Suggestions for spicing things up?
Q. I feel my sex life is getting a little stale. We see each other always one morning a week, same morning, same routine. The sex is amazing but we're getting in a rut. Does anyone have any suggestions for spicing it up? We can't really do a diff...
A. 8 March 2012: Our children go to their other parent's homes on the same night. That is the reason for the always day. We do meet on other days from time to time but ALWAYS that one day. We have our children on opposite weekends. We have decided not to involve ... (read in full...)
Why do I have a sour smell and discharge from my vagina ever since I started taking birth control pills?
Q. Hi I am a female 18 years old. I started taking birth control about 4 months ago and I think at about this time me and my bf noticed my private having a sour smell . I never use to notice it until we had sex but now I notice it without even having ...
A. 7 March 2012: It's probably VB or vaginal bacteriosis, I think I spelled that right. Go see your doctor. It's no big deal he can put you on the correct antibiotics.
Sometimes his fluid can cause you to get an infection. I suggest you continue using condoms.... (read in full...)
How do I move on? I need to get her out of my mind for my kids sake....
Q. I am 40 years old and married with my 35 years old wife for 17 years.we have 4 children and our relationship was not going good.ten months ago my wife had an outburst and she left me leaving our 4 children with me to look after.she said to me she ...
A. 27 April 2011: I suggest you find a really good therapist.
You will never completely get her out of your head, you have 4 children together which means you should be parenting together. I think the best thing you can do is make ammends and accept the demise o... (read in full...)
I cheated on my wife...shoud I tell her or not?
Q. I really need some help. Especially from people that have been in my situation. It was my birthday last week. My wife and I went out with a couple of co-workers. We had a good time. She had to go home early, because she had to work the next da...
A. 1 April 2011: Telling her will only ease your mind. It will destroy her world. Keep it to yourself and live with the guilt.... (read in full...)
My best friend and I have had sex with the same guys, she tested positive for an STD but I didnt, how does this happen?
Q. My best friend and I have sex with the same guys (threesome). She recently was tested positive for chlmydia. I freaked out and got tested too but my results were negative. How can this be? Has anyone ever had an std and been through a similiar ...
A. 28 March 2011: My guy had an STD and I did not. So yes it's possible.... (read in full...)
The more serious we get, the more she treats me like a child. Help!
Q. Dear Cupid As I get closer to committing, my beautiful lady "babies" me more and more. (This is not kinky) I am a man, I have the ring to propose to her, I adore her. I can't live my life as a half child! Or maybe that is somethin...
A. 28 March 2011: You're 17 and going to propose? Some women have natural mothering instincts towards people they care for. Perhaps this is her way of showing you she loves you. And if it bothers you then ya'll should discuss it before you start to resent it.... (read in full...)
Why does boyfriend keep me a secret from his family?
Q. Ive being in a relationship for the last 5 months. This isnt an easy relationship as I dont get why my bf never asks me to meet his family. We live really close to each other but he never asks me round his house unless there no one there. This guy ...
A. 23 March 2011: Is it possible he's married?... (read in full...)
Having an affair with a married man who is in love with my best friend!
Q. Me and Chris are best friends. We know each other so much and we shared lots of things. and I was attracted to him but then i just kept it to myself. He is married by the way. The story starts here...he fell in love with another girl (SAM) and he ...
A. 25 February 2011: wow.... Sounds like you are getting played! You've got to stop sleeping with him for one. You can't stop what you feel you must learn to hold back your feelings, until he is DIVORCED. Eventually you won't have such strong feelings for him. If it ... (read in full...)
I'm not opposed to a threesome but I feel the girl and my man might become a little too interested in each other...
Q. My wonderful boyfriend and I have been together for 9 years. He is very good looking, in beautiful shape, great eyes, and not to mention well endowed.. So, one night this past summer, we almost had a threesome with a girl he met first, but I ...
A. 25 February 2011: I'm gonna go against what everyone else is saying. If you are serious about inviting this woman into ya'lls bedroom, she needs to know that they can only be together when you're around. You and your man need to set ground rules. One last thing ... (read in full...)
I lied... should I tell him the truth?
Q. I'm fourteen and me and my boyffriend's relationship is getting serious. The other day he asked me if I've ever had sex and I lied and said no, should I tell him the truth? ...
A. 19 September 2010: I think the truth is always the best answer, however he may be upset with you for lying. Just explain it to him.... (read in full...)
Do you heal after anal sex?
Q. After anal sex if you noticed your butt whole is stretched can it heal back down to its original size please help I am freaking out here!...
A. 19 September 2010: Yes it will go back to it's original size!!!... (read in full...)
Should I walk away or try to help him?
Q. I need to know if I'm wasting my time with my boyfriend. Here is a little about us we meet online june of 08 I didn't know he was married I just broke up with my husband of 22 yrs cause of his cheating. I find out he is married and I know I should ...
A. 13 September 2010: Don't walk, RUN!!! ... (read in full...)
Can I take my contraceptive pill early?
Q. Hey, This is a question about the contaceptive pill.. i was jsut wondering if, on the 7 day break that you have after your 21 days taking the pill, if i have to wait the whole 7 days, or can i take my pill earlier. I took my last pill on wednesday, ...
A. 30 August 2010: you can! you may end up with some break through bleeding.... (read in full...)
Having trouble staying interested in straight sex with my wife
Q. I have been faithful to my wife for the better part of two decades. I love her very much. Physically, however, I find myself having grown very bored with "regular" sex over the last few years. When we have sex, I have to fantacise to get into it. ...
A. 30 August 2010: I think I would approach it as "honey, do you have any sexual fantisies or desires i could help you out with?" She's probably going to be a little taken back, but I think she'll come around. Keep talking to her about her wants and desires and then ... (read in full...)
Women, what kind of porn do you like?
Q. straight women, what kind of porn do u like?...
A. 17 August 2010: I like porn with a story line. ... (read in full...)
How can I suggest adding a girl to our threesome?
Q. I am a 32 year old male and have been in a relationship with another 29 year old man for the last eight years. About 5-6 times a year, we have a threesome with another male. I would like to note this has never caused a problem for us, neither have ...
A. 7 July 2010: I think you should just throw it out there. "Hey babe, I was thinking that i'd like to add a woman into our next 3some. What do you think". Jump in with both feet... Good luck!... (read in full...)
Do you tell partners your real number of past lovers if they ask?
Q. Another poll for you ladies: Do you tell partners your real number of past lovers if they ask? If not, how far off are you? A) Yes, I tell them my real number if they ask B) I tell them my number of "real" boyfriends or relationships, bu...
A. 30 June 2010: I tell the real number.... (read in full...)
I'm falling for my teacher! What should I do?
Q. so i am falling for my teacher. he is 23 and i am 17. we will both be 24 and 18 respectively this year. i dont know what to do. i know it's wrong but i really like him. we have had some deep conversations and we really connect. i just dont know what ...
A. 21 June 2010: You should stay away from him until after you graduate. He could lose his job even if you are of age and a willing participant. Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Could this be cancer or am I pregnant? Help!
Q. Hello all! I need YOUR help and adivce desperately...Okay, so a little over two weeks ago, I noticed a small bump on my cervix and ignored it. The next day, I had sex with my boyfriend and about two days later, noticed the bump was gone. At that ...
A. 21 June 2010: I've been told that if you have a lump and it moves or goes away it isn't cancer. The bleeding after intercourse is called post coital bleeding. The gyno explained it to me like this: you have lots of blood vessels on your cervix and when these ... (read in full...)
How can I keep this from my ex?
Q. I had broken up with my ex 6 months back.After which there was this guy in my life whom i got intimated with :( I know it was a mistake.I've stopped talking to the guy but its like i have to see him very often at meetings and gatherings. How do...
A. 18 June 2010: Don't tell him! It's that simple. The two of you were/are broken up so that makes it none of his business.... (read in full...)
Why does she essentially require that I have an erection during oral sex?
Q. My fiance and I have a pretty good sex life but it's not without some quirks. I've always enjoyed giving her oral sex. She claims that I'm the first who has been able to bring her to orgasm this way. The problem is that she essentially requ...
A. 18 June 2010: I had to text my bf to ask if he stayed erect while performing orally. How does she even know you're not erect? I believe it is totally unreasonable of her to require you remain erect. One more thing to add, why do so many of you make men in their ... (read in full...)
Please help - In love with two amazing men.
Q. I need help. Desperately. I am in love with two men. Two amazing men. They are both kind, loving, caring, funny, gorgeous and the problem is, they both love me. They both have asked me to marry them in fact. Now to an average person this would sound ...
A. 1 June 2010: I understand where you are coming from. I think you should go with guy number 2. The first guy has already hurt you, and lowered you self esteem. The second guy picked up the pieces and put you back together. He loves you for who you are. I'm ... (read in full...)
Should I see if the other guy can satisfy me?
Q. I`ve had three lovers in my life and the biggest of the three was my ex hubby just at 5inches and 5inches in girth before my bf now witch is almost 4inches long and 4.5 around. I noticed the difference the first time he put it in and I was let ...
A. 16 May 2010: I would love to say size doesn't matter, but it does. I have found that length in particular makes a difference. If you want to try the other guy out then you need to set your guy free. ... (read in full...)
Is it safe to have sex during periods without using a condom?
Q. hi is it safe to have sex during periods without using a condoms...
A. 16 May 2010: I got pregnant with my first child while I was on my period. ... (read in full...)
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