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I want this creepy man in my art class to back off, but I don't know how to tell him how. Suggestions?

Q.   Hello nice people of this site! I take drawing lessons weekly with a group of people. They are fun and I really enjoy it, but recently a new guy has joined the class and he's the problem. He doesn't talk to me, he doesn't talk to no one a...

A.   21 March 2013: i agree with *manfox*..i think it would be a mistake to be aggressive with someone like this guy..... (read in full...)

Even although I've fallen for her... should I cut my losses?

Q.   I got so know someone a while back. We met up fairly recently, but since then things have cooled (on this person's part, or so it seems to me). I've had everything - no credit, lots on, need space, etc. Problem is, it's got to the point where ...

A.   20 January 2011: why don't you just ask her outright? the worst that could happen would be that you have to move on with your life. i know it's not easy but at least you will KNOW waht's going on.... (read in full...)

How do I make my boyfriend trust me again?

Q.   Just wandering what some ways to make my boyfriend trust me again. I have a friend he doesn't like and I didn't know until here recently and he is on of my friends that I talk to and hang out with during my 2nd period class. My boyfriend has it in ...

A.   9 December 2010: maybe he's not quite sure what to think..if you don't like the guy, why do you hang out with him and you also refer to him as your friend? even i am a bit confused..but whatever happens, do what makes YOU happy..and maybe spend less time with your ... (read in full...)

I want my married lover to take off his wedding ring when he's out with me

Q.   ok yall i have been dating this man for a least a years and some months! however our relationship is getting deeper and deeper everyday! when the two some us started dating we both agree to no feeling no attachment ! now that time change words have ...

A.   28 October 2010: you need to stop seeing this married man, girl. it will only end in tears..yours.... (read in full...)

My bf is ditching me on my birthday, am I being stupid for feeling hurt?

Q.   Just when I thought my boyfriend loved me, he goes and makes plans to hang with his friends on my birthday. He doesn't even mention it...he also chose not to spend his birthday with me, but I decided not to get angry/hurt since I had known him only ...

A.   28 October 2010: no there's nothing wrong with u feeling hurt by his insensitivity..he probably wants out but has chosen to show, rather than tell you. you need to move on and have yourself a really wonderful time on your birthday..with your friends..goodluck!... (read in full...)

My friend keeps flirting with my boyfriend and I hate it... what can I do?

Q.   Me and my best friend have known each other for 8 years and have been best friends since then, she's always been a bit jealous of my other friends and how i look but now ive been in a relationship for 5 months with a boy i know from air cadets and ...

A.   16 September 2010: i think u need to let both of them know that u don't like it. if she's really ur friend, she won't continue flirting with ur guy knowing it upsets u. u have every right 2 feel uncomfortable about this.... (read in full...)

12 year old boy caught "in the act"

Q.   hi, im a single father and i have a question is it ok is my 12 year old son jacks off. I caught him in"the act" yesterday.i need help please help me....

A.   16 September 2010: it's perfectly normal..gr8 advice from c.grant..... (read in full...)

What about clubbing?

Q.   Clubbing Question.. Where do you stand on clubbing? My significant other likes to go out and club every couple of months. I told her Im ok with anything she does that she would be comfortable doing if I was in the room. Well.. She got wasted one n...

A.   16 September 2010: no u did not overreact. i agree totally with Odds.... (read in full...)

He stopped texting after we had sex, what should I do?

Q.   okay so there is this guy that i have been talking to kind of and we before we started talking we were always really flirty and stuff so finally he gave me his number and we talked a little but not to much and then recently we started talking a lot ...

A.   2 September 2010: there's very little you CAN do..stop sending him text messages..let him come to you. and if he turns up on your doorstep wanting to spend the night AGAIN, bounce him...hard!!!... (read in full...)

He stopped texting after we had sex, what should I do?

Q.   okay so there is this guy that i have been talking to kind of and we before we started talking we were always really flirty and stuff so finally he gave me his number and we talked a little but not to much and then recently we started talking a lot ...

A.   2 September 2010: there's very little you CAN do..stop sending him text messages..let him come to you. and if he turns up on your doorstep wanting to spend the night AGAIN, bounce him...hard!!!... (read in full...)

My fiance of 5 years has just left me, is there any way to make me feel better?

Q.   I've been dumped by my fiancé of five years. Is there anything anyone could suggest that might make people feel better?...

A.   2 September 2010: it's going to be tough but you will be fine. try and go out with friends or get into that project you never seemed to have time for. you need to throw yourself into some sort of activity. don't stay indoors re-living the past, playing your fave ... (read in full...)

Torn between my current stable relationship, and the possibilities of what could happen with this other girl if we were both single.....

Q.   Sooo this may seem like a really confusing question but i thank you in advance if you read this all and give advice Sooo me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 3 years now, we started dating in our senior year of high school and this ...

A.   2 September 2010: hmm..i guess you either leave your current gf or quit the affair with this other girl..you are being very unfair to your gf. if you cannot sustain an exclusive relationship with her please let her go..before you hurt her even more. but, bet you..if ... (read in full...)

Married for 21 years and I'm afraid of being alone

Q.   Because of my husband's affair 3 years ago I could no longer handle the pain, it was always coming up and fights broke out, he provoked things by not being there in conversation, all I could think of was you knew what to converse with other ...

A.   2 September 2010: 21years is a long time and it's easy for people to say 'move on' but the truth is that you need to follow your heart. something kept you together for all those years..it might be best for you both to talk things over. ask yourselves 'what went ... (read in full...)

He ended it, but now he wants to get back together - on HIS terms. What should I do?

Q.   I've been in a long term, long-distance relationship with a guy who basically controls me. I can't do anything without him knowing, he HAS to know what I'm thinking and why I'm thinking that and I'm not allowed to go near any other guy, which is ...

A.   2 September 2010: you are better off without this guy in your life. by the way, you sound like a nice person but you are NOT responsible for his actions..he keeps you on a leash with emotional blackmail. if he loved you he wouldn't be putting you through all this ... (read in full...)

My best friend is hitting on the guy that asked me out!

Q.   I'm so angry right now because of my "best" friend. My apologies for my long-winded story. I knew this guy for about a year, and he used to come to where I work almost every week. I was pretty "ok" friends with him, but I didn't know him all too...

A.   2 September 2010: at this stage i'd say just relax..if he was cold to her, he probably doesn't want to date her. next time you see him, tho', try and get to know him better..you could ask if he'd like to hang out with you..maybe watch a movie, go for a ... (read in full...)

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