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... Send *even_Deadlies a private message | | | *even_Deadlies's profile:My name is Kay and I live in the little country of Wales, United Kingdom.
I'm a people person and I like learning about different people and cultures. I love to make people laugh, I guess that's what keeps me going when things get rough.
I have quite a lot of experience, most of it has made me who I am today, yet most of it I could have done without. But still, I have plenty to share and I tell it how it is, not how you want to hear it.
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1st cousin sex forbidden?
Q. i'm catholic and want to know if having sex with 1st cousin is forbidden to have sex with 1st cousin....
A. 22 May 2009: Yes. Sex with your cousin is very much frowned upon and illegal.... (read in full...)
What is foreplay?
Q. I have been having sex for a while but I am not sure what forplay is, I need help with this. ...
A. 19 May 2009: Foreplay is everything before sex, like oral. ... (read in full...)
Cheated on b/f with best friend
Q. i cheated on my bf with my best friend......... now i don know how to tell him as i reli jus don wanna lose him at any cost.. i love my bf a lot... should i tell him...???? if yes, how????? plz help........
A. 18 May 2009: If you loved him, you wouldn't have cheated on him really. The best thing is to tell him straight away, the longer you leave it the harder it will for you to tell him and the harder it will for him to forgive you. So do it as soon as you can other ... (read in full...)
How do I help my friend clear her name up? They had sex in the school park & everyone is talking about it
Q. Hello cupids, ok so my friend and her boyfriend (now her ex) has had sex in a school park..so while they were having sex this one girl claimed that she seen them.so now the girl who have seen them been going around our whole school telling ppl what ...
A. 13 May 2009: The attention span of school kids is very short. Eventually if you and your friend just dismiss this rumour, they will all find something else to talk about.
Its a horrible feeling knowing that people are talking about you in the wrong way so k... (read in full...)
I am so worried that I could be pregnant, any advice?
Q. I am 17 years old, I recently gave birth to my beatiful 8 month old daughter. I never had any symptoms of being pregnant with my daughter. The only symptoms was me getting bigger!!! I promised myself that I would NOT have sex again until I got ...
A. 5 May 2009: Because you are worrying so much it isn't helping. When people think they are pregnant and worry, sometimes their body reacts to the stress and people mistake as a sign that they are pregnant.
But to be really sure you are better off waiting ... (read in full...)
My online friend sometimes ignores me!
Q. why is it that this girl that i chat with online is all loving and nice one day, saying she misses me and stuff like that, and then the next day she completely ignores me, like when i say hi? that drives me insane! i just don't get it! i hate ...
A. 5 May 2009: I have a tendancy to sign in on msn and then forget to tell people that I've gone, so I usually get loads of people trying to talk to me.
Other times I get really busy on my laptop so I haven't really got time to talk to people so I ignore t... (read in full...)
I don't want to tell my boyfriend that my baby is not his. Help!
Q. Im 15 and im 10weeks pregnant, i do have a boyfriend who i have been with for about a year but in febuary we had a break and i got a bit drunk and slept with another boy. And i know for a fact the baby is his. i got back with my boyfriend about a ...
A. 3 May 2009: You're 15? Where are your parents, dont they have something to say about this? And your boyfriend is okay with this? If you know for certain that the baby is not his then you better tell him sooner rather than later. But why you're pregnant a... (read in full...)
Telling the difference between friends? or more?
Q. I have never really had any close guy friends, so when it comes to boys i'm clueless as to whether I fancy them or if they are just a really good mate. How can I tell the difference?...
A. 3 May 2009: If you start acting differently around them and get excited knowing that you're going to see them thats a major sign that you fancy them.
Little things like trying to impress them and when you can see yourself being really happy with them is a sig... (read in full...)
How should I do it? Do you think I should break up with him?
Q. In simple terms - my relationship with my boyfriend, feels like a friendship. I don't know; maybe I jumped to conclusions deciding I liked him, maybe I did at the time but not now, maybe I should have waited to get to know him better. When he a...
A. 1 May 2009: I think you a have a big crush. Thrill of the chase if you know what I mean. The best thing is to tell him you've been feeling like this. And that he seems more of a friend, instead of stringing him on. Either that or you can really make the ... (read in full...)
My mum is sleeping with my boyfriend
Q. I've been seeing my boyfriend for about 8 months. We get on great and have an amazing sex life. When we have sex we always film it. It's just a bit of a kinky thing we do. My Mum, who's in her mid-forties, is always saying how good looking my boyfr...
A. 1 May 2009: Well you can't let this go. You don't know how long they've been at it. So you definately have to confront her. Make sure you have the tape as proof for starters and then set her aside and ask her if there's anything she wants to admit to you. If... (read in full...)
To cheat or not to cheat? That is the question!
Q. hi, i seem to be getting myself into abit of a predicament. im starting to get feelings for a girl who already has a boyfriend. we get on really well and flirt with each other etc. she also stays round mine every now and then and we cuddle up in be...
A. 1 May 2009: No you shouldn't try anything with her. Be there for her of course but set the boundries, as hard as that might be. She needs to know that you are her friend and will be there, but you will wait. So less of the cuddles. If she wants you as much as ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he care?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 6years now and things were great for a long time, he was always so caring and so loving and made me feel special by doing nice things for me. But for the last year now he has made feel as though i am nothing to him ...
A. 1 May 2009: He's been using you... badly. I can't believe you've put up with this. Don't even think about getting back with him! He doesn't want you, he didn't even want his own child and made you get rid of it! What a selfish man. You are so much better o... (read in full...)
A question about virginity for all the boys out there
Q. This is mainly aimed at boys but girls can answer too, i would like to know, if a girl said that she wanted to lose her virginity to you but didn't want to be in a relationship with you, would you mind? Or would that be a problem for you? Thanks....
A. 1 May 2009: For your first, I wouldn't recommend it. Plus if the word gets around that you'd give sex with no catch, could you imagine the attention you'd get for the wrong reason? If you ever did want a proper realtionship, you'd probably be used then. ... (read in full...)
Is he not going to text me for a while since I did the same?
Q. Ok, so there's this guy I met him in a restaurant I always go to. He asked me for my number so he can always have my food ready before I get there. We started talking, and then he kept telling me he liked me and how he just needed to have my number ...
A. 1 May 2009: I think he's loving the attention. The fact that you've been texting him all the time and eagerly waiting a reply, and then not to get one, keeps him satisfyed, if you know what I mean. I suggest you stop texting him and actually meet him. He'll ... (read in full...)
Why was he so giving in bed and not the relationship?
Q. My ex was very selfish and basically used me for sex. I lost my virginity to him and he took advantage of that. He was, however, very giving during sex, which I find really weird. He would always go down on me and I only did it a couple times for ...
A. 1 May 2009: Because he was using you hun. I've been there and it does suck. My ex actually told me that it was a way to keep me coming back for more, for a while it was true, then I saw clearly, but no one should ever use you like that. Be glad he is your ex ... (read in full...)
I think I'm ready, but how do you know if you're ready for a sexual relationship?
Q. Hey, Theres been alot of boys who have asked me for sex, hand job, head job etc... But im still a virgin, i havent given head job or hand job or been fingered, the firther-est ive been is like kissing and its really embarressing. I feel that im re...
A. 1 May 2009: Sex is a big step, plus its not all as good as people say it is. When you loose your virginity you will remember it forever so give it a couple of years and eventually you will find a guy who loves you and when you are ready, it will come naturally. ... (read in full...)
How do I go about asking out a girl I barely know?
Q. There's this girl at my school, I barely know her and yet I like her. The only things I know are her name and year (She's 2 years younger than me) because we both did an afterschool activity (I think she doesn't do it anymore though). I'm think...
A. 1 May 2009: It's a bit weird having a guy you hardly know ask you out. She might be put off by your forwardness and get the wrong idea about you. Get to know her, you really havent got anything to lose. If you get her email or msn then you can really get to ... (read in full...)
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