travel ... (read in full...)
I am suffocating in this marriage. Is my emotional affair with this other man the answer?
Q. I will try to make my story as brief as possible. But please read and share your views. I have been married for a few years to the man of my own choice and am without kids due to many reasons. My in-laws are very interefering and they have mess...
A. 27 February 2011: It sounds like there's a lot about your marriage that is holding you back from being the person you want to be. It's totally understandable that you are drawn to this guy. It's so annoying being stuck in life because of the pressing circumstances ... (read in full...)
How can he go home and not feel guilty after being with me?
Q. I just wonder why a man doesn't feel bad when he is cheating on his wife? I have been with a married man recently who claims he has no problems in his marriage, but he chooses to sleep with me. I know what some of you will say about me, but my ...
A. 24 February 2011: You have the freedom to be with anyone you want, he on the other hand is married. You are with him because you have feelings for him and you want to know how he feels. Is he with you because he purely wants you, or simply because he feels trapped in ... (read in full...)
I would have left this married man if I could!
Q. I am a 23 year old girl madly and helplessly in love with a 35 year old man who has a 3 year old daughter and an 8 year old son from a 9 year marriage with a 34 year old woman he dated for 5 years before marrying her. i liked him at the word go ...
A. 17 February 2011: You know you should leave him, actually them... you know you want to, but don't know how, because you are so attached to the illusion that he's a perfect man for you. You know you're just under a love spell and don't see him as he really is. He does ... (read in full...)
After having led me on with the promise of a life together, he suddenly decides to bail out. Should I tell his wife about the whole sham?
Q. Where to start. I fell in love with a married man. He told me that he was on his way out of his marriage. He gave me horror stories about his wife. 8, 9, 10 months go by and he and I are more in love than I've ever been with anyone and I'm not ...
A. 13 February 2011: I understand how you feel. Revenge or to save other women, OR there's that chance that they will divorce over this and he will come to you. But Im sure he will lie his way out of it. He will make his wife feel bad for not trusting him, he will be ... (read in full...)
My own insecurities are ruining an otherwise great relationship.
Q. My own insecurities are ruining an otherwise great relationship. I have tried therapy several times and pray for help to overcome these terrible insecurites. I trust my man not to cheat on me and in all other ways. I am attractive and do not look ...
A. 6 February 2011: When you feel down, just start to take care of yourself. Little things like new nail polish can start a domino effect. Nails, hair, clothes, take long walks all the time, then move toward more excersise, eating healthy, organization... All these ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with a girl who has been through a lot. What on earth should I do?
Q. Hello. I've gotten myself into a mess of a relationship and its driving me insane, so I figured it can't hurt to tell my story and see if someone has a word of wisdom to share. Its a long story so I'll get too it. Here it is: I am 17 years old and ...
A. 6 February 2011: She seems like a person who is afraid to get attached, because she can't stand a thought of loss. Going through all the hardships its completely understandable. But she won't let go either. So this is why she keeps pushing you away and then pulling ... (read in full...)
Can you truly love someone and yet have sex with someone else?
Q. I have another posting with more details and a different question, but after reading some other posts (and just being honest with myself) I feel this question needs to be answered as well. Long story short, I met an amazing girl, we had a perfect...
A. 6 February 2011: She told you she loves you while she was with another person, she basically told you that you are just a spare tire. This girl will cheat again. Every I love you will mean that you're ok for now. Sorry to be harsh. Tell her you're reevaluating her, ... (read in full...)
After a turbulent relationship, should I give him space, and how long?
Q. Here is my story in chronological order. After several break ups and being cheated on twice in two relationships, I came to a conclusion in 2008 that I would be ready to get married to anyone who is ready to give me a commitment. During this ...
A. 6 February 2011: There is no perfect relationship. But you have to ask yourself is this what you want? From reading your post I think that you need to take time for yourself and see things clearly for what they are. There's so many guys out there who can and capable ... (read in full...)
Should I go back with my husband???
Q. i need help ! im really in a bad situation and every day im having second thoughts, i left my husband in october of last year, we got in to an argument and i ended with bruises on my arms and a busted lip . i pressed charges against my husba...
A. 3 February 2011: It sounds like you are thinking about getting back with him because you're not happy with your current situation, but not because you want him. Don't get back with him. It's not a healthy relationship, it sounds like it was a mess, and you did the ... (read in full...)
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