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writes: Well you see, I'm 15 years old and I fell in love with a guy named Daniel about a year ago. He was my everything and still is. He hurt me a lot but I hurt him a lot too.Recently, he broke up with me for the stupidest reason in the world!! (B/c I talked to his friend and he doesn't want me to talk to them b/c he thinks I'm checking up on him) All I wanted to do was be friends with his friends too. I mean he talks to my friends all the time and he's become friends with them. I wasn't gonna check up on him. Well I'm like really depressed and even though he says it won't be forever I wanna be able to move on, so that when he asks me out again, I can say NO. Don't get me wrong, I'd do anything to be with him again, but it just isn't the right thing at the moment. He's hurt me too much and I just don't know what to do anymore. Please help me. I really need advice on how to move on. I can't stop thinking of him and I'm crying so much. I know I'm young but please help. Thank You. Bye.
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reader, SherreeBee +, writes (23 January 2006):
 Wow.. I can almost completely relate to how you're feeling. Only I have actually gotten back with him right after he completely hurt my feelings. And from my experience.. It's all bad... Trust me, I know it sucks to hear, but at least you're READY to TRY and move on, because that is what I really wanted to do at first but couldn't because I was too much in love.
But you CANNOT let your emotions take over and lead to a decision that you KNOW in your heart is not right. Woman's intuition! If you know getting over him is something you need to do, then so be it! You're a strong girl for thinking liek this right away! It will hurt for a while, yes, but once you have recovered, you'll be more confident than ever! I promise...
Good Luck and try to stay positive, and occupied with doing good things for YOURSELF!
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (22 January 2006):
 I can only agree with your assesment of his reason for breaking up with you. I can't quite see from what you write here how you hurt him. To be honest from what you have said here it seems much more likely that you are torturing yourself but in actual fact he was mostly likely at fault.
Recognising this and stoping any self-torture is the first step forward you need to take. I agree with you that going back would be a bad step with so much pain having been caused. Do things that make you happy or at least distract you. Dont be afraid to confide in your friends and hopefully you will be able to go out with them.
Maybe you should think about looking beyond this guy and seeing if there are any others out there who can make you happy and who will let you share there friends. Take care. I hope you feel better soon.
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