Decided to give cheating boyfriend another go but having a hard time of it.
Q. Quite recently i discovered that my boyfriend had slept with my best friend while we were together. We have decided to stay together and worked out our differences. I sometimes have a hard time and have started to become a little controlling, i also ...
A. 19 May 2006: My goodness.. Your situation sounds strikingly similar to one I have gone through, and I promise you I know EXACTLY how you feel.
It will never be the same. After someone has broken your trust as this piece of shit guy has, something that was... (read in full...)
He's not the "best boyfriend" because I know he cheated. So do I get him the trophy anyway?
Q. So its Valentine's Day, and I've never really done anything special for my significant other. This year I thought of a really cute idea for my boyfriend but I'm not sure if its 100% sincere. I want to get him this Best Boyfriend Trophy but I don't ...
A. 18 February 2006: Well I didn't end up getting him the trophy. I got him some nice comfy house slippers which he loves and wears all the time now! I felt so relieved!! We both agreed to never stress out that much about gifts and to just be thankful about the time we ... (read in full...)
How do you know when it's officially "over"?
Q. How do you know when it is officially over ? When you have been through so many ups and downs with a person and you've given it everything because you knew it was worth it. When you've experienced and felt so many excellent feelings with this person ...
A. 11 February 2006: Little update to the situation.. We met up downtown this afternoon.. He looked like crap from how much he had been drinking the past couple of days. And the thing is that he's not even a drinker. He quit years ago, and had told me that he drank the ... (read in full...)
We split and, I don't know why, but I texted her, accusing her of sleeping with other guys!
Q. Have I made it worse? After splitting with my gf (her choice)and going through a couple of days of torture and tears, I managed to go a day without texting her. Then I decided while witholding to ring her phone for a reason, I don't know why, at ...
A. 3 February 2006: No.. I don't think you've completely ruined everything!!!You just sound like you're spazzin out waaaaay too much. Try to just chill for a little bit and occupy yourself with other things than worrying about texting her. You sound like you have ... (read in full...)
I just need a second chance to remind my ex how much we loved each other!
Q. Dear Cupid My ex boyfriend and I have been broken up for almost a year but we were dating for about 1 year and 6 months. We broke up due to the fact he did not trust me and said I was a flirt, so basically it was a jealousy problem. He always prom...
A. 3 February 2006: This is a tricky situation.. that I can completely understand. You love him and want to be with him. He loves you too but just needs space.. and that is totally cool. Him having space will probably help him realize exactly what it is he wants with ... (read in full...)
He broke off with me for talking to his friends! Now I just want to find a way to move on with life...
Q. Well you see, I'm 15 years old and I fell in love with a guy named Daniel about a year ago. He was my everything and still is. He hurt me a lot but I hurt him a lot too. Recently, he broke up with me for the stupidest reason in the world!! (B/c I t...
A. 23 January 2006: Wow.. I can almost completely relate to how you're feeling. Only I have actually gotten back with him right after he completely hurt my feelings. And from my experience.. It's all bad... Trust me, I know it sucks to hear, but at least you're READY ... (read in full...)
How can I figure out what to do in life? And get motivated?
Q. I am currently in my first year at university and im taking education..i just completed my first semester and iam now on a probation because i didn't recieve a high enough average. i also failed math so im retaking it this semester but i just feel ...
A. 22 January 2006: If you have set a goal for yourself, that is an excellent first step. If you truly feel that being a teacher is not what you wanted, start figuring out what else you're into. I think being a teacher is an awesome profession and as long as you stay ... (read in full...)
He says he cares but wants to get his life together...I'm confused!
Q. I have been talking to this guy for 2 months but he says he doesnt want a relationship right now because he wants to get his life together but still wants to keep things between us the same. He says he really cares about me and doesnt want to hurt ...
A. 20 January 2006: If you really like this guy, you should definetely respect that he wants to get his life together. It think it's excellent that he's focused on that first! Wouldn't it be kind of selfish for him to dive right into a relationship with you before he ... (read in full...)
Tell me about yoga...
Q. Dear cupid, I want to get back into shape,live ahealthy life and find myself and I've heard some people having beautifil experiences with yoga, and meditation, how exaxctly do you do this? What is yoga, and how do you practice yoga successful...
A. 20 January 2006: If you're honestsly trying to lead a healthier, happier lifestyle, yoga is definetely something to try. Not only do you physically feel better, it affects you in a spiritual way also. The more you allow yourself to be open to yoga, the greater it ... (read in full...)
Does he deserve a second chance despite what he did?
Q. So yesterday had been the day my world was turned completely upside down and I had endured the worst betrayal imaginable!!!!!! I had been in a relationship with a guy for 3 months. Which were 3 of the most amazing months I ever shared with any pers...
A. 18 January 2006: A little update to this situation ..
He came over my house 2 nights ago and we had a looong talk about so many different things that we've come to realize about each other.. I explained to him that I forgive him and that I have absolutely no bitt... (read in full...)
There is a big age gap and what does he really want?
Q. Hi I am 16 years old and have a part time job. About four months ago a new chef started at work. After the 2nd weekend of working together he started texting me. He says he really fancies me and he has even said he is in love with me. The only pro...
A. 15 January 2006: First off, I'm 17 and have been in relationships with older guys. I recognize that yes, I am a lot more mature than most 17 year olds which is why I can never get serious with someone my age. Since dating these older guys,I have learned more than I ... (read in full...)
Can we still be friends after our breakup? Ladies, your comments appreciated...
Q. You don't know what you got till it's gone. Those words have never rung so true since my girlfriend of two and a half years broke up with me a little over a month ago. I'm going to put as much information as possible in this post, because I believe ...
A. 15 January 2006: First off, I think its awesome that you've been mature enough to accept and respect her space. And what's even better is that during this time you've began to work on making yourself a more healthy and positive person !
I believe that to truly be... (read in full...)
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