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writes: So its Valentine's Day, and I've never really done anything special for my significant other. This year I thought of a really cute idea for my boyfriend but I'm not sure if its 100% sincere.I want to get him this Best Boyfriend Trophy but I don't really think he is the BEST boyfriend. He's cheated on me by kissing another girl, I've made the decision to move forward from it, and yes, still love him. But of course it'll piss me off time to time when I think about it. I don't know that he deserves a Best Boyfriend trophy...I might just look really hard for some nice house slippers that he really needs.. And I'm cooking a great caribbean dish from this really cool cook book his grandma got me for Christmas! Does he deserve the trophy though ?
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reader, lisa_01  +, writes (20 February 2006):
 sorry if i had offended you with that comment, im not one to beleave in second chances due to bad experiences i have had in the past and i often get mad when i hear stories of people cheating, but it was unfair for me to make that comment because i dont know your situation in full or anything about your relationship, its good to see that your making closure and moving on, i wish you both the best of luck for the future. happy to hear that the slippers was a successful gift.
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reader, SherreeBee +, writes (18 February 2006):
SherreeBee is verified as being by the original poster of the question Well I didn't end up getting him the trophy. I got him some nice comfy house slippers which he loves and wears all the time now! I felt so relieved!! We both agreed to never stress out that much about gifts and to just be thankful about the time we spend together:-)And to respond to lisa01.. He hasn't "gotten away with cheating.." It was something that yes, was extremely wrong on his part and I don't find anything to justify it. But I made the decision to give it a second chance, and move forward with everything. I haven't forgotten though!! I've been experiencing a whole new positive side of him and our relationship has improved A LOT..
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reader, lisa_01 +, writes (16 February 2006):
well it does not sound like you have gotten over it because you still think about it and you still get pi**ed off about it, i ask you this, why are you even with this guy still? and to be honesty with you i dont think your b/f deserves sh*t for valentines day, sorry if im abit harsh but i hate when people cheat while in a relationship and then get away with it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2006): Kissing... Cheating? Okay, sure why not. However you know, if you don't think he is the best boyfriend, then why are you even asking this question in the first place? You don't need strangers or other people to tell you what you should be doing, when you already told yourself!
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (15 February 2006):
 Has his behaviour improved since? Has he behaved in an exemplary manner and does he treat you properly now. Then get it!
If it is gonna p**s you off all the time, dont. You will just make yourself miserable.
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