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Confused...Am I rejected?

Q.   This guy and I have been seeing each other for a few months now. He lives in a different state. At the beginning, he was always messaging me and chasing me and we started getting intimate and had sex about 1 month after. He says he loves having ...

A.   30 October 2009: U should speak to him clearly about ur feelings. looks like its over. When he cant name what this relationship is to him then he never wanted a serious relationship with u. get over him and this relationship.... (read in full...)

I'm married and in love with a younger co-worker. What should I do?

Q.   Hi All, I'm a 30yr old Married man for 1 year now, but have been in the current relationship for 10 years. After a very long engagement we finally got married, not because we didn't want to, it was just a money thing. We have 2 kids. One form ...

A.   28 October 2009: I would suggest you spend more time with ur wife and kids. If penny is the only reason for u to leave ur wife and kids then why dont u tell ur feelings clearly with penny. there are chances that she wont leave her boy friend for u. If she rejects u ... (read in full...)

She says she can't stand me asking if she's seeing someone else, but she never wants to have sex! So she must be cheating, right?

Q.   My girlfriend and I are having a problem seeing things from the same point of view. We've been together for almost two years and I have told her from the start that as long as we have sex and I am sexually satisfied, that we'll be happy and I w...

A.   28 October 2009: If she was sleeping wiht some one else then she wud have left u by now. looks like u just need sex from ur girl friend. Why dont u just show little respect and love to the lady. be with her. dont go straight for sex. just talk and make her feel... (read in full...)

There simply is no answer to the question “Now what?”

Q.   I have no direction in life; none. There simply is no answer to the question “Now what?” I’m unhappy, tired and demoralized. I want to change in so many ways. I know I’m not alone as I’ve read this same story over and over in the DearCupid ar...

A.   25 October 2009: I can understand what ur going through at this time. Can you pls drop a reply to the id i'm posting from. ... (read in full...)

I want her to want me sexually

Q.   i was wondering how i can get my girlfriend to want me sexually any suggestions?...

A.   25 October 2009: as already said, ur young and there is enough time for these things later.... (read in full...)

First time sex on wedding night

Q.   first i want to know about the first tmie of sex in wedding night.what shuold i do to be patient for my life partner for prevention of more bleeding and pain. I am waiting for response. Regards, ...

A.   25 October 2009: if its an arranged marriage , try to talk to the girl opening. try to be frend to her first. if u still ahve time for the wedding and u think she is virgin then better start talking to her from now. if u cant then atleast try to be nice and kind to ... (read in full...)

2 years and I love him so much but I'm bored!

Q.   Hiya, Ive been with my boyfriend for 2years now and I love him to bits and hope to end up marrying him. However im so confused with my feelings- because im SO bored now and we're having less sex which makes me feel un loved and un wanted. I jus...

A.   25 October 2009: Try to work it out. this is common after some time. we cant expect that we will be having honey moon time always. after the first few months we feel this way. try to rekindle the lost love. try to take a vacation. try exploring new things together... (read in full...)

I can't tell if I'm pregnant and I'm afraid to tell my parents!

Q.   I had my period for the first three months and missed the fouth and got it the fifth month. Could i be pregnant? I havent had any symptoms and my periods are usually irregualar. HELP!!! Im scared that i was pregnant and that i had sex for the first ...

A.   25 October 2009: it doesnt look like ur pregnant. be careful next time. take this as a lesson and dont repeat such mistakes. have protective sex going forward. ... (read in full...)

I can't get over my ex-fiance and now he's married

Q.   i cant get over my ex fiance. i have tried really hard. when we were together he was very matter of fact and not emotionally caring. i did so much for him. we were together about 3 1/2 years. we got engaged together about 6 months after we met and ...

A.   25 October 2009: try to forget everything and make a new beginning. try to change urself. try not to trust anybody so easily. be careful now that u learnt a good lesson think twice before u act. now u will not get anything thinking abt this. so better move on in ur ... (read in full...)

I've hurt my cousin and now I feel badly

Q.   ok here it goes im 16 and mycousin is 19 we don't see each other very often but he is very protective the other day i went ouy drinking and my ex-bf(beater) texted my cousin he got really worried and told my aunt i got really mad i told him to fuck ...

A.   25 October 2009: you really did a mistake. u need to develop more patience in u so that next time u think before acting in an instinct. for now just wait. time will best heal u and him. later after some time u can talk to him about this. there is no use thinking ... (read in full...)

B/f's boyfriend says he loves me behind her back

Q.   My best friend is going out with a boy I've liked for 2 years and its very awkward to be around. He would say he loves me in proper behind her back once and again and I don't know how to re-act to this. Any advice? ...

A.   25 October 2009: Start ignoring him if he still does it then u warn him about the consequences he wil be facing if u let her know about this. ... (read in full...)

I'm still in love with my ex and I don't know if I should try and move on or wait around for him?

Q.   some of you lot have probably read my posts from before lol. but basically i have dumped my boyfriend now, and i know how much i love my ex. and now i have been talkin to one of his best mates for a while now, and she is quite new to the town, so...

A.   24 October 2009: pls move on with your life. dont go back and go thru all the pain and trouble again. forget ur past and make a fresh and new start.... (read in full...)

Should I end my marriage or stay in it for my son ??

Q.   37 years old, successful doctor, married for 8 years and have only one child .. he is 6. I am in love with another woman for sometime now .... she doesn't want the role of being mistress ... she want a full relationship and to divorce my wife if I ...

A.   24 October 2009: You didnt write how long you have been knowing this other women? U had already cheated on ur wife before and you think your wife does not know this? Before divorcing pls think about ur child's future. Also may be ur mistaken and you think that u... (read in full...)

Should I feel guilty about watching porn?

Q.   I watch a lot of porn and can't help myself everytime I try to stop. Should I feel guilty about this?...

A.   24 October 2009: watching porn once in a while is ok. this is the time for u to build a career and think about ur future. its just my advice that its ok if u do watch it some times. but if its daily and ur spending hrs on it then its serious. best way to redu... (read in full...)

I don't want his ex wife to be involved with him!

Q.   I am in love with this guy who also says that he loves me and I know he does through his actions and all however, he was married about 2 years ago and has a baby from his ex wife. The thing is that she is always around; calling him, coming to his ...

A.   24 October 2009: He is having a baby with his ex, obviously its difficult for him to forget the baby. may be he is rite that he dont love her anymore and may be for baby's sake he cant say her to not contact him. but yes u can convince him to talk to her about not ... (read in full...)

How can I help him see I'm trust worthy?

Q.   I have been with this guy for a little over a year our begaining wasn't so good. I have learned to trust him but he still don't trust me. How can I help him see I'm trust worthy?...

A.   24 October 2009: He needs to develop trusting you. that is all i can say. he needs to work on it and not u. You love him and you trust him and he should notice that and work out how you both can live happily. ... (read in full...)

How safe is a condom?

Q.   How safe is it to use the condom during sexual intercourse? Im' rather curious as some people do get pregnant using condoms at times....

A.   9 October 2009: i read somewhere that your safe and can avoid pregnancy by using it upto 99% but there is still that 1% of failure. sometimes in the middle of the action it mite tear. so its not 100% safe.... (read in full...)

He has a child with another women and I don't like sharing!

Q.   Im sharing my boyfriend with other woman and im not happy because she has a child with him. What should I do? I love him so much I dont want to loose him....

A.   9 October 2009: Is your boy friend married to other women. if so then ur in between their happiness. looks like that to me. Also if they are not married then it is obvious from ur question that he cant leave the other women becoz she gave him a child. It ca... (read in full...)

He has a child with another women and I don't like sharing!

Q.   Im sharing my boyfriend with other woman and im not happy because she has a child with him. What should I do? I love him so much I dont want to loose him....

A.   9 October 2009: Is your boy friend married to other women. if so then ur in between their happiness. looks like that to me. Also if they are not married then it is obvious from ur question that he cant leave the other women becoz she gave him a child. It ca... (read in full...)

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